How common is for straight guys to experiment with someone from their own sex?

How common do you think same sex sexual experimentation happens to guys? Society expects guys not to experiment because same sex experimentation is considered wrong but many guys do it anyways. I have experimented myself and I consider myself straight because i wouldn't ever date another guy, just NSA hookups. I went through the whole 9-yards, the best part about experimentation is sucking the guy off and my least favourite has to be anal sex. I hate anal sex, the ass is very tight and my dick hurted afterwards, even though I had the condom on its not my favourite sex act. The dick feels very different than pussy but both are equally pleasurable. My point is, how common is same sex sexual experimentation in guys? Is it as common as girls? I would want to know.

Please no homophobic or biphobic slurs, thanks!

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It's 2017 as @Chico_brah said, stop being close minded!
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If it's acceptable for a girl to experiment, then it's acceptable for a guy to experiment.
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  • It is very rare as homosexuality or experimentation of the same sex for men isn't deemed the same in society as it is for women.

    Let me explain, often when 2 women kiss or make out or whatever, it is deemed "sexy, hot, etc." but when 2 men kiss, make out, etc. it is deemed somewhat "weird" or "disgusting" in our society.

    Now, I have no issue with homosexuality of either sex or experimentation of the same sex, if people want to do that they should definitely do it. I am saying however, we see it very rarely that men kiss each other because in society they would be immediately labeled "gay", but when women do it, it is immediately labeled as an a-okay in our society. Therefore I think men are somewhat more scared of being labeled "gay" just because of experimentation and try to hold off from these sort of things.

    Women, in general, are also more open towards bisexuality and experimentation. It is a scientific fact that everyone in this society, both men and women, are primarily bisexual, but have a preference towards one gender. It is my view that women are just more open towards sexuality than men. This is also the reason why men prefer to have a threesome with 2 women than 1 woman and 1 man.

    Another example might be pornography. On pornographic websites, the filters of "lesbians" is often more than not in the straight section of the website, while male homosexuality is in the gay version of the website where you will only be able to see male-on-male pornography. Yes, there is bisexual pornography on the straight section of the website, but it is statistically shown that mostly bisexual men and women of all sexual orientations watch bisexual pornography, not straight men.

    The fact that male homosexual pornography is on a whole different section of pornographic sites, and female homosexual pornography is not, may conclude my vision of the comment that female homosexuality is more accepted than male homosexuality in society, therefore men are not as open in experimentation and coming out for homo- or bisexuality. This is why it is not very common for straight guys to experiment with the same sex.

    Sorry for the long, essay-looking post, I have an essay next week so this is how I am kind of preparing it hahaha. I hope I have answered your question, however.

    • I do believe in all of what you've said but I'm doing it for attention, I'm not doing it for acceptance lol, I'm doing it because I was bored with women and I wanted something new. Men do get bored of screwing women because pussy is just pussy, nothing new apparently; the only exciting about seeing a woman is first time sex with her and the rest is just boredom. This is why men don't want marriage anymore because fucking the same woman is just dull in my perspective. Fucking women get tiring after a while.

    • Haha, I was speaking more about facts I know and my own personal view on these types of topics because I have (for some reason I don't know why haha) done research on this topic and speak often about topics as such with friends of mine, not really about your story specifically tbh haha ;). But if you were "bored with women and [you] wanted something new" doesn't that qualify you more into the bisexual or bi-curious region? I know you're asked this a lot in this comment section, I know, and I am deeply sorry, but why don't you feel it still doesn't qualify as bisexuality or bi-curiosity? Just out of curiosity, I don't want to annoy you or anything haha, just wondering.

    • Like I said, if you classify as straight but just experimenting, then go ahead, I am not stopping you from you being you, keep doing your thing! I was just wondering haha.

  • Why all the labels? I really laugh at people who automatic label you as "gay" because you had sex with another man. "Gay forever", LOL! What is so wrong with experimenting and having some different sexual enjoyment? People seem to forget that sex can be totally disconnected from relationships. I have said this before, and I'll say it again... You can certainly have same sex, and even enjoy it, but not be "gay". You like sex just a bit more than the average. You are more open minded than the average. The average people are not as open minded, and that is also why they only see straight or "automatically gay forever". LOL, what a joke. If a "straight" person has a gay sex scene in a movie, are they now automatically "gay forever"? No, that is nonsense. This is just one small example to show people can have same sex experiences and not come out as "gay" afterwards. My definition for "gay" is someone who wants to be romantic, passionate, loving, caring with feelings and emotions in a dating relationship with someone of the same sex. If you are looking for just a sex hook up because you are bored of women one day, that just makes you kinky and really really into sex, not "gay".

    • You're definitely MHO!

    • Thanks!

    • No problem man. You just killed it 100%.

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  • I'm pretty sure you are bi.
    Are you not comfortable saying/admitting that? That's a serious question. Not being sarcastic or a smart ass. I just wanted to know. You say you are straight because you only want relationships with women but you are interested in NSA situations with men. It seems like you tried men & liked it enough to continue to sleep with men on occasion. Are you scared to say/admit you are bi? That's what this comes off as.
    I don't know how common it is for men to experiment with their sexuality but I'm sure men do it. The first time I heard about the notion/debate about men experimenting with their sexuality was on a TV show How To Get Away With Murder. One of the characters Michaela Pratt's fiancé had slept with a man (who was Michaela's classmate at law school) with they were both 16 away at school. I don't watch the show cause I don't have the time so I don't really know what happened but I think her fiancé turned out to be gay but still married another woman but I'm not sure. That episode was the first time it was brought to my attention about boys experimenting with their sexuality. It's definitely something that happens but it's probably not widely talked about for how taboo it is. You yourself can't even say/admit you are bi so you have to know that experimenting is probably happening a lot in secret.

    • "I don't know how common it is for men to experiment with their sexuality" It's not common. I was literally trying to say the same thing you are. He's in complete denial though.

    • Yes, I'm afraid of admitting because I don't want women to run away. I will never have a relationship with a man because I want to be the only father of the child. I experimented because I was single and I was a bit curious. I wanted to try something different for once in my life and having sex with only girls get boring after a while. @Chico_brah she said "I'm sure men do it". Anyways back to my point, men will never admit something this extreme to you because you may come off as close minded and I heard in situations women have walk away from their SOs because of experimentation purposes. It's 2017, why do people say it's 2017 when in reality we're back in the 1980s? Why the hell men are doing shit for the opposite sex but can't do shit for their bros? You also should realize we're not in the 1700s or even 1800s, let's put what's "manly/unmanly" behind us and let's move forward.

    • I may experimented but I dress and act like any other straight guy. You can't tell the difference between an experimental person and a purely straight person.

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  • It's a tricky question. When does experimentation end and bisexuality begin? I've had sex with another girl a couple of times just to try it. It was fun at the time but I don't consider myself bi. I prefer guys. I think you are whatever you consider yourself to be. Who cares what others think? I think in male circles, guys aren't as free to discuss same sex experimentation as girls are but it does exist.

    • no it doesn't when it exists it means you're gay

    • I'm only sexual towards guys, I'm both emotional and sexual towards girls.

    • I can disconnectv sex and relationships easy.

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  • In all seriousness, this is some of the best trolling I've seen in a while (especially on the longer comment threads). ahah nicely done.

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  • A lot depends on what part of the world you live. I happened to live in a pretty laid back latin American country... south america. Its more common than u think. There are gay dudes... bi dudes... n straight dudes who just need to satisfy an urge with another dude... i call myself bi... but would never do anything anal... cept maybe a finger r 2... a hot but GENTLE prostate mazsage is pretty stimulating... but no more than that. Yeah we do mutual jack off kiissing oral bot body contact with a lotta rubbin r boners together. Pretty vanilla but friggin hot yo. n i still date girls and have sex with rhem. But wirh anorher dude, i think its all about that total raw forbidden release of all inhibition n share an incredible experience wirh another male.

  • "I went through the whole 9-yards". In what would are you supposed to be straight? Lie to yourself all you want. You are gay. And no, straight man wouldn't "experiment". All the straight men I know find the very idea repulsive.

    • You're definitely a fool! Do you actually think any straight guy who has the balls enough to admit they've experimented to your petty close-minded ass? Bro, you're missing out man.

    • Even if I was your friend, I wouldn't admit to you, period.

    • Definition of homosexual 1 : of, relating to, or characterized by a tendency to direct sexual desire toward another of the same sex a homosexual man was involved in a homosexual relationship 2 : of, relating to, or involving sexual activity between persons of the same sex homosexual acts

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  • I've experimented, and I believe experimenting is a healthy part of anyone's sexual maturity.

    • Well said bro !

  • I think it is Really really common for women.
    I think it is non-existent for men. The fact is straight men just don't ever think of "experimenting". If a guy does, it most likely means he is at least bi-sexual.

  • Not common at all... It's pretty weird to be "straight" and then experiment with the same sex. Sounds like a vegan eating meat.

  • Extremely rare.

    • Not really. You assume but it's as common as you think it is.

    • No, I assume that guys who mess with other guys are smart enough to know they are bisexual.

    • I don't have feeling with guys in any way.

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  • Once, a long time ago, I experimented with a guy and gave him a blowjob. I got him off, and he actually said I did it better than his wife. That was the only time. Women turn me on a lot more than guys do.

  • Dude you're not straight. You are bisexual. Truly straight men don't suck a guy's dick.

    • You keep posting this shit. Dude you are bisexual. If you don't want to know the truth then stop.

  • So far I've rejected 4 super cute gay guys who blatantly hit on me. It was always flattering but it never crossed my mind. Just for science once I tried masturbating to a guy who looked sub and cute, and I just couldnt come, after 10 mins of trying I just gave up and thought about women. Some guys are just straight.

    • Just curious... why were you even thinking about masturbating to a guy if you were straight?

    • @Rissyanne lol I knew this would come up. Basically I was "straight" checking myself. You know common mainstream thing is to say that no one is completely straight nowadays. I wanted to know if I was 1% gay. Not even sure I'm 1% gay.

    • Well the "super cute guy guy" comment stuck out to me... not to mention you trying to masturbate to a guy. lol

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  • It is common for those who are gay and don't know it yet.

    • You're a pathetic piece of trash.

    • I first heard that from a guy who is gay.

    • I am actually straighter than the pole your mother danced to last month when she danced for my dollars.

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  • Dude you're in denial. You're fucking gay. Literally no guy I know has ever 'experimented' with another guy. That's homo as fuck. You're gay. Stop denying it. It's 2017.. people will accept you.

    • Lol, ok. No one will admit to your petty close minded ass. It is 2017 I get it but I experimented because I was curious enough to know what is like. If I actually your friend, I would even admit to you. Men are close minded same as women, there case close

    • If I actually was your friend*

    • If I actually was your friend, I wouldn't even admit it to you.

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  • It's not gay if you don't make eye contact right?

  • I'm so straight I'd fuck a horse before I fucked a dude.

    A female horse!

  • Pretty uncommon dude. Sucking a guy off? Really? Most straight guys don't even look at dicks when they go to the bathroom. Watch guys use urinals. if a guy can avoid it, he won't even use the urinal next to one that's being used, let alone look.

  • no this is not normal at all straight guys dont even kiss other guys that is far from straight.

  • I have never experimented but its something that I really want to try.

  • How did the #nohomo tag come so ubiquitous, do you think?

    • It's not #nohomo because I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. It's like "if you don't buy it, fuck off" type of thing.

    • Flexuality exists.

    • Yes it's something like that but the majority doesn't believe it in male sexuality.

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  • Uh, no. Just no.
    And no, it's not acceptable either. Geesh.

  • It's not.

    • Also, people who say it's alright for girls to experiment are either chicks who are actually bi or guys that get off on les porn.

  • It's more common than the numbers derived from research would suggest since most men would never admit it.
    No homo.

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