Girls, If a woman rapes a man, should he decide if the baby is aborted or birthed instead of her?

Jigsaw_Gal Xper 3

If a woman is raped by a man, many say that a woman can abort because it would remind her baby of her rapist if she births him/her. Well if a woman rapes a man, it would remind him that she is carrying his baby to birth and she would be celebrating her victory over raping him by not giving him the choice if baby is aborted or not. The victim should decide if they want the baby to live or not.

If she can have option to avoid becoming a biological mother if raped by having abortion of baby called for, then he should have option to avoid becoming a biological father if raped by having abortion of baby called for. What's good for the goose is good for the gander. The same rules should apply to men and women.

To some, it's a moot point since abortion is killing God's creation, regardless who raped who.

It is sexism to say raped women can be legally condoned to call for abortion but raped men can't be legally condoned to call for abortion. If she raped him, she shouldn't be allowed to have a free baby and I mean to decide if baby enters the world or not. The man that rapes a woman doesn't decide if the baby enters world or not, then neither should women that rape men decide if baby enters world or not. What's good for women is good for men. The same rules applies to everybody.

If a man rapes a woman, she gets to decide so he should too if he's raped. Rape supersedes whose body it is. She stole his seed and is only able to give birth in that instance because she stole what he didn't want put into her.

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Idonthaveausername Yoda
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If a woman rapes a man and becomes pregnant, he should have no say in whether or not the child lives, but should have a choice in whether he ever wants to see the child or pay child support (as in have the option to not pay child support). It is her choice to have the baby in this case, so he shouldn't be held responsible for her actions

Either way (male or female) I don't think rape should constitute an abortion. I've met children who were products of rape and happy to be alive. If the parents don't want to keep a child, they should give it up for adoption. I've met several adopted children who love their adopted families and only one who didn't. Two of my co-workers are glad they were adopted because they know they wouldn't have the great lives they have today if their parents hadn't given them up. Adoption is always an option
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- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @idonthaveausername If a man rapes a woman, she should have no say in whether or not the child lives either but she should have choice in whether she ever wants to see the child or pay child support. I'm against rape too but since the law allows female rape victims chance to execute an abortion, then male rape victims should be able to exercise an abortion. It matters not that it's her body because his seed was immorally entered into her. If the victim decides the abortion or birth, then there is no inequality and many women want the women to have power over a raped man because she wants superiority, not equality.
- Idonthaveausername
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  There's no equality for an aborted human life. Nobody should have the right to kill another regardless of how that life came into existence
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @idonthaveausername That's true, even if it happened to you. I'm just implying that since women legally can abort if raped, that men should too if raped. But like you said, it's a moot point since abortion is a sin. Her act of abortion is just as bad as his act of rape as both are violating a life.
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- Anime27
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  Wow. So I give you this exact argument with body autonomy and laws to protect these men but because I am pro choice and don't see abortion as a "sin" because I'm not a religious person therefore I'm sexist and think raping men is ok... RIGHTO. If you can't hold a proper debate where those who don't have the same religious stand points aren't justly heard how about you don't ask this sort of shit in the first place. I'm so sorry I didn't say god would hold her accountable... abortion is murder and a sin bla bla bla. You couldn't properly debate your way out of a wet paper bag. Jesus.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 You're only pro choice when the rape is by the man. If the rape is by the woman, you are not pro choice then.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 And I gave you the exact argument that if she rapes him, she is telling him what to do with his body but you don't care because you only think rape victims should decide if abortion or birth happens if the victim is a woman but not a man.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 His sperm is his body and she has no right to steal it and be allowed to develop a baby with it if he doesn't want.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @idonthaveausername Why do you think many raped women feel entitled to call for an abortion to end what he put inside her but if she raped a man, feels he is not entitled to call for an abortion to end what she put inside him? Also, beasts don't have abortions regardless if it's rape, incest or consent. Why should humans?
Anime27 Xper 6
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No. Because it's not his body. Probably make laws to protect men from that but all in all no other person can tell a woman what she can and can't do with her own body. In terms of abortion there is no "what's good for the goose is good for the gander" because the man doesn't carry the the foetus or birth it so therefore has no say and neither does anyone else for that matter.
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- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 What is good for her is good for him. If he rapes her, she gets to call for an abortion, then if she rapes him, he should get to call for abortion. So you believe she gets to birth a baby on stolen seed when he didn't even consent to having it in her to start with? When his seed was put into her, it was his body not given chance to be told where it got sent but oh you think women are special and can celebrate raping a man by not giving him the choice for baby's abortion. If a woman is raped, she can choose to avoid being a biological mother. So a man that's raped should be able to choose to avoid being a biological father. The victim should always choose. Not just female victims.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 It's her body is a cop out because the way his seed got into her body violated his body when it was his body.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 Yet you believe a woman can tell a man what to do with his body by forcing his seed into her and then her controlling the baby's abortion or birth status.
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- Jigsaw_Gal
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  You're claiming if women are raped, she can avoid being a mother via abortion if she wants but if a men are raped, he can't avoid being a biological father if he wants. You're dictating that women can control the birth or abortion status on the seed she stole from him. Thus, you support sexism.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 You're sexist because you believe raped men should be powerless when abortion is involved but raped women should have power when abortion is involved. You think women can rape men and she dictates if the baby is aborted or birthed but men that rap women can't dictate that. You say it's her body, it's her right but that seed is his body, his right and he didn't willingly give his seed to her so she should be powerless in the say. You are using a natural phenomenon like a fetus forming inside a woman's womb as an excuse to give her power to do with what she stole.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 A man that is raped may not want her carrying the baby into the world. It isn't fair that she gets that decision when she is the rapist. Raping him supersedes it being her body when the choice should be his and not hers.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 You're saying it's okay for women to rape men since ultimately she gets to decide if the baby she stole is aborted or birthed.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 The only reason a woman is carrying a baby in this instance is due to her stealing part of his body and placing it inside her. So giving her the power to decide would be sexism. Plus, women abort for selfish reasons. Just because she doesn't want responsibilities, etc.
- Anime27
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  I'm not having an argument with you. Laws should be introduced to protect men from having responsibility of a child as a product of woman on man rape. No you're still not justified in forcing a woman to having a procedure that could quite possibly damage her not only physically but emotionally just because the rape victim doesn't want the child. What's stopping normal men who have unwanted pregnancies to their partner from doing the same damn thing? It's not your body YOU HAVE NO SAY IN WHAT HAPPENS TO IT INCLUDING ANY AND ALL THINGS IN IT.
- Anime27
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  Oh and I maybe sexist as you do eloquently put it but at least I'm not for taking away someone's basic human rights ie: body autonomy. I said there should be LAWS to PROTECT these men but in no way in hell will you ever be able to tell a woman what she can and can't do with her own body. Remember that.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 Yet you believe in women raping men as okay since ultimately you believe she gets to decide birth or abortion. But if the rape victim was the woman and didn't want the child, you're for that but against it if the man is the rape victim.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 Yet she rapes him and gets to damage him by forcing his seed into her. Ever thought he didn't want her to be a mother to his baby since she raped him?
- Anime27
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  Oh yea that's totally what I said. Woman on man rape is so ok to do. Gtfo with your bullsht seriously. Are you that daft to not understand what I'm saying? YES SHE GETS TO DECIDE IF SHE WANTS TO KEEP IT. BUT THERE SHOULD BE LAWS FOR MEN WHO WERE RAPED EXEMPTING THEM FROM LOOKIN AFTER IT. Just piss off with your hypothetical shit ass questions. Like really. Especially if you're going to be a wanker about it and not look at the whole picture before calling people names and putting words in their mouth. Ead.
- Anime27
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  You're a dead set ignorant moron. Just shut it.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Anime27 And that seed she stole from him is not her body either. She doesn't get to dictate if baby is birthed or aborted since he doesn't if she rapes him. The same rules apply to men and women. You just think women are superior.
- Anime27
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  Just fuck off. You clearly like the sound of your own voice so much there's no point in even asking questions like this when you're presented with a reasonable argument in return you're a complete ignorant tool about it. Grow up and go find something else to do. Oh yes women are superior and they have every right to rape men and force them to have babies they don't want because men are lower than women and don't deserve anything. That's exactly what I believe 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
- 27Anime
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  @Anime27 Keep blocking me and I'll hack your account. You proved you lost by blocking me and you just admitted women were superior. You still believe it's okay for women to rape men because you don't think men should decide if raped like a raped woman did. She was only pregnant to start with because she forced his seed into her. You don't want to acknowledge that.
- 27Anime
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  @Anime27 Wusses cuss and proved they have lost the conversation and battle. You just think rape victims have rights when the victim is female.
- 27Anime
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  @Anime27 You only blocked me because you can't handle that I stick up for raped men, unlike you. Raped men should have the same rights raped women have.
- 27Anime
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  @Anime27 It is not just her baby because it's in her womb. It is both of his or her baby.
- 27Anime
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  @Anime27 There was no reasonable argument. You clearly believe that only women makes babies when it takes men and women to make them. You believe that it's bad when men rape women but okay when women rape men.
- 27Anime
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  @Anime27 When a woman rapes a man, she still gets her reproductive rights. Why shouldn't a man that rapes a woman get his reproductive rights too? By giving raped women reproductive rights but not raped men, means you say it's okay for women to rape men since you believe women get the choice regardless. That man didn't get his say who he wanted to reproduce with.
- Anime72
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  @Anime27 She raped him, so she has no say what part of his body can add on to hers. if she was raped, he wouldn't have any say what part of his body added on to hers. When he was raped by her, he didn't get to abort his seed from continuing in her. So why does she get to abort his seed from continuing in her when she is raped by him?
- Anime72
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  @Anime27 Answer me. You blocked me because you knew I was right and you were wrong. You are a sexist and know it. You block people because you can't handle criticism.
- Masculine-Daniel
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  @Anime27 You do support women raping men. If you didn't, you'd think the man should decide if the life continues or stops like a raped woman decides. You say it's her body, her choice. Well it is his body, his choice. He didn't get to decide which woman gained his sperm. And it is not entirely her body when sperm is involved. It takes 2 to make a baby. The victim decides.

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SarahsSummer Master
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What a roduiculous scenario.
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- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @SarahsSummer My mind comes up with the most odd of oddities that is second to none that nobody else would ask. If she is developing baby on stolen seed, then he should have say if the life is birthed or aborted since she decides if she is raped if life is birthed or aborted. He may not want his seed to be birthed if he was raped, then again, he may. Either way, victim is choosing.
dahzilian Xper 4
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Sure it's right, the victim should decide. But, do you think, after raping a man, she would care about his decision and do the right thing? Even if it was a law, if she already had raped a man, why would she care about an other law?
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- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @dahzilian True because if she was raped, she would decide if baby is aborted or not. If she is having a baby developed on stolen seed, then he should decide. And there's a chance that raped man may want the baby to be birthed, just like a raped woman may want the baby to be birthed. Thus, the victim is deciding. This proves you are not sexist and are logical.
- dahzilian
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  I am feminist actually haha ❤
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @dahzilian Follow me please. I want to ask you stuff in private.
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- dahzilian
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Theresao Xper 6
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Yes he should
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CaviarLilly Xper 5
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He doesn't get to decide anything the fuck? He took her choice so why consider his?
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Ladyslipper Xper 7
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Murdering a baby shouldn't be an option in the first place
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- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Ladyslipper Now we're talking. At least sexism isn't involved either way. Way to go, pro lifer! How did you gain those views?
- Ladyslipper
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  I've just always had them, I was raised in a Christian family and all babies are gifts from God no matter how they are conceived
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Ladyslipper What do you think of @Anime27 s views?
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- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Ladyslipper I believe babies shouldn't pay with death for another's crimes: man or woman. An eye for an eye is bad.
- Jigsaw_Gal
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  @Ladyslipper You were right. I asked an expert pastor and he said that God will hold her responsible for the abortion whether it can due to rape or not. He said she's responsible for giving the baby life and not use that instance as a plot to seek revenge and get out of her motherly duties due to rape. He did say it was an awful situation to be a part of.
Olgamasha Xper 2
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Your question is very smart. In my opinion he should be able to tell that he doesn’t want to see the consequence of this crime. Simultaneously, he can request for abortion if the rapist is going to use this against the survivor. So probably women and men should be able to speak against the consequences.
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Anonymous
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Yes. I Think so because it's just as much his babys as hers that's a fact. And just bacaue it's inside of her doesn't mean she owns a living thing lika it's her leg. It's a person with it's own soul and heart. So of a woman rapes a man the man should definatly chooce if she should do abortion or not. And if she is worried about what can happend to her body it's her fault, she shouldn't have raped anyone period
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- Opinion Owner
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  And I'm not gonna waste my time with an argument, whatever you think. I respect all opinions even if I disagree with some of them. So don't think about starting an argument IF anyone out there would because I'm not answering. It's a waste of time.