Do you believe in the 80/20 rule when it comes to sex/relationship?
So for example in a university setting, you'll find that many men are left sexless or with very low numbers. While 80% of women are chasing after the top 20% of men at the university for sex/relationship; some even being content with being a friends with benefit in the hope that it blossoms into a relationship.
This results in these type of men to have high sexual partner count just from their time in university and usually they are either very athletic (think athlete), rich, good looking, or have high social status (popularity - e. g. well known fraternity).
The remaining 20% of women are available for the 80% of men to fight over which causes a drought on the men side for relationship/sex.
[If you go to 2:30 mark this, Susan Walsh, who is a relationship expert explains that this behaviour is true among young women today and goes into detail as to why it's preventing them from finding a relationship.]
Also, when we think about how many girls today complain about men not committing or how guys only want sex on social media, and correlate back to this, it makes sense. It's because the vast majority are going after the same type of guys who have abundance of women to choose from.
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