Should I tell my boyfriend that his penis is too small?

[Anonymous]

It's too small and I don't really feel much pleasure when we have sex. I would like him to wear a penis extender so that we can both enjoy sex because right now it doesn't do much for me. Do you think I should tell him and if so what do I say? I don't want him to get upset but I also think that I should be honest about what's bothering me in our relationship.

[seby1607]

Don't tell him. Don't tell him his penis is small. Don't tell a man unironically his penis his small. A man's ego is the most vulnerable a man has, and therefore can be crushed the easiest. How about you try some other positions?

sex.sofeminine.co.uk/.../...mall-penis-d49607.html This might help you out.

But for the love of everything: Never. Ever. Tell a man that his penis is small.

You can tell him what he should or shouldn't do to satisfy you in bed instead. Tell him what you like and what you don't. And like I mentioned previously, do different positions with your boyfriend. That might help you out as well, but never tell him his penis is small.

Look, in this case, with all due respect, women have no clue how crushed a man is when he unironically hears from his significant other "Your penis is small." Because the worst problem is that we cannot change it by surgery or anything to make it larger.

So please never ever tell a man, especially your significant other, his penis is small, but you might be interested in doing these things as I've listed above: Explain what you like and what you don't and try different positions.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

You say "Babe, i am sorry my vagina is too loose, but do you think we can get a penis extender so my hallway can capture the fun too?"
-OG, 2k17
@vishna

[wingattebaby16]

TBH, if he is that small, anything you tell him will hurt his feelings and make him mad.

He will probably wear an extender a few times, but guys get all insecure over a small dick.

Options for you:
- use a penis extender on him.
- get him a cockring so he will be harder.. sometimes harder will make up for shortness
- it is time for you to find a new boyfriend with a bigger cock.. 7"+ would be best!
- he needs a tiny petite woman that has a small pussy. Filipina, Vietnamese, Thai, and Japanese women are used to tiny short dicks.

Just my 2 cents worth...

[vishna]

How long have you been dating? He will be hurt if you ask this, so, you really need to know you want to be with him and that he will trust and accept the comfort you have to give. Because boy oh boy, this is asking a lot...
However, I'm not judging you for feeling he doesn't have enough to please you.
I just think you should do about this in the best way possible, his feelings are on the line.

[1988fido]

Totally agreed But don't mind me asking what is the size? Like the women active area of pleasure is at the beginning of the vagina no need to have super long D. Quote : "The average vagina is 3-4 inches long, but fear not if your guy is hung like a horse. The vagina can expand by 200 percent when sexually aroused, kind of like a balloon. Remember, the vagina was made to birth babies, so it's exceedingly elastic. If you have pain when getting it on with someone large, you can use dilators to help stretch the vagina so you can accommodate the whole package" So I can't imagine he have a D smaller than 3-4 inches..!

[NJ_Casanova]

@1988fido 3<4" is for an Unaroused vagina. A fully aroused one is usually 4.5<6" deep. Most of the guys I know/talked to that are <6" rarely have "bottomed out on a girl. Most of the guys 7"+ bottom out often.

[vishna]

@NJ_Casanova @1988fido Yea, vaginas can get really open, especially if we're aroused in a certain way, it definitely fluctuates between being very tight and quite roomy, even for a guy with an above average penis.

[1988fido]

Yes but it's the is 4" should be even enough. Do research about ur stimulation part of the Vagina it will be 8-11 cm after that u it's different type of skin. Like the dick : the tip is the part to feel good and where stimulation come from. While the rest are barley anything So in the vagina it's first 11 cm to 8cm is where that skin is the rest nothing to feel. I am 6" and I reach the womb in 90% of the women I slept with. But all pointless try to see proper science facts and stuff about ur vagina and where the nerves end in there u will see what am trying to say. Example no man will orgasm from tubing his cock if the tip not involved. It's like can u cum f I kept touching ur boobs only?

[vishna]

@1988fido I have fully functioning parts, don't tell me to do my research on my body. I've been with guys smaller and bigger than you and they've all reached the cervix. It's not a feat. Just like they've all experienced expansion and tightness. If she doesn't feel satisfied, it is what it is.

[1988fido]

Am talking biology u guys talk street talk. Simple biology facts I never even mentioned the vagina size when she is aroused ..! I never even brought the topic of vagina expansion capabilities. Am talking where ur vagina feels good and the rest of it useless to reach , am talking from doctors in university teaching u where nerves end Unfortunately I am not good at English and didn't study in English so can't translate everything I know That's why I said research.

[1988fido]

@casanova U wrote 4.5-6 when aroused. So it's contradiction in u saying 6" rarely do..! And 7" is what does it..! Unless u need to do math again 6 doesn't = 7

[Poppykate]

Yeah! And while you are at it, you could
1. Tell him his mother is fat
2. Run over his pet dog
3. And kick him in the balls!
Yeah sounds like a great idea! 👍🏻

[nameus3r]

As agreeable as ever 😍

[Poppykate]

@nameus3r thanks! ☺️ But it's like telling a girl you are sleeping with, that you wish that she had bigger boobs. You just don't do it! It's common courtesy!

[Account]

That's a huge no. Don't tell him, odds are if his vision is functioning, he already knows.

[Fakelynamedprofile]

be gentle! his pride and self esteem will plummet regardless although if you tell him yous can both enjoy sex in your relationship. but please, just think of it like this, if you had an unbearable vaginal odor and he had to tell you about it to enjoy sex, would you rather him be supportive and helpful or just blunt and discouraging. just think about it hope all goes well!

[mistixs]

tell him you prefer to be eaten out

[NJ_Casanova]

Have you included toys in your sex life yet? You could have him use it on you after he cums so you get off too.

You could buy the extender and have him try it out. If you don't want to hurt his feelings and like DP he could use a good size toy IN the P with him in the A.

If he never satisfies you and isn't willing to try the toys.. then you have to decide..."How important is sex" in your life.

[AleDeEurope]

You could always attach a small vibrator to the tip of his penis, to make him a few inches bigger, and have him vibrate too.

[springocelot]

they sell penis extenders?
umm, i wouldn't tell him
because if he is small as you say, then he already knows

[Sdavid]

But what should she do? She want the penetration

[Chico_brah]

Penis extender lmao. Does that even exist? I mean it's going to kill his ego but you need to say something. Either that or leave. Out of curiosity.. how small? lmao

[Pearlblue08]

I wouldn't say anything. It's not something he can help or has control over. If it's something you can't handle it's not a good idea to stay in that relationship. good luck

[Llmllm]

Tell him his dick is small and it will magically become 8 inches

[nameus3r]

8 inches is a troublemaker too. 7 suits nearly all people ideally.

[TaylorSpliff]

That is going to crush him. Don't say anything.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Tell him you like for him to use a extension to make things more fun for the both of you.

[jacquesvol]

Don't tell him , teach him how to satisfy you with it. Or without it.

[Leeviathon]

Tell him what you think will make sex more pleasurable for you without mentioning that his penis is too small. If you tell him directly that his penis is too small it would most likely crush his ego and you will have more problems than you started off with. I don't think girls would like to be told their vagina is too loose or their tits are too small/saggy.

[KatherineJ]

If you love him, just offer the suggestion of more foreplay and maybe suggest toys. I wouldn't say anything about his size.

[RegularTK421]

I think you should. It's best for a man to know the truth, and if you are not 100 percent honest with each other at all times then the relationship will never last. You can say you would be fine with more oral sex and the use of sex toys for more penetration, but at the same time you shouldn't tell the whole world about his body. It's personal, and you should keep it just between you two.

[cumslutally]

yes you should tell him

[Titanic1912]

Don't tell him that! You'll be insulting him!

[Ali55sven]

Tell him he has a tiny penis and it isn't enough.

[spicy3]

If you have to tell him, tell him indirectly, get some dildos into your foreplay, finger, etc

[dolemite68]

break up with him for another reason.