Why do some girls not like being eaten out?

TwistnShout Xper 5

This girl told me she doesn't want me to ever and she's never tried it. I don't understand if she just won't enjoy it or whether she's insecure. What reasons do some girls not like this for? If the guy really wants to.

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Brokenxdoll Xper 5
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Some are too sensitive, others think about their cleanliness and others just don't care for it or don't want you to do it because they might feel obligated to do the same to you
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Zendrya Editor
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some girls are too sensitive for it to feel good
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- TwistnShout
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  Too sensitive? Surely a hand is more rough.
- TwistnShout
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  Or a finger sorry.
- Zendrya
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  not necessarily.
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- Sarah_x
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  fingering is a completely different sensation to head
- TwistnShout
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  Elaborate please?
- Zendrya
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  There isn't much to elaborate with... a hand job and a blow job feel different as does sex. So oral and fingering feel different.
- TwistnShout
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  Ok yeah that makes sense... thanks.
- Sarah_x
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  it feels entirely different with fingering the sensations aren't always as intense, it's more of a dull feeling whereas for some women oral sex can feel almost too overwhelming because the tounge is so delicate and there's not as pressure being applied - it's like if you stroke your arm really really lightly it "tickles" more than if you push down with your finger and then stroke. it's not exactly easy to explain but hopefully that helps
- Sarah_x
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  It's obviously not an issue for all girls, a lot of girls prefer oral sex because of that reason but if they are super super sensitive it can genuinely just be too overwhelming
- Sarah_x
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  but yeah it's the same with a hand job and blow job - whatever the reason they feel different
- TwistnShout
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  Alright thanks a lot. One thing though... do you think girls can tell before trying that it might be too much?
- Zendrya
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  Guess it depends on the girl because it you've never experienced it then you have no idea what it feels like.
- TwistnShout
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  How do I get her to let me?
- Sarah_x
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  I couldn't answer that but she may just not be into it, it's such an intimate thing, and if she's not 100% comfortable with it then she won't be able to enjoy it properly anyway. You never know though it's likely she will change her mind and wanna try it one day when she's a bit more comfortable sexually :)
- Zendrya
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  you don't. If she doesn't want to she doesn't want to and you're an ass if you keep pressuring her.
- TwistnShout
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  I'm not pressuring her. Damn she wants to do more than me... I just don't feel good letting her do something when I can't do it back.
- Sarah_x
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  you don't want her to change her mind and suddenly want to do it because she wants to please you, if she is not 100% sure that she wants it and she's not comfortable then there's no way she'll be able to enjoy it. If she says to you it's not what she wants then thats what she means and it means she's happy with giving you stuff and not having it in return, if she wanted it in return she'd say!
- TwistnShout
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  Alright. Thanks. I'll wait and see if she's ever comfortable and 100%.
- Sarah_x
  +1 y
  Just be patient and make sure you keep communicating and understanding eachothers thoughts and needs - the closer you get and the more respect you show her the more comfortable she'll be
- TwistnShout
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  Alright
- oboeyoudidnt
  +1 y
  I'm honestly so glad I'm not alone in having oral not feel good because it's too sensitive
- Zendrya
  +1 y
  thanks for MHO
- TwistnShout
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  👍👍👍👍👆

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RJGraveyTrain Editor
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Self consciousness, not knowing if it'll work, not knowing how to make it work if she does let you, she could still be a bit immature and find it gross, etc.
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LittleAmyP Explorer
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Some girls are shy and insecure about the looks of their genetalia
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