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guys, is it normal that my boyfriend loves to spank my ass and leave it like this?

red mark / some bruises
guys,is it normal that my boyfriend loves to spank my ass and leave it like this ??
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    Napoli Napoli
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    It's a flaw in their make-up. Most likely they saw it happen and/or or it happened to them growing up and were mistaught that it's accepatable.

    Most of the time, it's not something they can control. It's not right and they need psychological help. They don't know how to deal with their anger and haven't been taught how to.

    I know It's the other way around, but my mother's ex partner was very abusive, and he often talked about how is father beat him when he was growing up. My first ever serious boyfriend was abusive, and I just thought it was normal. That that's what happened. Again, he had a very rough upbringing.
    I still get surprised when guys are nice to me. I don't mean in the street, but guys I spend time with. It's still alien.

    Anyway, sorry I hijacked your question, but I do think it's the same for either sex, that's just what I wanted to say ~ that they don't know any other way of dealing with things. Even when they do, they don't know how to apply it.

    Don't believe they're proud of it though. I haven't seen it in women but I've seen it in men, and they're tortured on the inside. I don't think it's any different for females.
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    Sometimes it's necessary when my wife isn't acting right, refusing to keep the house cleaning and have a meal prepared for when I come home from work. I tried to discuss her disrespectful behavior but she flew into a rage and attacked me so I grabbed her and put her across my knee hitched up her skirt pulled down her panties and with the palm of my hand spanked her bottom as hard as I could for 10 minutes. Her ass was red raw and she couldn’t sit down for a week. She ran home to her parents who were discusted by her behaviour and her father threatened to take his belt to her. After a week she realised how wrong she had been andrawn apologised, we had amazing make up sex. Ever since she's been as good as gold putting maximum effort into our marriage and is now pregnant. It was all just a classic shit test to test my limits and of course if I hadn't disciplined her she would not respect me.

  • Is he 11 and weak?

    This is how it's done:

    https://i.imgur.com/7K1EbG2.jpg

    • Is that somebody's back?

    • @xxmamichulaxx It's not actually my picture - but I've left welts just like that before (on girls who like that kind of thing). Not that it has to be that hard... but when a girl says "is that all you got?", I give 'em one of those.

    • That looks kind of painful, but to each their own lol. I know a lot of people are into it

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  • My ex use to leave marks just like that on mine. It's not normal to have marks unless his spanking you pretty hard.

  • that's barely red, and yah, it's called leaving his mark. it's a common way of "marking territory"

    • the pic shows that but it was way more red

    • still, perfectly normal as long as it doesn't hurt you terribly

    • have you ever been spanked like that?

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  • yeah spanking is fun, but if you are hurting too much or he is too rough you need to tell him, its not really normal to leave marks like that. Nice ass by the way

  • It is easier to hide than a hicky. That is him marking his territory and he enjoys spanking a woman. Some women love that others not so much.

  • unless you like having marks on you no its not normal.

  • Yes it's normal, you got make the girl feeling excited, but it depends on the girl some like it some don't.

  • I guess he has a thing for smacking your ass. It's a way to relieve pleasure to ones self. Also nice ass haha

  • Well, depends on what you think normal is. Most people don't get a spanking before sex.
    There are a lot of people that like spankings and like to give spankings.
    So, your boyfriend would be one of them. Now how about you?

  • Spanking is a pretty popular form of sex play, so in that sense it's normal. The important question is how do you feel about it? Do you like being spanked? And does he do it when he's angry, or just as a form of foreplay?

  • yea i love doing it to every girl I fuck with I have to give her a spank it's like my favrite thing to do. leaving your hand print is great it's like marking your territory 😁 but if it's actually hurting you tell him not to do it so hard.

  • It's weird to me. Only think I like spanking is my monkey.

  • Do you like being spanked like that? If "yes" then yes, if "no" then no.

  • Hell yes!! Such a turn on!!

  • yes. it is normal

  • Your butt looks really good, so I'm not surprised

  • i wouldn't like that.

  • depends do you like it?

  • God yes lol
    We love spanking nice butts lol

  • hell yeah

  • if he's not leaving his hand print on your ass, then he's not spanking you right

  • No that's weird

  • nice butt deserve it.

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