Have you ever tied up / dominated your boyfriend?

Id love if my girlfriend did this but it sounds so awkward to even ask lol.. if you did it was it awkward? And how did he bring it up or did you bring it up? Basicly how can i bring it up lmao?
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  • I wouldn't ask her to tie you up immediately. That might sound complicated to her at first, so I'd just invest in a pair of handcuffs or something similar, or ask what she would prefer to use if she is interested. It's simple enough to tie ankles and wrists but it still takes more time and effort when all you want is sex, and sometimes the material just isn't tight enough. You just have to trust that she'll unlock you afterwards, but that's part of the fun.

    I've always brought up my kinks to women once they asked about them. I've never dated a woman who wasn't kinky or sexually adventurous, so they usually always did ask in time, but if you don't think she ever will, just ask her yourself as some sort of conversation topic, if she has any kinks or fetishes.

    If she isn't into the idea, then you at least tried, and she at least knows it now. She might open up to it slowly over time.

  • I wish my crush tied me up and cow girlies me. The jack hammering

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  • No, I've never tied him up because neither of us are into bondage.
    If you're curious about giving it a try, just straight up tell her that you think it sounds pretty hot and were wondering what she thought about it. (That's pretty much how I brought up the whole daddy/lg kink to my boyfriend.)

    • Yea but like if she wasn't into it id feel so stupid 😅

    • There's no reason to feel stupid! It's just a difference of opinion, not that different from how she might prefer going out for sushi dinners whereas you prefer a local pizza joint or something like that.

    • Lol its a bit different tho because i know she views me as her man and dominant in bed.. which i am.. id be afraid it would make her view me as less of a man if it went wrong a bit i think 😅

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  • just let her know. sometimes as much as i love to be dominated i find it out to dominate my man once it a while i like being in charge. maybe she's about it maybe she's not but she should be willing to see how comfortable she is with trying it out to see how you both like it

  • No but i would love this being done to me lmao. Just introduce them to BDSM or bondage and see how it goes from there. If they're disgusted obviously it's not going to happen with that particular girl but that shouldn't stop you from pursuing it with a different girl :)

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  • No. Im an extrovert both in real life and in bed they know that so if they want to have fun with me they know what's coming.

    • Does that mean you wouldn't find it awkward or would sorry i get you meant your confident but i dont get what you mean in relation to if somebody asked you sorry 😂🙈

    • I wouldn't feel awkward at all. Having a boyfriend to me means we get to share things. As in everything openly. Any bumps or rash you show him and he would show you. If I want something in bed I'll let him know. If there is anything he wants, he can tell me. It's good to be open. No point in being shy or awkward you guys have seen each other's cum face anyway 😂😂😂

    • Lol im not as confident as you i dont think 😐😂 but your right thanks 😂😊

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  • Lol no. He's not passive like that.

    • Yea me neither from what pur relationship has been but its just something id love to try but feel so awkward asking lmao.. it would have to be weird wouldn't it?

    • I mean, it depends. Some people are more open but I can't say for myself since I doubt my guy would ever let me tie him up. Lol.

    • Yea i get you.. thanks 😊

  • I personally think you should feel comfortable talking to your girlfriend about this. My boyfriend likes to be dominated but he actually texted it to me during one of our sexy conversations. He simply just asked me " what are your thoughts about being dominated and being the dominant one?" I told him my thoughts. He then asked me if I've ever dominated a guy. I said no, and he asked if I'd like to try. I said sure and the rest is history. lol. hope this helps :)

  • I haven't. Just ask her.

  • No way. He's not into that.

  • Maybe make hints when you two are in the mood and see how she reacts.

    • Id honestly feel like such an idiot saying it 😂

    • Just hints like "I wonder what it'd be like if you dominated for once" if she responds positively, "what sort of things would you do?" Positively ,"well I've actually thought about what would happen..."

    • Yea but i think even more subtle than that... like id love if she brought it up.. is there a possible way to put it in her head without saying it? 😅

  • I have but I was the one to bring it up aha. I think a good way to do it would be chatting about kinks and ask her if she likes it, there's also an online quiz you can take together to see what kinks you share.

  • I'd tie him up but I'll pass on the legit dominating. It'd be to torture and piss him off so when he inevitably *does* get untied, he just fucks me up lmao

    • Well no id like to be tied and then just let her get herself off "using me" i wouldn't want her to hit me or anything 😂 would you feel awkward doing it to your bf?

    • Fuck yah, boys are there to be used. Wouldn't feel awkward at all.

    • Lol so you think she might be into it?

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  • No lol

  • ... nope...

  • Yes, like eight times before

    Just tell her

  • Not dating at the moment, but I had tied up/dominated both my ex boyfriends and my ex girlfriends

  • Yeah

  • Nope

  • no. do it if you and the boy are comfortable with it.

  • I have. No, it was not awkward.
    He didn't bring it up, I simply did it and he liked it

  • not dating right now, but i always wanted a guy to do it to me

  • My boyfriend would laugh in my face but I personally love it being done to me.

    • Adding this: As for bringing it up, maybe start by asking her how she feels with bondage and if she has a positive response, ask her if she'd be willing to tie you up and have her way with you. Even if she isn't into the whole bondage scene you could just use that idea to tempt her.