What is more pleasurable for you: penetration or orgasm?

[mistixs]

[Tdieseler]

Orgasm for 100 points please...
You said on one of the other opinions that this is assuming that both had penetrating actions...
wth is the point of penetrating without orgasm? i'd rather whack off.
Most of the guys... (most)... who say penetration... are a bunch of morons who dont seem to realize that blue balls is real...
the balls already produce millions of sperm on its own without stimulation, when stimulated (turned on), that fucking production increases, and when penetrating and thrusting, it goes into overdrive... then there is no exit?

They can say penetration now because they have only gotten it once, twice...😒 never, but I've been in that situation a few times, due to me, her, or something else completely and i tell you, it is NOT fun.
Ask every guy out here who has experienced penetration without orgasm, almost, if not all of them will tell you that they had to "finish" at some point. which is the same thing these "penetration" morons would do as well.
Is penetration still pleasurable? fuck yea, the intimacy, the company, the heat.. etc.. but it doesn't beat letting all that pent up pressure out...

[ak666]

I went with "penetration". Let's say I'm given two choices:

1) Jerk off by myself.
2) Have intercourse with a girl but not to climax.

I'll go with #2. That said, if it's about the sensations then I might go with orgasm, but there's more to it than physical sensations. If my enjoyment of sex boiled down solely to physical sensations, then I might as well just masturbate and not bother with sex at all.

[katiesmuff]

My take on this question is that in both cases your pee pee is inside a pussy.

[ak666]

@katiesmuff It's a tricky one in that case since the orgasm can't occur in such a case without penetration. I might still go with penetration in that case since the most exciting part about sex is that feeling of being with a female, of finding her body beautiful, and being able to hold it. The orgasm is kind of a highlight but it's relatively brief in comparison.

[ak666]

@katiesmuff [...] since the most exciting part about sex [for me] [...]

[katiesmuff]

Sounds like a pretty sound opinion!

[Angeliss]

Your example is unfortunately my reality. I have never had an orgasm with a man I can only have it when I'm by myself watching a porn. But I prefer penetration even though I don't reach climax.

[ak666]

@Angeliss That was embarrassingly mine as well to some degree. I wasn't one of those early climaxers, even when I was much younger. I was a late one. I think I probably desensitized myself masturbating too much or something of this sort. For me to reach orgasm with a girl required me to really get into my "climax zone" and I'd need a decent amount of time uninterrupted without any significant distractions, a steady rhythm, or else my "climax meter" would be reset. I could also only climax in certain sex positions where it was easy to have a steady motion like cowgirl or doggystyle. When I reached my 30s that became so terrible and so I started trying things like kegel exercises, and that made all the difference in the world. It really heightened the sensations for me and I found I no longer had to focus so much mentally on the orgasm to achieve it and can now climax in any position. Still I got used to having sex sometimes with no climax, and still appreciated it regardless.

[Angeliss]

Do you think kegel would work for me, too? I have always thought something's wrong with my mentality, not physically. Because there are other ways than penetration but nothing works. By the way I really enjoy sex but I just can't get into that zone.

[ak666]

@Angeliss I don't know how it helps in terms of sensations for girls. It should definitely make your guy happy though if you can do those types of contractions. With my limited experience, I've found some girls are more sensitive to penetration than others. Some can get off exclusively on just that while others might need a hand (their own or mine) to simultaneously give them extra stimulation rubbing the clit. In those latter cases where the extra stimulation is necessary, it's helpful to pick a sex position where it's easy for the guy to reach around and stimulate at the same time. Even when it comes to rubbing the clit, I find girls range wildly here in terms of sensitivity. Some girls might be very delicate and sensitive there and need a most gentle touch while others might want a very hard and firm stroke which is generally going to hurt the former type of girl. I find girls vary wildly so much that I see each one like a puzzle to be solved in terms of getting them to climax.

[ak666]

@Angeliss One thing I think you definitely shouldn't do is ever fake an orgasm. It can be tempting to do that to avoid shattering the other person's ego but sometimes us guys need our egos shattered here and there if we're failing to bring the girl to climax. For the right type of guy who actually cares about the girl enjoying the experience as much as he did, that'll tend to get him to step it up and really try to figure out how to get you to climax.

[vishna]

It depends, sometimes the orgasms are extremely nice, and in those instances good penetration is better. Other times, the orgasm is huge and feels amazing, and definitely that. A lot of times though, I get to this place where I'm just having a lot of vaginal orgasms as he thrusts and they're not obvious enough where I can go "that's a big one" it's just constant pleasure. I like that better than anything else.

[Tammy94]

I love the physical and emotional feelings of being penetrated and that would be true even if I didn't go on to have an orgasm. That said, when I do have an orgasm (which I normally do once I have been penetrated), it is by far more exciting and pleasurable.

[Najie_TooSweet]

I have felt both but i never came from penetration i only came by myself when i am alone from masturbation... so nobody never gave me an orgasm i give them to myself... So orgasms are very pleasurable and sometimes addictive wish the last longer

[wankiam]

try edging yourself

[Anonymous]

I want both, orgasm usually follows penetration right? i enjoy both according to who' and how it's done.

[MlleCake]

No. Only about 30% of women can orgasm from simple penis-in-vagina penetration.

[jayjay16]

as we all hopes of penetration leading to orgasms, penetration is pleasurable for me physically as well as in the sense that it makes me feel good if my partner orgasms

[katiesmuff]

Orgasm is what we are looking for and that penetration is a big help in reaching that point. Orgasm by far is what we want to achieve.

[SarahsSummer]

What about orgasm by penetration? You seem to assume they are mutually exclusive.

[Spellfire22]

Orgasm, absolutely.

[kilowatt04]

No penetration for me, ewwww. I like cuddling and all sorts of external fun with women. The thought of sticking something into her bodily orifice is the worst though.

[likitb4istickit]

Well, as a guy penetration to me is just warm and wet. Doesn't feel bad, but not nearly as good as coming. Even better when getting a BJ (does that count as penetration?) and she just keeps sucking when I cum without breaking the rhythm.

[Dargil]

Penetration is merely a means to an end.

[cupcake_625]

Penetration is very pleasurable, but orgasm beats it by far. That is why most girls are into receiving oral sex bc it provides for great orgasms.

[Fite4you]

I love eating

[vampireelf]

Its all about orgasm, isn't it? :)

[Tammy94]

Spoken like a true guy. :-)

[archiz]

anal penetration is ze best!

[COCOCHANEL]

i love penetration even not moving

[Sha84]

orgasm is best part for me

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Preferably both

[mT2359]

penetration & not fingering per se is pleasurable to both. Orgasm is the overall package of fulfilment.

[mT2359]

its like putting the cart before the horse. One leads to another. More pleasurable... I enjoy penetrating more. Orgasm is not in my control.

[LastNightmare]

you getting your orgasm

[Fite4you]

long duration fucking and HER repeated orgasms

[Anonymous]

penetration

[Anonymous]

Accidentally chose A and it's completely opposite. Orgasm!

[Anonymous]

Penetration

[Anonymous]

penetration