Most Helpful Guys

  • is there an underlying issue that might help us give you a correct answer? If he doesn't want to there might be an issue he has with being worried about hurting you. or maybe there is an issue with smell (guys who are new to touching a woman aren't accustomed to the smell). Try walking out of the shower with only a towel on and then ask him to do it. it will be clean and the womanly smell won't be as strong. ( I mean no offense towards you when talking about smell. some guys are just really sensitive)

  • Guide his hand down there and show him what feels good for you.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Have him read this: www.psychologytoday.com/.../the-orgasm-gap-simple-truth-sexual-solutions

    Then tell him you need more manual stimulation. Then don't have sex with him if he can't get into your pleasure as much as he expects you to be in to his.

  • You should let him know you need more foreplay, like oral and fingering, before penetrative sex. Did he ever finger you? If he did, when did he stop? Does it hurt sometimes because you get insufficient foreplay, have you ever communicated that with him?

    • We had sex first then we did foreplay but I've done more foreplay to him than he has for me

    • What is motivating your desire for more fingering? Is it to increase arousal so that you are better lubricated, or you are sufficiently lubricated when you have sex, you just want more foreplay because you enjoy it. Also, I'm not sure if I'm understanding you correctly, but you have foreplay after having sex? Or are you saying, the first time you just had sex, but after that you guys started having foreplay before sex but you do more for him than he does for you.

    • Only about 30% of women can orgasm from simple penetration. 70% of women need manual stimulation, oral and/or toys. This just isn't much of a priority for a lot of men.

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  • Why dont you put on a movie and start touching him and move his hand towards your pants. That way both of you guys are having fun 😝❤️

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  • Say please, I'm sure he wouldn't mind doing it

  • Ask him? If he forgets, bring it up.

  • Ask him.

  • Tell him to

  • Tell him your ears are itching and that your own nails are too sharp.

  • Just ask he is your husband not a stranger

  • You ask him

  • just tell him

  • Typically thats something you should figure out BEFORE you get married.

  • Tell him to finger you. It's not that hard.

  • Make him do it

    • How? He hardly does it

    • Why won't he do it

  • tell him to do it or I am ready to do it. he will do it for sure

  • Finger yourself and stop being lazy. You have fingers too.

    • So, he can use her body for his pleasure, but she can't ask him to participate in hers?

    • @MlleCake He's a troll.

    • @lovelyhoneybones I well know that. I don't always ask these questions to get a straight answer, just point out the stupidity for some impressionable kid reading.

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  • tell him to do it.

  • Suck on his fingers and move them down with your hands. If he pulls away do ot again

  • No fingerings no sex for you its just that simple

    • I'll do anything he wants but when I want that he just wants to go straight to sex

    • Make him stop and if he doesn't stop when you say no have him charged with rape

  • saying "finger me asshole" might work.

  • Just ask him, he is your husband

    • I have he just goes straight to sex