Guys, Do guys mind if a girl is sexually less experienced?

Im friends with this guy and he seems to really like me, we've had sex multiple times but the more I get to know him the more I find out he's had a wild passed. He used to do blow, and ecstasy and cocaine and he's banged strippers and multiple hookers, he's had a devils three way with a buddy of his and a girl he was casually hooking up with. He's had over 45 sex partners, I've only had 12 (which he says is such a small number for nyc girls) I ask if that's a bad thing and he's like no that's a great thing but he has friends who have girls who they bang in rotation. Who bangs each others hookups and roommates and they just laugh it off like yea we're all pieces of shit. Him & I were friends before I knew he liked me and he always said he knew I was a good girl, that I was the girlfriend material and few months ago he commented on how I'd make a great wife. But the thing is, I'm scared I don't measure up sexually or that im not one of those crazy and wild girls (don't get me wrong I'm not a prude and I'm very wild in bed and sexually experimental when I like someone) but I haven't lived his crazy lifestyle and I can't for the life of me understand what he's doing hanging out with me. I'm not his speed and I'm just so afraid that I might be too boring for him and I can't help but think how much better the strippers or hookers probably were in bed than me. Or because I'm a nice sweet good girl, he might want a crazy girl. I really like him and don't want to ruin it but my insecurities are taking over. When I go out with him and his friends every last one has tried to bang me or wanted me to give them a blow job in front of the guy I'm with and I say "no only John, I'm with John" it's all just weird
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  • Sure I do the experience they have doesn't matter. Some people are different you don't need to compare yourself to them.

  • i dont mind.. i can teach her and make her more experienced lol..

    • Would it be weird or look weak if I told him "I'm a little intimated by his experience and I'm afraid I won't measure up" or is that too insecure sounding?

    • that is just an insecurity.. in sex, everybody is a learner and everybody is a teacher.

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  • Most guys prefer if she's less experienced. The crown jewel would be if she's a virgin, but these days, that's like asking for a unicorn.

  • i always prefer a girl who has no sexual experience at all

  • No why would we.. Do girls mind if a guy is sexually less experienced?

  • don't mind at all