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What should I do about my boyfriend's porn habits making me uncomfortable?

I don't care that my boyfriend watches porn. He can watch it as much as he wants, whatever. But I found some extreme porn on he history of my laptop that makes me uncomfortable. Before you say that I was snooping here's what happened. I was doing homework online. My boyfriend for some reason thinks that I closed a tab that I didn't want him to see. So he takes the laptop and looks at the history and sees that I didn't close anything but I also see all the porn he had closed out of. To tease I said "ooh what were YOU looking at haha?" And so I clicked on one randomly. He was watching rosebudding porn and it made me really uncomfortable so I tried to talk to him about it but he continuously ignored me and then proceed to plan video games until 3 in the morning. I hate being ignored and it really freaked me out. I don't care about the other porn he watches and he does watch some other porn that's far from vanilla.
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  • oooh, talk to someone about his secret sexual desires or fantasies is very bad idea. There is a reason he didn't tell you about things. There are always sexual fantasies that you dont share with anyone, that are just yours, and you can feel very pushed in the corner if someone knows about it and want to talk with you about it.
    I think you souldnt try to talk about it if he doesn't want to, it would be really rude.

    Nearly everyone got some extreme sexual fantasies, or is just curious about something. And you can make a person really vunlerable if you find out and even push her/him into the corner to speak about it.
    Its like you found out your boyfriend had a crush on his teacher, and now you invite her to talk with him and her about it! ;)

  • If the dude starts wanting any of this from you then you should be worried! If you think rosebudding is uncomfortable I am sure there is more he is watching that would make you feel the same.. Porn is dirty and disgusting that is why men watch it... you don't think they want to watch the porn with all the fake movie lines where it's romantic do you? Men love their porn... the sicker the better. #truth

Most Helpful Girls

  • I know everyone has their own preference but maybe give him the benefit of the doubt? I am always super understanding when it comes to porn, but I watch it with my SO... but we are both comfortable enough to do so. I wouldn't freak out too much, after all porn is fictitious... it's made to broaden the sexual experience within the mind. Just because he watches freaky shit doesn't mean he's REALLY into it. I watch homicide documentaries, but that doesn't mean I want to commit murder.

  • I don't think you need to worry about it because around 90% of boys are watching porn so it's completely normal. My boyfriend watches porn too, I made him to confess about it and found some hentai on his computer, he just forgot to delete it and I found it in his D disk, plus he saw it so he felt really uncomfortable he was caught this way :D But I'm fine with it

  • We all have weird thought like weird things even dirty naught or bad things the difference is how far we take it.

    He watching it he's not acting on it partaking in it. So he's not hurting anyone as long as that's it.

    If your that incomfortable about it then make sure you talk about it.

  • His porn that's a good indication that he's living out his fanitcy's else where. fucking other women in the butt till and fisting till get's that rose bud or Rose Butt. I'v been fucked in the ass really hard but no roes bud... that's a little over the top for even me.

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  • From a relationship coaching lens, I only see one issue from what I've read. If you're okay with him watching porn then what is the concern with this particular kind? The one issue I see is the avoidance he demonstrated when you approached him. Avoidance in general is unhealthy.

  • Just ensure he doesn't try any of it on you without your consent.
    I had one of those guys and it wasn't fun I'll tell you!
    He wouldn't stop when hurting me either, he just made it more painful, that's when you've got a big problem 😣

  • Tbh people can watch really messed up things but not actually want to perform those acts. I'd just wait and let him talk to you about it

  • Maybe he just likes watching weird porn.

  • Hummm you caught him off guard and made him nervous, not sure what rose porn is but I dont want to know and hope I forget the name fast. he's got his little fantasizes I wouldn't worry to much so long as he's giving you proper attention safely.

  • dude didn't you know? the more people watch more, the more it satiates their appetite to different/more extreme shit.

    it's only natural.

    variety is stimulation.

    also, wtf is rosebudding?

    • rose budding Verb. An extreme form of anal sex when a performer in a porn scene intentionally prolapses her rectum, which another performer then proceeds to french kiss, in effect sucking on the descending colon of the first performer. don't tell me that's natural dude ! :

    • @cinderelli you sick twisted phuck!

    • what.. I was curious !!!

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  • whats rosebudding

  • Who cares? Why does the type of porn matter? If you don't mind him watching boring vanilla then let him watch his rosebudding, midget beastiality, kiddie or whatever, just don't do it on a shared laptop in case cops get wind of it. Either get over it or dump him if it bothers you that much. Ever hear if you can't beat them join them? You might like watching it while he goes down on you. I would.

  • What you should do?
    Well if it's extreme porn then you should be worried. Really worried.

  • https://youtu.be/vVdCxZCGuXU

  • What is rosebudding porn

    • whenI they turn they anal inside out

    • @SK8-Benny7 Oh for fucks sake.. Thats the whole prolapse thing right? My roommate showed it to me once. Couldnt watch anal porn for quite a while after thatt

    • right.

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  • Just help him to quit

  • If you can't beat him, join him. Maybe you might find it stimulating...

    • What a dumb ass repley. He's jurking off till 3 A. M thiinking about another women's pussy or ass hole. Probably some tranny butt hole in there some where. He should be fucking you till 3 A. M. but he's spanking his monkey else where.

    • @Michellebutts618 keep living in a snow globe fantasy lol

    • @BertMacklinFBI Your such a dumb ass. get a fucking job or something.

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  • Do more with him

  • The stuff he watches for fantasy are irrelevant because they are his fantasy. Just like the most common female fantasy is rape which is more f'd up than rose budding. Fantasy is fantasy not reality.
    Him ignoring the conversation is simply him trying to avoid talking about something he doesn't want to be belittled about. The same way a female would act if a guy discovered somehow that she had rape fantasies and wanted her to talk about it.
    When women shame and attack men for their fantasy, men react by going silent. We don't like being policed any more than women do.

  • Put some tape over your mouth and watch it with him

  • Damn that guy is a freak in a bad way get out while you still can

  • what is rosebudding porn?

    • extreme form of anal sex

  • What is rosebudding porn? Anyway, I think you should tell him that he needs to be more careful about that.

  • At least it wasn't pink sock videos

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