Girls, how much do you turn on visually?

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do you find things (!!!) visually arousing? when do you see something sexy or see something arousing like porn, hot guys etc do you feel turn on? how do you see this kind of situation, neutrally or in a provocative way? girls are incapable of being aroused visually? do they find everything non-sexually or neutrally?

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wingattebaby16 Guru
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Most girls I know are not turned on like guys are by seeing stuff... be it butts, boobs, etc..

Girls like romance, sincere letters, smells, feelings, emotions...

"Girls give the Physical to get the Emotional. Guys give the Emotional to get the Physical."

I have been a tomboy all my life.. all my gfs won't admit it in public, but behind closed doors we all go on and on about some cute guy we saw at the mall.

... He has such a cute tight butt... I bet he would ride me so hard in bed I would die!

... OMG, I love his hard chest and abs!! All I want to do is kiss him all over and bite his nipples!

... (and only when drunk or way into sharing with a special gf) OMFG... did you see that huge bulge in his pants? Or... I can't believe something that big fits in his speedo (when at the pool or beach).

We do notice faces and hair and smiles. I know my mom and aunts dont talk about how guys look, but if you really pushed them in private, they all will tell you how hot some young guy is and they soooo could wish they could dump their husband and marry that young HUNK!

When I have talked with my aunties, and ask them what they like about their hubbeis... they say they are caring, loving, smile a lot, etc.. but only one of my aunties will talk about their husband having a monsterous cock, he fills my pussy so full, and when he cums, I feel like he is shooting up into my stomach!

Most of them have little to no sex life after they hit like 40yo... one of my aunts says her husband has a mistress and he only has sex with auntie, using her pussy as "a way to masturbate himself". He has no concern for her pleasure, even to the point he makes her wear a night gown with a hole over her vajayjay so he doesn't even have to make her undress.

So... yes, some women do get turned on by seeing things... I love seeing a hot guy with a cute tight butt and hard abs and arm muscles. But what gets me going is having my earlobes, shoulders, and neck kissed. And if a guy puts his arm around my hips and touches my bare skin on my hip or small of my back, I am so aroused, I want to drag him down and jump his bones!
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- Asker
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  Some women do get turned on by seeing thing? But most of them? They don't find things (!!!) sexy or they don't see things in sexual way? If they find things sexy and when do they see it they feel neutral?
- Tiger6960
  +1 y
  I hate when some stupid people be making such generalisations. Maybe the girls you are with are prolly closeted lesbians or maybe American women in general are. If women weren't aroused by seeing sexy things, shit like Magic Mike wouldn't have been as popular
strangytie Yoda
+1 y
It can vary, but for most women sex and sexual arousal is all about her state of mind. That's why most women don't understand why men send pictures of their junk or get aroused by pictures/people. Women can be turned on by visual stimuli, as some women here have indicated, and another factor is if they can touch what they see (like a person or object), but this is why you have scenes in movies where there's more intimate gestures to seduce a woman since you've got to get her mind into it and not just her body.
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- Asker
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  seeing erotic scene make women turn on? really?
- strangytie
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  Occasionally, yes.
- Asker
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  women get turn on occasionally not regularly? if they see sexual thing it will not turn them on? if it is occasionally then it has a routine i guess? in which date it is sexual turn on and which date it is neutral? on march 07 if the see something sexy then they can get turn on and rest of the month they never will get turn on. is it?
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- strangytie
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  no, I meant it varies woman to woman. However a scheduled day would be pretty interesting.
- Asker
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  but you said women occasionally turn on visually. occasionally means... when? any schedule?
- strangytie
  +1 y
  No, there's no specific schedule, sometimes libido is higher and sometimes it's not
- Asker
  +1 y
  visual turn on is related to LIBIDO? and sometimes it higher and sometimes it's (libido) not exist?
- strangytie
  +1 y
  Well libido is sex drive, so if you've got a higher drive you're more likely to be easily aroused.
- Asker
  +1 y
  My question was about visual arousal not sex drive. You want to say women have much lower sex drive that's why they take longer time to get arouse or they get arouse occasionally?
- strangytie
  +1 y
  A higher sex drive would mean you are more likely to be aroused by visual things. Like if you have no sex drive you won't be aroused by anything not even visual things
- Asker
  +1 y
  My question was do women get aroused visually? You said occasionally. It means they occasionally get their sex drive or they have overall lower sex drive?
- strangytie
  +1 y
  For most women, sex drive is low and when it becomes high they can be aroused visual stimulation.
- Asker
  +1 y
  how did you know that most women have low sex drive? what does low sex drive mean? they don't arouse frequently? they don't feel sexual urge often? or something else?
- strangytie
  +1 y
  Sex drive is often dependent on biological factors, like if a woman is ovulating or on her period. Ovulation is the time when a woman is most likely to get pregnant, so the body often increases sexual desire. Women cannot have sex whenever, they have to be aroused to feel stimulation and be relaxed enough for sex. It's harder for women to be aroused enough for sex, while for men it is much easier. Sexual urge does not come often, but we can arouse ourselves if we want.
- Asker
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  Sexual urge does not come often and you can arouse yourself if you want? They why do women masturbate often if they don't feel sexual urge often? Women only get their sex drive during ovulating and on their period - rest of they month they don't feel any sexual desire and it's a fixed law of biology? women also experience lower arousal during sex and hardly get aroused? then why do they have sex? if they don't feel urge often even it's harder for them to get arouse? how often women get horny and feel sexual urge? 2 or 3 times a month? (during ovulation) how long does it take for women to get arouse? 5 hour to 10 hour?
- strangytie
  +1 y
  It's different for everyone. Women can get aroused in less than an hour, less than half an hour. It depends on who she is with, how she feels, etc. We have sex because we want to. If we don't feel aroused yet but want to have sex we find a way to get aroused.
- Asker
  +1 y
  as a teenager you also have a lower sex drive? WHen women were single they don't feel urge, they don't get horny? You said women have lower sex drive that's why they don't arouse visually. If they have lower sex drive than how often they feel sexual urge? 2 or 3 times a month? rest of the month they become asexual and their sexual part become die?
- strangytie
  +1 y
  Women who enjoy sex aren't asexual when they aren't having sex, the arousal is different. It's more conscious like "I could really go for an orgasm" and touching yourself vs wanting someone else to touch you. Like I have reiterated many times, no two women are the same. But for many, it is not common to be aroused by visual things like porn or pictures. Many women read erotic stories or think of fantasies instead of watching something. We use our minds instead of eyes. Women can get horny, but it's not the same as wanting someone to have sex with you. You just want an orgasm, not sex
- Asker
  +1 y
  here 22 girls give their opinions except you all say they turn on visually. so they are liar? I asked you straightforward question but you give me worthless ans.
- strangytie
  +1 y
  Well I guess i'm wrong then. I concede.
- Asker
  +1 y
  you are not wrong, most of them are lying. and your sense of humor level is pretty low because i asked you about your name but you start to analyse about your grandfather's love story.
- strangytie
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  I am a duck and have no sense of familial bonds. I don't have a grandfather
- Asker
  +1 y
  that's why i tell you, you have no sense of humor. it was a allegory. try to improve your sense of humor.
- strangytie
  +1 y
  i will do that my dude

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tinyclit Guru
+1 y
I think we're every bit as much visually stimulated as you guys are. We enjoy watching porn just as much as you do. I also think guys are just as aroused by reading hot stuff as we are. Try reading or even better writing some hot stuff yourself sometime and see how aroused you get.
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- Asker
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  I also aroused by erotica also feel arousal visually. which things arouse you visually?
Jenn1991 Xper 6
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I am a very visual woman. Lots of things like porn and hot guys get my motor running.
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- WBOTB
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  Haha! My new thing to watch now is men getting a happy ending.
- Asker
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  do you need emotional attachment to get turn on visually?
JuliaHarris Xper 4
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Men get turned on by what they see, women get turned on by what they feel.
This doesn't apply to things like porn because porn is literal just a means to masturbate better. I'm talking more about in real life with real people. Thats not to say that women that women CAN'T be turned on by a hot guy walking past of course, it just takes a different form.
Don't believe me? Go to a bar and use YOUR chest to score free drinks. Hint: Its not going to work very well.
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- Asker
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  I am not talking about behavior. I'm talking about feelings. Do they feel turn on visually?
- JuliaHarris
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  Yes, but it takes a different form. Women are turned on but not controlled by it.
- Asker
  +1 y
  but if they see random fit guy, they have no emotional connection with him then it is possible to get turn on? I am not talking about act based on arousal. Just talking about feelings.
Sami365 Xper 6
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Very visual and... and auditory lol
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- Asker
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  which things visually arouse you and also which auditory arouse you? turn on and arouse is same thing for you?
shyramarie1 Xper 5
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appearance very must be sexy for me to be involved
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- Asker
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  what about other things?
- shyramarie1
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  his appearance, personality and swag
- Asker
  +1 y
  if he is random guy? the guy have to be your boyfriend or you have to have emotional connection with him?
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- shyramarie1
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  anyone that comes on to me
- Asker
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  emotional connection not required?
- shyramarie1
  +1 y
  nope
alexáine Xper 3
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very very much into hearing a guys moan. also 80% visual & 100% touch
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- Asker
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  guys moan turn you on? really? i thought it's a turn off. and visually which things turn you on?
- alexáine
  +1 y
  seeing him on me, touching me, visualizing his pov of him inside of me. a guys moan is the most erotic thing that girls get so wet for. dont underestimate the heavy breathing too
- Asker
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  @alexáine the guy have to be your boyfriend? you have to have emotional connection with him? but when do you see hot guy or fit guy and have no emotional connection with him you will not feel turn on?
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- alexáine
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  i dont need emotional connection to get turned on
LovelyColleen Xper 6
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Pictures, no. Real life, yes.
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- Asker
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  Movie, porn etc? In real life which thing arouse you?
WBOTB Xper 4
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Omg!!! I can tell you that looking at a mans body makes me crazy with lust. One day he asked me to massage his back and threw his clothes off, laid gave down with his beautiful ass facing me and his balls peaking out underneath. That visual drive me over the edge. The back massage didn't last very long lol.
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- Asker
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  who asked you for massage? boyfriend? so, you only turned on by your boyfriend body?
- creativeuserguy
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  Haha yeah nice explanation of your visual sexual experience
- WBOTB
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  To the asker - yes boyfriend, but I do get turned on by porn.
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- WBOTB
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  @creativeuserguy lol 😊
- creativeuserguy
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  You like to see hanging male balls :p ?
- WBOTB
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  @creativeuserguy love it lol!
- creativeuserguy
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  Wow... And penis? :P
- Asker
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  @WBOTB when you were single you didn't feel turn on visually? when you see guys with fit body what will you feel? neutral or turn on?
- WBOTB
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  Major turn on. He doesn't even need to be that fit, just a masculine build does enough for me (wide shoulders, narrow hips and not tops much body fat. A nice ass is my weakness.
- creativeuserguy
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  :p How tall should he have to be atleast?
- WBOTB
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  @creativeuserguy at least my height, 5'8".
- creativeuserguy
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  What's your body built?
- Asker
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  @WBOTB the guy have to be your boyfriend or you have to have emotional connection with him? If you see a guy who is not your boyfriend and you have no emotional connection with him then you will feel turn on?
- sexyalphamale
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  You should message me. For science!
iamdesperate Xper 7
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I am aroused by watching porno.
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- Asker
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  really? but without porn?
- iamdesperate
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  Yes, by fantasizing also.
- Asker
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  If you see hot guy/girls it will not turn you on?
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- iamdesperate
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  No. It is not my mindset.
- Asker
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  but do you feel when you see sexy guys and sexy girls? What is the difference do you feel when you see them?
- iamdesperate
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  Frankly I don't notice any of the gender seriously.
- Asker
  +1 y
  you aren't attracted to any gender?
- iamdesperate
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  No. I am still in a state of shock that my husband left me for a young girl.
- Asker
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  which gender you are sexually attracted to? are you asexual? how did you know that you are straight or gay?
- iamdesperate
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  I am very much sexual being.
- Asker
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  but you said you're not attracted to any gender.
- iamdesperate
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  I have also made it clear earlier that since separation from husband, I find myself in a state of depression.
- Asker
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  But when you was younger or before your separation?
- iamdesperate
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  Oh yes, I was very active sexually.
- Asker
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  May be you are in menopause? If you don't mind can I ask you some question personally?
- iamdesperate
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  Yes.
- Asker
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  I can't message you. I follow you.
- iamdesperate
  +1 y
  Ok. Do you get my nod?
FlorXx Xper 5
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ofc girls can be aroused visually just like guys the only differens is that its not that noticeable on us. I personally get turn of by a lot of things guys do, tho I never tried watching porn that dosen't seem sexy to me. But stuff guys do or say can be a big turn on eventho the act is self wasn't sexual.
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- Asker
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  but which things arouse girls visually?
- FlorXx
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  That is really individual. Personally simple stuff like guys in good looking pyjama bottom can turn me on. Or a really beautiful smile with nice teeth 💪🏼
- Asker
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  The guy have to be your boyfriend? If you see fit guy but you have no emotional connection with him, I've never seen before or spoken - still feel turn on?
Nadzzz Explorer
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Guys tend to be more visual
Way more than girls
Like for example they can get turned on by a pic but with girls its a little bit different
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- Asker
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  It was not my question. My question was do girls turn on visually?
- Nadzzz
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  And I gave you the answer Girls ARE visual but not that much
- Asker
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  Girls are visual but not that much - but how much they are visual it was my question. When do they see sexy guys or sexy things they will feel neutral or feel arousal?
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- Nadzzz
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  Well if I see a guy with an athletic body I'm gonna be turned on asf But it really depends. If he's my boyfriend or a guy I'm seeing I'll be really turned on If he's a stranger... nah
- Asker
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  but what was happen when you were single? you start to feel turn on visually after being in a relationship with your boyfriend? the guy have to be your boyfriend and have to have athletic body otherwise you will not feel turn on? If you see fit guy but you have no emotional connection with him, you've never seen before or spoken then you will not feel turn on? you will feel neutral?
- Nadzzz
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  If I am single I don't get turned on at all Even if he's jacked as fuck I just mire him nothing else The first aattracrion comes from his attitude then if he has a good bod its a plus If he is too fat or too skinny I ain't going further with him cause I keep my body in shape and I suffer to keep it. So I think I deserve someone who looks a little above average or higher So if he is ugly, no it doesn't work for ME
- Asker
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  If single girls don't feel turn on they what is the thing encourage them to make a relationship with guys or to have sex with a guy? If you are single and if you see a fit guy you will not feel anything? You will feel neutral?
- Nadzzz
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  For ME what comes first is attitude I'm not gonna be like hoes who say "personality comes first" no! He must be good looking or just doesn't click So attitude encourages me I will be eager to know his personality but if he's fit and a douchebag then fuck outta here
- Asker
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  when do you see hot guy you feel neutral? you don't feel physical attraction? what is the difference do you feel when you see hot guys and hot girls? does it feel same?
- Asker
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  When you were single you became asexual, didn't even experience sexual arousal? WTF... If you don't feel hungry why will you want to eat? Logically if you feel nothing when you see guys you will choose not to be you guys because you don't have urge
TonyaOrtega Xper 5
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I get turned on visually... And certain sounds turn me on too!
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- Asker
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  what kind of things turn you on visually and what kind of sound turn you on?
- TonyaOrtega
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  Oh, come on now.. I don't kiss and tell.
Vivianespinoza Xper 4
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Believe it or not most women think about sex as much as men do😒
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- Asker
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  it's not about thinking about sex. it's about arousal or turn on. do women get turn on visually?
COCOCHANEL Master
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very very very visual
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- Asker
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  which things arouse you visually?
- COCOCHANEL
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  faces and bodies, expression and movement
- Asker
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  if he is not your boyfriend and you don't know him personally or have no emotional connection with him? still find him sexy and turn on?
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- COCOCHANEL
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  yes ! on the street ! everyday !
- COCOCHANEL
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  i'm in japan because i need this visual stimulus everyday. males were not visually appealing in america.
- Asker
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  but why do girls claim that when it is random guy they feel neutral, and they have to have emotional connection with him otherwise visual stimuli will not work?
- COCOCHANEL
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  either they're not being honest or they are really different from me
- Asker
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  do most women feel attraction when they see a guy they find attractive? or they have to have emotional connection with him?
- COCOCHANEL
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  i'm fairly certain that physical attraction is about appearance.
- Asker
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  emotional connection not required?
- COCOCHANEL
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  not for physical attraction
Ladyslipper Xper 7
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I really don't to be honest, I need the physical interactions
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- Asker
  +1 y
  without out physical interactions you never feel turn on?
sicosico Explorer
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I get aroused visually
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- Asker
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  which things arouse you visually?
- sicosico
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  Every thing manly and sexual
- Asker
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  if he is random guy? the guy have to be your boyfriend or you have to have emotional connection with him?
lillyrose911 Xper 3
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I get turned on by little things, featured on a guy. Like chest hair, nice teeth, hygiene, and veins on the arms and hands. Super hot!! If I verbally tell the guy that with compliments, and he gets giddy about it, it turns me on too. Also if he's sexually respectful but naughty, I love that. But it's both visual and physical.
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- creativeuserguy
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  First time a girl says she is turned on by chest and stomach hair :) different. Do your female friends know this odd thing? :P Visible Peeping out chest hair?
- Asker
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  it means you have to have emotional connection with him?
Anonymous
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I get turned on visually, but I also need to be touched
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- Asker
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  Which things turn you on visually? You also need to be touched but without touch you will not get arouse?
Anonymous
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We can get visually aroused but, for me, I need some emotional attachment. Then, I find everything about it arousing.
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- Asker
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  emotional attachment means? can you explain?
- Opinion Owner
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  Care about someone other than just want to sleep with them.
- Asker
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  what was happened when you were single and had no emotional attachment? before an emotional attachment you see everything in nonsexual way and non arousing?
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- Opinion Owner
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  Depends. If I watched scandalish videos or pictures, I don't want faces. I just can't get off to identities/faces or whatever. I prefer body "parts" or emotional connection.
- Asker
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  porn turn you on? hot guys with hot body? turn on or neutral?
- estrellaceleste
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  Fake
Anonymous
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I get aroused by lots of visual stuff - pretty much everything you listed ❤️
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- Asker
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  but do you need emotional attachment to get turn on visually?
- Opinion Owner
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  Nope
- Asker
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  sexy things arouse you? you don't need to know them, don't have to have emotional connection with them? really?
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- Opinion Owner
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  Yep - eg I can see a fit guy that I've never seen before or spoken to and I get turned on 😂