How can I break my hymen (pop my cherry) myself?

[TELLMEMORE123]

okay so im a lesbian. and have done sexual acts on girls many a time. The furthest I've ever been fucked is just rubbing my clit. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a few months and we hardly see eachother. The other night we went pretty far. We were making out and other things until i decided to slip my hand down her pants. Long story short i fingered her. Now i think its going to go much further. Im pretty sure my hymen hasn't been broken. The one time i got fingered it hurt so much and we had to stop.

[MrMysteryMan]

Practice makes things better. Also, if you're more relaxed and into the moment and not thinking to much about this or that, than it makes things more enjoyable and comfortable in all aspects of sexual endeavors. Just take your time with each other and talk about how it feels and how far you want to go. Practice on yourself a lot because then you know how far you can go and how much you can take. Use fingers first maybe, because then you can feel better what is going on inside of you. Or like use a small dildo or vibe or something smaller or gradual that you can prob and get used to being penetrated comfortably and safely and control how deep or where. You probably just need to get used to the feeling of being stretched or pushed in deeper.

[Chico_brah]

Just start penetrating yourself with random objects around the house.

*Makes toast*
*See's toaster*
*Inserts toaster inside vagina*

Something a long those lines.

[TELLMEMORE123]

hahaha okay

[Anonymous]

You might want to buy a dildo and start using it. Not too big. A small one will do fine. For regular masturbation I'd recommend a separate clit vibrator. Love those clit vibrators! A rabbit vibrator can do both or either, sort of.

[kaylaS91]

... break what hymen, though?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA&t=108s

[Mynameisnottolong]

The amount of guys commenting on this verses women here is alarming, I would expect more women.

[Intraluminal]

Why bother? You're not a virgin in any real sense, and pretending you are is just feeding into the idea that you have to be "deflowered" (by a man) in order to be a woman. Just ignore the whole concept.

In time, you will be comfortable enough with someone to allow yourself to be penetrated by a dildo, and your hymen will be gone at that point, but it shouldn't be a big deal for you.

[vampireelf]

I know a few girls who have broken their hymen with dildos. But not on purpose

[Decentguy]

take a dildo and do your thing

[masterkamasutra]

see your pussy and find there is hymen or not, with fingers its bit hard as its circle around pussy opening, better get a dildo it pop your cherry like dicks do.

[Anonymous]

Pop it with a dildo.