Accidental Anal Penetration w Partner How. Do I Prevent It?

Question

Okay shut up if you're gonna say it wasn't an accident because it was recently my partner and I have been having trouble 4 times out of the week his dick accidentally slips into my ass and its so painful the first time i bled all i can do is cry and scream so loud and i hate it i hate sex because of this i would never do anal and the pain is too intense i wanna know how to avoid it itll happen in any position by the way and no my boyfriend does not do it on purpose please help its so hard to avoid like the vagina and butthole are so close how does this not happen to other how do i avoid it? Please help i dont wanna hate sex for the rest of my life

mrinalashesh007 · Accepted Answer

Listen.. u thinking he is unintentionally doing it. its not like that.. no one is that dumb to hv missed a vagina and instead slip into butt. come on.. they are fairly safe distance.. n he is doing in intentionally.. coz he secretly wants anal sex which he knows u won't be able to give..

Use lost of lubes.. and ask him to start very carefully n slowly.. n then pound u hard.. Moreover, yu. take control.. coz in the end.. u also need pleasure.. so jump on his dick.. take control.. try cowgirl position.. n all other position where u r dominant.. good luck

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Well it's him not doing it right for one, I never went in the wrong hole and would know right away since it's hard to penetrate without lube, you're right about them being so close together, try missionary more often and just guide him in for now on

MlleCake · Accepted Answer

SLOW DOWN. If his penis comes all the way out of you he can feel that and he needs to insert himself again more carefully. Stop with the piston sex. It also helps if he is not intoxicated.

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

Four times in one week does not sound accidental to me. Regardless, tell him to slow down and not thrust as erratically.

Lyndsielee666 · Accepted Answer

Tell him to slow down a little it don't thrust as big...

GraveTruth · Answer

You have to tell the guy to slow down if he can't control it.

oddwaffle · Answer

Anal vibrator? Anal probe? Lots more lube?

It's not an accident. It's intentional. No guy can miss a target like the vagina.

Don't let him do it from behind. Missionary or cow girl. You take the initiative and do it in the position you like.

Theresao · Answer

Try a different position

0112358 · Answer

Four times?

Intraluminal · Answer

I made this mistake *once* when I was 12. IT IS NOT A MISTAKE! Nobody's that stupid.

KnightCross · Answer

another troll question. this website really is misinforming about giving actual advices for human relationships

dolemite68 · Answer

tell him to slow down whenever he's putting it in, i've never "accidentally" put it in a girls butt lol

Onethatsbeenaround · Answer

Get a small butt plug or a new boy friend.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

>i bled Post disregarded, moving on.

CT_CD · Answer

How would that even happen. Buttholes are tight

Elliot0_07 · Answer

Four times it's not an accident. He intentionaly redirect his dick in your ass, and honestly I think that happens bc it's your fault. I bet that you refuse to give him anal sex and he had to force you to it. I encourage him to continue trying.

ellaell · Answer

okay so this recently happened to me. and my partner hasn’t had sex a lot i’m the 3rd person he’s done it with and he was hittin it from the back and my legs were together and i got very well wet. and he was going so fast that he came out and went all the way into the other. i pushed him out he freaked out because he had no idea until i pushed him out. sometimes it happens four times i agree could be an accident depending on what way from the back and how wet you get. i let him finish in me and we just keep going so get wet easily. i’m honestly on here trying to find the same way to prevent this. i know my man didn’t do it intentionally because he was laying on me and he was kissing me while it happened and just thought yk same tight spot and he didn’t know he slipped in and out because we were very rough and very fast. honestly now when we do it that way i put my hand over the other entry because hell no to that pain. and i will continue to do it as both of our experience grows. we stopped having sex because he didn’t want to accidentally hurt me again. so i now majority of the time guide him in. and when he slips out i make him stop and he’s learning more and more that you have to stop to go back in. not just rely on faith that it’ll go to the right way. but yeah i just honestly block my ass from it now or i just arch waaaay more so he never slips out anymore.