Are ears a weird erogenous zone?

I absolutely love my ears being nibbled on and picked and kissed and pulled and caressed and played with and touched in anyway. My boyfriend (who is a little naive) has never really heard or had experience with kissing an ear. Is it weird? would he be turned off if I asked him to kiss my ear?

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  • I don't know how common it is but my wife has the same thing. It was the most surprising thing I discovered about her where it actually arouses her for me to kiss or pull or play with especially the lower part of her ear. I don't want to get graphic but it arouses her sexually in obvious ways.

    My wife tried to do this to me in return and it had the opposite effect. I felt tickled and started losing the whole boner. :-D

    • really? your other girlfriends weren't like this? i thought all girls were turned on by this.

    • @COCOCHANEL I might have failed to discover it with previous exes. I was so surprised though that you could just touch her there and she ends up getting wet just from that.

    • @COCOCHANEL She might also be unusually sensitive... I mean to the point where you can just play with her ear for a few seconds and then she's ready for sex -- makes foreplay pretty simple. :-D

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  • You should come up behind him, and start touching his exogenous zones, then do something to his ear that you'd like. Chances are he'd like it to once he's already turned on and then he'd understand. If he doesn't get turned on, you can always play it off as, 'that's how I want you to touch me'

Most Helpful Girls

  • I like the nibbles and nudges, but gag do not stick your tongue in my ear. Our necks and ears are very sensitive to light touch. It just feels good and very intimate.

  • Don't worry, its very normal. And if it's something that's turns you on, then you should definitely keep it in the playbook and don't cheat yourself, treat yourself.

  • I think it's actually pretty common. Your boyfriend will get used to the idea. Maybe he'll even start to enjoy playing with your ears.

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  • It's normal, guys love it when you tell them where you want to be touched ;)
    in every sense...
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    ...
    trust me ;)

  • Sexy

    • It will be a turn on. At least it is for me

  • What's weird about ears? We all have them...
    Every girl I have known loved getting their ears played with, you are not alone and there is nothing weird about it.

  • its common and not werid :)

  • It's normal... and most girls I know love it.

  • no it feels SO great!

    have you tried it on him?
    nibble his earlobe while making soft moans in his ear and so on. his neck around it, show him on him how you like it. I pretty much guaranteeb it'll drive him wild too.

  • i don't think it's weird. ears are really sensitive.

  • It's normal. For a woman, pretty much her entire neck and lower head is a strong erogenous zone (figures on the far left)
    www.researchgate.net/.../...males-The-data-are.png

  • "Blow in my ear and I'll follow you anywhere." Ears are an erogenous zone. I thought that was common knowledge.

  • Lol, like, not weird at all :)

  • Eh ear lobes was my exes turn-on button. Suck on those for a few seconds and she was dripping wet and ready to rumble.

  • What the fuck.

  • No, totally not weird. I've had many partners who liked that, too.

  • Tell him, most people appreciate that

  • Lots of people, boys and girls do like it and find it hot.

  • No, it's not weird. I love to have my ears nibbled on. It sends shock waves all the way through my body.

  • Love Ear!! 😉 😄😄😄

  • Erogenous zones are hotter when they are weird, so though ears are one of the first places touched, it's weird for it's own sake

  • You should ask him it's soooo insanely hot!

  • so common

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