Is it more difficult to orgasm if you have a larger penis? And is it common to go flaccid inside of her vagina?

[Khitaka]

I recently lost my virginity, and it took around a half an hour for me to orgasm. I have an 8 inch penis, 5 inches circumference. It could just be that my girlfriend is petite and only 5 feet tall. But she's 20 and I was 18 when it happened so I thought if anything I'd be the one orgasming quickly. I'm 5'9". I'm not sure if that's relevant. I'm just much bigger than she is.

We couldn't do several positions because she couldn't get it in her properly, as it hurt, specifically with her on top, and with her bent over. I had to go really really slowly or else she basically tightened up and just grabbed chest to stop me. It felt really weird. She had already lost her virginity and said that she never had problems with her ex's five inch penis. When she tried to deep throat me, it hurt me. Like I was pressing my cock against a wall and smashing it. It just wouldn't not go down. And again, she said she had no problems deepthroating her her ex's smaller penis.

Eventually we did missionary, and that worked for her, but I couldn't even get my whole penis inside of her. At least it didn't hurt her though. She said she orgasmed the first time pretty quickly, but I had already gone soft halfway through. I don't know if she noticed, when I'm flaccid I'm still like four or five inches. I was able to get hard again though and power through by just focusing on thrusting, and her, not the awkwardness. So another ten minutes went by until I finally did orgasm. She said she orgasmed twice and seemed to be enjoying the positions that didn't hurt. While I was barely able to stay hard.

When she found out my penis was eight inches she was excited and assumed I'd be great at sexing. But no. I'd rather just be smaller if it means actually getting off properly and being able to do any position she wants. Her vagina just feels weird. I do like vagina though. I love eating her out. I don't think I'm Gay. Guy butt isn't sexy. Someone help.

[TotallyAlmost]

The answer is yes. There are certain things that you just can't do that most guys would get off on. Hard, deep strokes are usually a no no. Cumming from a bj is almost impossible since very little penis penetrates the mouth.

[Khitaka]

Well Wtf? Why does everybody in society make us big dick guys out to be lucky? I can't even get a proper blow job. Unfair.

[dradem]

first at all don't be hard on yourself and be judgmental, it's was your first time, so as everything takes time and practice. Also you need to know that as well as penises comes in different sides, it's the same for vaginas.

[Khitaka]

My girlfriend said eventually her vagina would like mold to my cock. I have no idea how that would work. Molding flesh.

[Poppykate]

Touch the tip of your nose! Did it feel like that when you were inside of her? Then you were hitting her cervix. The cervix feel like the same cartilage at the tip of your nose! . More foreplay is required! 😉

[johnRD11]

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[superdouch]

never heard of that

[JustCallMeLeon]

No its easier and no its not common.

[Khitaka]

Hm hm. That wasn't my experience. I was probably just nervous. Why would it be easier to orgasm with a bigger dick? It took me forever. And it was a lot of work.

[JustCallMeLeon]

Think physics. Tighter. Increased pressure, friction, stimulation.

[Khitaka]

Well that's not the way it worked.

[Anonymous]

Bruh this x10. I'm not even big (7long 5.3 around) but I have had the same problem. I've tried explaining that wall feeling to my mates but they've never had that problem. My guess is that she was just too tight and not ready for it

[Khitaka]

Yeah that's what I was thinking. I'll have to do it more and see if it gets easier for her pussy. Because I couldn't even get it all in. She's got to just be too tight. I feel like if I was actually pushing against her cervix it would a lot.

[Opinion Owner]

More foreplay should do the trick. Also when she was on top did it hurt for you? I'll never let a female sit on it. Felt like it was gonna snap my shit up and I was gripping her skin on the side lol

[Khitaka]

Uuuhh. No. I don't think so. She didn't get all the way down. She kept trying to get it in and she kept failing so I just kind of tackled her and we did missionary. And we haven't done cowgirl since. And I don't know about the foreplay. I try to do it but it's like a few minutes in and she immediately wants the D. It's like come on. Get a little wet first.