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I'm 18 and I've had sex with 13 guys - is that a lot?

I had my first time when I was 16 and I've since slept with 13 guys, 4 of which I was in a relationship with. Is that a lot?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Why are you asking, did you check the numbers one day and think it might be a lot and got worried, or did someone tell you it was a lot? As long as those were consenting experiences and you can live with the decisions you have made, does it matter if it's a lot or not? Just remember to stay safe (condoms!). Statistically speaking, that number is higher than average for girls at 18, but once again, if it was consenting and you have no regrets, does it matter if it's higher than average?

  • No, not a lot. You are just getting Started Here, dear.
    However, "Sex" is different though from some a Real Date or Mate. Don't end up giving yourself a Bad Rep, because if gets Around Town you are this Hound, then no Decent Guy won't even Try, with even Wanting a Real Relationship.
    Pick and Choose easily.
    Good Luck. xx

    • Thanks for the Vote of Confidence. xx

  • I think that's a lot in my personal opinion.
    Especially for you being so young still.
    I'm 18 and I can't imagine myself sleeping with that many people. But. There really isn't a law or rule on how many people you can sleep with.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Don't let none of these jerk-offs and hand-players ( no offense guy and gals) make you feel bad. Look at it this way.
    1. Your more experienced than most of your peers ( wear that)
    2. You certainly going to have more encounters ( live that)
    3. Women not gettin any and older shiiit ( express that)
    4. you got skills next boyfriend gonna ( love that)

  • They say a picture is worth 1000 words, so maybe you can deduce my feelings from this one. It's what I would wear if I dated you.
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  • Yes it is.

    • 13 other to be exact!

  • In a two year span? Yeah that's a high number to accomplish at such a young age.

  • Well sleeping around is bad - not respecting yourself is worse - you need to done down your behaviour

  • BITCH!!! Yes lol (no offense)

  • It is a lot. For the most part, I envy you your early age experience.

    How do you feel about it?

    • I don't regret any of the guys I slept with. So I guess I feel good about it.

  • I think Thou art Trolling, but Either way.

    Good Luck and Great Question dear.

    XoXo

  • Yes... about 11/12 too many.

  • That is an impressive amount at your age. I wouldn't worry about it so long as you still have a passion for it and don't get sick.

  • At 18 that is indeed a lot.

  • riley reid might not think you're a slut

  • It's your life and your body. You had fun, that's what matters. It's nobody else's business.

  • Well its not a little...

  • Uh, yeah. I didn't think it had to be asked at that point :/

  • Depends on how many aids you got 13 partners in 2, 3 years you done got herpees at least

  • yeah..

  • What do you think?

  • Nelson is 81 years old. He had four sex partners his whole life. - do you think that's bad?

  • Wow girl.. that's kinda a lot yeah

  • Yes. That's a lot.

  • Naaaah you're a princess.

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