I wouldn't jump out of the normal at a first time. Sex is like anything else in the world will leave a first impression. And i wouldn't wanna be judged for something i dont wanna live for the rest of my life. I would be careful to be myself and not try to go crazy out of the usual, as i might build an expectation for the next time.
Plus, next time you could give ur partner a bad feeling if it wasn't as good and crazy as the first time. He might think he wasn't good enough, he didn't do it right, it was temporary or u had some one night feelings and its gone.
So who u really are is always a good start to build up to going crazy with whatever u wanna try with this guy. And its always nice to tell them "you make me wanna go crazy with you" rather than being silent and let them think u were born crazy lol.
Our first time, we had been texting back and forth about sex, what we wanted to do to each other, etc. We were so worked up it was scarey! I had asked him to go slow, be gentle because it had been a few years since I had been sexually active. When we got in bed, started kissing, feeling, then Bam !! We ravished each other! It was great. Oral, PIV only that first time but That was enough for the first!!
Wait, you mean old people have sex, too? :) :) :)
Hell yah!! I love it more now!
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!hi and lol, i was sitting here thinking that where are the more mature people then this, right up to the anal!! i was thinking it could be any of the answers really, if you have taken the time getting to know each other i would suspect in reality you would go all the way but i dont imagine getting kinky as such on a first encounter... are you genuinely your age? why the? xx
It was a question, not a suggestion. I have read enough on this site to know that the users are either totally inexperienced, very vanilla, or extremely kinky. I have never considered anything like that.
ok you are on here as a master and you are older and wiser in your own existence, tonight my 25 niece said about how it is often the norm nowadays for a relationship to start out with hooking up and having sex on the first date, often it ends there, or a few hook ups, or sometimes might go further. the friends with benefits term, which i hate with a passion and feel nothing but pure emotional disturbance in my soul that this exists and is so common. i could be judged for saying this but for me, the one who gains the most is the male, he gets the benefits of intimacy without any efforts in anyway toward a female that old skool would have to be termed as a relationship, a male i believe has a better ability to act intimately with a female and have a likeness for but no more, a female will end up bonding, my niece recently separated has had several guys contact her through media literally saying hook up with me for sex.. its normal, its horrific, its natural? how do fix it?
I agree that friends with benefits is a formula for someone, usually the female, to be hurt because she agreed to the arrangement hoping it would develop into something more while he guy was happy to get the milk for free. How to fix the hookup culture? You and your niece can't fix a societal problem like that and, if you could, it would take years. What she really needs to understand is that there are guys who do not want a hookup and who are looking for a monogamous relationship. f the guys she meets are all alike, then she needs to change the way that she meets guys.
well.. it would be the first time for my SO and i, so he best be gentle >3>
-I'd like mostly missionary and maybe for him to flip me over on my stomach. But I really wouldn't want to do doggy style with a new boyfriend b/c it's very in personable-and I want to get to bond with him.
-lights off, candle or two, easeeeee into like "oh yea, let's watch a movie.. on my bed..." then put the computer away and get to it.
-I want us to have fun and feel good but I also know what I don't want to do.
And what is it that you DON'T want to do the first time, aside from doggy style?
I don't want to get to my place and he immediately goes to rip my clothes off-I like subtlety and the build up, or role play, or more wild positions-it's my first time with him, so, I just want things passionate and intense. (lol, as intense as they can be when fumbling with someone new)
Baby steps lol. Let's feel the situation out, start with the basics and see where it goes.
whats PIV sex?
Intercourse.
It means "penis in vagina" sex.
@sweetlivy thanks, I've never heard of that acronym
What's PIV sex?
I'd also like to know
It's sexual intercourse.
PIV: Penis in vagina. Best way to describe. :)
I really want to know what a penis will feel like thrusting inside of me.
In case anyone has experienced it, please let me know in advance! :)
I think there are a few people who have had that experience! :) But I am not one of them!
If we've been making out before then we've probably gone a little further than that before so why not just get down.
Damn that makes sense! :)
Life's too short dude!
Sister, you are preaching to the choir! :) :) :)
I'd go really slowly, but I get really nervous and eventually build up if we were comfortable with each other.
I'd never have sex with someone who I'm not in a relationship with unless we've done other stuff before such as oral in previous dates
So either way your still doing things with guys that isn't even your boyfriend does that makes sense? Lol
I mean like if I were to have sex with him I'd rather do other things first such as oral but yes you are right we'd still be doing things but I'd presume we'd be in a relationship once we start doing that sort of stuff
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