What if he cums before the penetration?

[Anonymous]

I am a virgin. The guy I will have sex with is also a virgin. I am planning on doing it soon. But, PLEASE help me, I don't know all things sex related.

Let's say we make-out and he gets hard. He eats me out, I give him a handjob, he cums. Then, we want penetration. He cannot just put a condom on his cum-covered penis. Does he have to take a shower every time he cums? So that he can put a condom on a clean penis, or how does it work? Also, if we skip the handjob thing and we go straight to the penetrative sex and there is precum already, maybe while he is still flacid, cause he is innexperienced, we cannot put a condom on, right? He has to clean his dick first. Please, tell me all the necessary things. Step by step. On how everything should go. We never even fooled arouned. This will be our first time.

I am totally inexperienced. Please, help me.

[es20490446e]

🎉 When boys cum they loose interest in further sex, except if they are pros or are immensely turned on.

🕑 Anyway for some minutes he will loose his libido. Lets say between 10 and 60 minutes, usually 20 minutes. The first orgasm would be the most pleasing.

👶 You can only get pregnant if some cum goes into your vagina, including precum.

📉 Although if the amount of cum is negligible then pregnancy becomes highly unlikely to happen. Cleaning with a piece of paper and using a new condom would be enough.

🍌 If penetration hurts you, try with a dildo or something like first.

🌼 Nothing is perfect, and that is what makes it beautiful. Because imperfect things are real unique things, where plastic perfect flowers are liked by nobody.

🖒 90% fine 100% of the time. Easy today, perfect tomorrow. Crocodiles can do it well, so you can too!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h3rmmgqqJNs

[Anonymous]

Okay, first after the foreplay like him eating you out and making out and whatnot, use a bit of lube to give him a handy-j until he ejaculates.
1. If he ejaculates so that his sperm does not land on himself, all he will have to do is urinate so that his urethra is free of sperm. His penis should be clean, if not, have him wipe with a wet wipe
2. Wait a while for him to get hard, then have him put on a condom and begin intercourse. If he ejaculates in the condom, it should be fine, but the safest is to pull out

[Asker]

Ok. To pull out even with a condom on? Ok. Thanks. Whith the penetrative sex, do you put lube inside the vagina, or on the condom? And how much to use it?

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever you do, do not use oil based lube like baby oil, it will dissolve the condom. Try purchasing prelubed condoms. The lube should be water based and not have sugar or glucose or you may risk a vaginal yeast infection. Put lube on the outside of the condom as necessary for comfort. If you wish him to ejaculate on you, you can pull of the condom and jerk him off when he is ready and pulls out.

[Asker]

Here's the thing. I live with my conservative grandparents. I don't have parents. They cannot find out about this. Where do I buy those things? Should I go to a sexy shop? Where would be best to have that sex? In a hotel or in my room?

[Opinion Owner]

The best place to buy prelubricated condoms is from a local convenience store. Your male friend buying them will look less suspicious. The best place to have sex would be a place where you and your counterpart would feel the most safe and secure. If you or he has a pickup truck, you could have sex in the truck bed. I would recommend driving somewhere not too populated but not to remote. I would recommend bringing a sleeping bag.

[Anonymous]

Please, you need to avoid having sexual intercourse until you have more information and experience. If he cums you need to stop everything and clean up the cum. He needs to wash his penis and his hands. You need to wash your hands. Precum can have sperm in it as well, so treat it just like cum. There is a right way and a wrong way to put on a condom. You both need to learn the right way. There are videos on youtube to help you with this. I highly recommend you do oral sex, have him cum into your mouth and enjoy swallowing his cum. It's very satisfying, you'll enjoy it and you can't get pregnant that way. You don't need to be on birth control for oral sex, but you must be on birth control before doing sexual intercourse! No condom = no sexual intercourse. If you are allergic to Latex, be sure to use non-Latex condoms. Use only water based lube when using condoms.

[Asker]

I am ready to have sex. I don't wanna wait anymore. I am very nervous, because I don't know what I'm waiting for. How does precum look like? If we do the handjob first, he gotta wash his penis. He just gotta. But what if we go straight for the penetration and we have only made out prior to that? What will happen then? There is still chance that he has precum all over him. So, basically, whatever we are doing he has got to wash his penis right before he puts on a condom for the penetration? Where do we put lube? Inside my vagina, or all over his condom? How much do we put? I don't have a mother nor any older female who I can talk to about these things. Should I plan a gynecologist visit prior to my first time? I want to be both on pills AND to wear a condom AND to pull out before ejaculating. What kind of condoms are the safest? Please answer me. I am TERRIFIED of getting pregnant. Please answer me

[Opinion Owner]

Precum can vary from liquidy like water to stringy and annoying. It's nothing like cum. Precum often doesn't taste as good as cum does either. Cum is much better. You should do foreplay first to get yourself good and hot and WET before inserting a condom covered penis into your vagina. Dry humping (with your clothes on) and then having him lick your clit (with your clothes off) works well as foreplay! Lube goes both at your vaginal opening and on the exterior of the condom (never on the interior). Use much more lube than you think you need. Use gobs and gobs of it. YES, SEE A GYN FIRST. Or visit Planned Parenthood if you have one nearby. They'll get you on birth control. Some birth controls require you to be on them for at least a month before having sex, others less time. There's an arm implant that's good for three months at a time. Nice! He does not need to pull out when wearing a condom. If you're terrified of getting pregnant, oral and swallowing is an excellent alternative.

[es20490446e]

MOSTLY ALL WRONG! 📚 Experience isn't in books. 📺 YouTube is full of spam. 🍀 The gynaecologist wishes you good luck. 🍌 Cum usually tastes like lemon peel. 🏄 No advance technique on first time. 🔥 Dry humping burns if you are inexperienced. 🍬 Oral birth control makes you fat. 💘 Penetrative sex is much more intimate and pleasurable. 🐮 All the above is irrelevant right now.

[That1tallguy]

why do you keep on saying he has to clean his dick before he puts on the condom? he doesn't have to take a shower every time he cums just to put it in a condom that would be a waste of time. all he has to do Is wipe it off with some tissue or a baby wipe and your good to go again. also if he eats you out why would you just give him a hand job that's wack af give him a blowjob instead then put on the condom. it doesn't matter if there's precum before he puts the condom on it makes no difference at all.
look up how to put a condom on if you haven't already you don't want to put it on backwards. if he cums before penetration there's really nothing you can do until he's able to get it hard again. since he's never been inside a girl he'll probably cum with in a minute because of all the nerves and excitement. it happens to a lot of guys just don't make him feel bad about it if you go for round 2 he should be able to last a little longer

[NourSy]

I believe any hand jobs or blow jobs should come after he bangs the shit out of you

[bubbakong2006]

You can put a condom on anytime with out washing if he cums wipe it off suck him play with his cock till hard then fuck the shit out of it till you cum , have him eat you out before penetrating you

[Seppel]

after he cums he surely don't want sex.

[masterkamasutra]

you take cum in mount so cum covered cock is not dirty.

[Anonymous]

He can just wash his penis quickly before putting the condom, no need to shower or dunno what.