How do you feel about MFM and FFM threesomes in a relationship?

[Chico_brah]

I'm not thinking about to doing this right now but I stumble across this question on gag a lot. Whenever I see these questions I sort of think about my personal situation.

I'm open minded but I personally look at my girlfriend as mine and mine only. The thought of another guy having sex with my girlfriend in front of me would fucking kill me. I would never be able to do that without ripping that guys fucking head off tbh.

My girlfriend has hooked up with a couple girls before so she technically is bisexual. For that reason, I'd only ever consider FFM for the sole fact that we are both benefiting and are both enjoying it. Given this scenario, do you feel it would only be right to consider FFM?

I think there is a difference in dynamic between men and women when it comes to this topic. As a man, you're considered the biggest fucking pussy to let another guy fuck your girl. It's extremely shameful as a man to allow that to happen. While a lot of of women might think the same, I feel it's of a lesser extreme. Men by nature are more dominant and possessive and I'm not just going to say otherwise to sound politically correct. Of course some women might feel different and I'm considering that as well. I'm only speaking in general terms here so don't get all triggered.

What are your thoughts?

[redeyemindtricks]

"As a man, you're considered the biggest fucking pussy to let another guy fuck your girl"

^^ If the boy is letting his woman "open up the relationship", then, there's something to be said for this POV.

But... Across the board? Nah.

Remember, ALMOST ALL boys like a **certain** amount of exhibitionism in their woman.
I'm gna go ahead and say that at least 97% of boys LOVE showing off a hot woman -- especially when she's wearing alluring clothes and walking that sexy walk. And of course all this showing-off is done for the eyes of other *boys* in the vicinity... since that's who's looking, and that's whose envy the boy in question is trying to fire up.
A smaller, but still significant, percentage of boys like to fuck their woman for an audience, and/or show off ALL of her. (If it weren't for performance anxiety, erectile inconsistencies, etc., I'd wager this would still be a double-digit percentage.)

The next level -- still fundamentally the same show-off instinct, just much more extreme than most -- is when the boy actually wants his woman to be his own personal porn star. Complete with live performances.
This is definitely a thing. Some boys are driven to obsession by seeing a woman with a voracious, seemingly limitless sexual appetite do her thang, as she takes on more than one boy at a time.
I mean... there's a LOT of gangbang porn out there, dude. If that's one of a boy's favorite genres, do you think he's not going to imagine his own woman as the one getting all that attention? Come onnnnnn.
Sure, lots of them wouldn't *dare* admit to having that fantasy (... mostly because too many peolpe would react the way YOU are reacting, right here in that quote). But, lots of them would... and plenty of them want to make it happen for real.

The boys I'm thinking of, who are like this, aren't "cucks" in the least bit. In fact, they're way more dominant (and way more controlling!) than the average boy... to such an extent that they're *always* going to be calling the shots and "directing the show".
The other boys in these situations pretty much just do what they're told -- about 1% what they're told by the woman, and about 99% what they're told by her man. They're just props. And if they throw any shade or challenges at him... ahah that's not going to end well, for them.

Most of these boys are also a bit older, with the whole silver fox thing going on -- the type that's ready to "settle down" because they've fucked through so much variety that it just ain't

[redeyemindtricks]

worth the effort for them, anymore (... not to mention that sexual variety starts to *cost* a lot more at that age -- at least in terms of time, effort and/or resources, if not literal money). Not to mention that younger boys are too much of hotheads to make this work, even if they fantasize about it every damn day. ... And the woman, in these situations, is usually a lot younger than her man. With that dynamic -- frankly, a lot of the time, the boy just wants to be **entertained**, for much much longer than he can actually participate in the festivities himself. He likes to see his woman just go and go and go... not to mention the visuals. The boys who ARE cucks -- now *that* is a totally different thing. Those are the boys whose focus isn't even on the woman at all -- the ones who are all about the creepy shit like "I wanna see her with a big cock / black dude / etc". THOSE boys are pretty much all secretly gay, and they just don't realize how painfully obvious that is to everyone

[redeyemindtricks]

who isn't them. And that... that whole situation is just all kinds of fucked up, and exactly 0 kinds of hot. __ As far as the original question -- As a STRAIGHT woman, honestly dude, there are very few things I can think of that wolud be as mind-numbingly, eye-dryingly BORING as a FMF threesome. Even when it's one on one, a woman is like a whole surge strip, and a boy is like one plug (**maybe** two, if he's the kind of lover who comes along once in a lifetime... if you're lucky ahah). She can TAKE sooooo much more than one boy can give, in the sexual stimulation dept. Oh fuck yeah she can. Two straight women and a man? Makes about as much sense as having two entire surge strips for 1 plug. Hard pass. If both women are genuinely bisexual -- and genuinely attracted to each other, too -- then **maybe** the whole sitaution could be good times for all. But even then, I think the boy is gna expect too much from the women, and is going to underestimate how much attention they'll

[redeyemindtricks]

just lavish on each other while they mostly ignore him (... and when they aren't ignoring him, they'll be making pretty steep demands on his performance AND his multitasking ability). An MFM, on the other hand -- when the intensity is at redline, the 2 boys are slamming her with a solid rhythm, and they aren't afraid of each other's cooties or whatever tf -- is... ahhh yeah it's amazing. Attentionnnnnn bby. __ And then there's the whole problem of the relationship, too. There are lots of kinds of jealousy, insecurity, anger, and even heartbreak that can absolutely pop out of nowhere -- perhaps even violently, if this is the very first time they're doing this in real life. This is why YOUNG couples don't tend to do so hot with these things. Once you're a little gray, and all that sound and fury has simmered down a little bit... it becomes more doable. Until then? Tread with caution. Be careful what you wish for, because you just might get it.

[lord_chilled]

Where do you get those statistics from? I couldnt take you seriously after " im gna go ahead and say that at least 97% of boys LOVE showing off a hot woman -- especially when she's wearing alluring clothes and walking that sexy walk. " No, lmao, omg seriously what kind of guys do you hang out with? Not a single real man would ever want to show off his woman, especially in a revealing way. Men are protective, we dont expose our goods for other people to steal. That includes our women. The only thing a man os okay with other men seeing, is his womans pretty face. And in some muslim countries, they dont even want that. You are majorly deluded by your own "multiple men fantasies", woman. Keep your toughts to yourself and to porn. You won't find any man worth his time to be into that sort of shit. And those men you described are no better than cucks they are just dominant cucks, lol. But a cuck is still a cuck, swinger males are still cucks. None of them are real men, you know why?

[lord_chilled]

Because they dont have a single protective bone in their body. A man needs to be able to protect his kids, his friends and his family. That includes his woman as well. And letting other men get intinate with your woman is putting her in a very vulnerable position, where she could be harmed, raped, infected with diseases etc. And not to add, what if she gets pregnant by another man. There is no denial that a man stuck with rising another mans kid IS the ultimate pussy. Oh god, i can't believe an influencer like you shares such a deluded fantasy of what men are. You have absolutely no clue on men

[redeyemindtricks]

@lord_chilled "Not a single real man would ever want to show off his woman, especially in a revealing way. Men are protective, we dont expose our goods for other people to steal. That includes our women." ^^ ... right, that's why the wives of the world's most powerful and influential men are always walking around in loose-fitting head-to-toe robes. Silly me... those women are **never** seen in perfectly fitted, elegant yet sexy dresses. Of course not. 😂😂😂 Tf "Men are protective, we dont expose our goods for other people to steal. That includes our women." ^^ A real man doesn't need to worry about anyone "stealing his woman", because a real man actually inspires loyalty and dedication from her. __ ... but, yeah. I bet you think those psychopaths who kidnap women and leave them chained up in a backwoods torture shack for 22 years are the biggest "alphas" of all. Right? News flash: Women are not THINGS that can be "stolen". Some boys actually make us WANT to be faithful. Some.

[lord_chilled]

The worlds most powerful and influential men can sometimes be some really manipulatibe pricks as well. That doesn't make them any more man than the rest of us. They wouldn't be above using their wives as eye candy for the extra attention. Besides, they know damn sure that they are the best thing that their wives have and that they wouldn't leave them. And id wonder wether those women would have been with them if theyvwerent so powerful Oh , really a real man is so confident that he would live his house unlocked and his car keys in the car? I think thats more of a stupid man. And i know women are not things, but we as men still will guard them, just like we guard our children from negative influences. But of course , you wouldn't understand that, since the men you know have no such instincts. - And no, i think psychopaths are psychopaths, nothing more or less.

[redeyemindtricks]

@lord_chilled Houses and cars have no sense of loyalty. And children NEED to be guarded, because... they're children. I mean... what a winner. I'm sure women are just clamoring for yr attention, dude. Not only do you want to hide a woman from the whole world, but, you literally think of women on the same level as little children, or mechanical objects. Oh, about that profile pic... You *do* know that smoking stopped being "cool" in 1st world countries like... 20 or 25 years ago, right?

[lord_chilled]

Oh, please i dont care whats cool or not, i dont do everything based on how trendy it is. You said that, i never said i think of women the same as children or objects. Regardless we still care for them in a different way, but i dont expect you to understand that, since you have already proven that you dont have much of a knowledge on what men think. Take a seat

[lord_chilled]

And since you still haven't learnt much about men, ill let you in on some things that you have missed. Men like to watch porn, but the thibgs we see in porn aren't always what we fantasize about in real life. Most certainly we do not think of the woman in the porn as our woman. We think of her as some woman who is getting fucked by a dude, and most often we think of ourselves as the dudes fucking her. However it is purely sexual in nature, and we have no emotional or personal connection to her. In other words, we dont care about her. Once a man sees a woman as his own woman, he no longer sees her as purely sexual. There are emotional connections involved and there is a personal relationship. And that woman, we most certainly dont want to share with anyone. We want to take care of her and protect her, and maybe have children and a family with her. And other men getting sexually intimate with her is a threat , both to her, to us, and to the family. If you want to know why, i can expand

[lord_chilled]

On this. And even tough a woman is loyal to her man, other guys can still pose a threat since most women aren't as strong as men, they could force themselves on her. A cuck is basically allowing another man the opportunity to rape his wife. Do you really think he could stop them? Maybe one one one he could stop him, but if there is multiple guys there is no way a cuck would stop them. But who are we kidding, i dont think a guy like that has even the balls to intervene, hell those perverts may probably even like it

[redeyemindtricks]

@lord_chilled "Oh, please i dont care whats cool or not, i dont do everything based on how trendy it is." ^^ ... So you smoke for the... health benefits, then? You're an interesting boy.

[lord_chilled]

I smoke once in a while when i have a good drinking session with my buddies. Sometimes its at my place and someone forgets a half pack of cigs. When i ask them, they will say keep em, i bought a new pack lol. So i will smoke them occasionally. I do it cause it feels good and gives a small high. Smoking may have gone out of fashion among us youth, but its pretty prevalent in Europe, depending on where you live, and social circles and stuff.

[redeyemindtricks]

Tx for the MH luv <3

[asdfdude]

@lord_chilled, you may feel this way but that doesn't mean all guys do. Research shows this is a very common fantasy among heterosexual men - Cuckold porn is actually the second most popular category. A man's brain is actually hardwired to get turned on seeing another man fucking his woman, too. It's a side effect of sperm competition. Straight men are also aroused by penises, just as much as gay men are. You may be hung up on the taboo and on archaic myths about whether or not this is “manly”, but many guys don’t give a shit about taboos.

[asdfdude]

Sorry, that came off as pretty judgmental now that I reread it. It's perfectly fine if you don't like this, it's just your personal preference, and there's no reason to be judgmental about someone's turnons or turnoffs.

[lord_chilled]

@asdfdude no its not. If you watch a lot of porn, your brain can get rewired. I have watched the porn and found the porn arousing, but cut out the sexual asoecr and your natural reaction is to kill the other guy. There is no higher gut wrenchingly sick feeling than seeing the woman you love being fucked by another man. However, when you watch a lot of porn, you start to sexualize any sex you see, so therefore, even a stimulus of this kind may arouse you. Thats because you aren't really thinking of her as your woman or as you losing her, but just as a person having sex. In a way, porn in general is kinda cuck-ish. You are watching a woman having sex, you aren't fucking her. Years of such stimulation will make even cuckold porn or fantasies seem more normal. It kinda grooms you up for it. in my opinion , true cuckolds are very rare, the surplus of viewers are regular guys who are just porn induced cucks,,.

[lord_chilled]

Porn has other side effects too of course, some whoch are worse than this. I decided to quit that shit, altough i sometimes relapse，mostly i just view pics tough. And when i do jerk off, i use my imagination now. Planning to slowly stop the need to jerk off as well and also not watch any type of erotic stuff, going on a period of monk mode, before going into my next relationship. Porn has messed me up a bit. Back to the point, in all ways its better for a man not to have cuckold tendencies. But, if he does, well good for the guys around him

[Bleh-___-]

It's trouble waiting to happen man. In theory it sounds great but in reality it will usually throw the relationship off-balance. One person always enjoys it more than the other like you described and the other person becomes insecure about the relationship. It only works if you guys have a crazy amount of security in the relationship and each other (although even the most secure people can't handle seeing their partner with someone else) or don't care about each other which doesn't seem to be the case. I'd do a lot for my dude but 3some isn't one of those things. Bring it up with her but don't make it sound like you really want it.
Honestly the only person who wins in the 3some is the guest star lol

[naomi10wylde]

It really depends what you and your partner are looking to get out of the threesome. I've had FFF threesomes with bisexual and lesbian girls, MFF with a straight guy and bi girl and MMF with two bisexual guys. MMF threesomes with straight guys would only be enjoyable if the guys like watching the girl getting fucked really so seeing as you're straight and wouldn't enjoy that and your girlfriend is bi it makes sense to have a FFM threesome because she enjoys having sex with women and you enjoy having sex with women and watching two women have sex. You just have to talk to your girlfriend and figure out what you both want from a threesome.

[lord_chilled]

Personally im a monogamous person, so 3somes are off the table.
Now, if my girl is bi and she says she wants other girls from time to time, we could workout some rules with ffm 3somes to make the relationship work. But that will depend on a lot of things,, tbh i think its safer to be monogamous.

And dude, you are undererstimating girls when you say they aren't as possessive as men.
Men may do some sheer aggressive violent shit , but women can be a whole other level of crazy when it comes to possessiveness

[Blitzkrieger]

I wouldn't consider any kind of threesome if i had a girl. It would be different if it was just hooking up with some people, but i am always concerned about diseases so i dont know if i would follow through with. Its also not responsible to let guys fuck your girl especially with the risk of pregnancy.

[AustinMan]

Bad idea. It's an emotional minefield.

[MlleCake]

Threesomes are for people who don't maintain a possessive attitude about their lovers. If you think it's emasculating for another man to have sex with your partner, they would certainly be a bad idea. A lot of pressure to get into FFM threesomes is related to the M wanting to have women put on a sexual performance for them, and relates very little to the pleasure of the women. And of course they see another man as a threat but another woman as an additional person to order around. How boring.

[ablisk]

As a girl, I would maim the bitch who tried to touch my husband the wrong way. But I'd say both Maybe and ask for her opinion on it and if you're not comfortable with sex, set limitations as to what you would be comfortable with

[Kitten967]

I've had a FFM, I wouldn't do a MMF since if I'm in a relationship in only want sex with the guy I'm in a relationship with

[melanieeeB]

Nope never, I don't like to share,
especially when the relationship is serious, I don't want to share my partner with any other person in bed. Also if it is just something casual, nope I won't share my toy ;)

[Carley99]

I wouldn't want to do it with a guy that I'm serious about because seeing a next girl fucking my man I would think about 100 ways to kill her and as the person I am I would get paranoid not matter if I'm having fun with both.

[0112358]

I think one partner being bisexual means the dynamics are indeed different.

[alice55]

I'm against

[Bandit74]

Not interested in MFM at all.
FMF is appealing on some level, but I still think it's generally a bad idea in a relationship.

[cth96190]

Been there, did that. It was good. 😈

[Chico_brah]

I did it with my ex girlfriend and while I really enjoyed it she got really insecure.

[Puppylove94]

I wouldn't want to have a 3some.

[Chico_brah]

Even if you were single?

[Puppylove94]

Like me with a couple?

[NiceGurl]

I think it's stupid. And it's never worked for anyone I know.

[dolemite68]

i've had several ffm's, if a girl wanted a mmf i just don't think i could get a hard on with another guy in the room tbh lol

[cupidkisses]

would never do it

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

I'm not into threesomes

[JennieF]

We recently did an MFM, which I enjoyed, and are likely doing an FMF.

[max_spy]

I'm not into Threesome mate

[lost_alice]

It is okay, both of them

[CT_CD]

FFM sounds good

[dogfish]

no thanks , dont want that