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  • Probably because they are pretty sure it isn't going to happen to them soon! No thank you! About the closest we've come to that was with some pretty enthusiastic thrusting on both of our parts, he went into my exit door!! I'm not sure how deep he was butt it hurt like he drove a fully loaded logging truck up my bum! He isn't one who would ask for it either, he's kinda grossed out about anal. So when he parked his Hot Rod in my garage, he knew he'd better back it on out as easy as possible! I'm just so glad he wasn't like some guys I've heard about; "Hey Baby while we're here we may as well try it out..." No way Buster, you are never ever going in my back door with that thing again!!

  • My partner says it's not because it feels better. He says the tightness is just the same as normal sex... but the idea behind it. Probably because it used to be so forbidden and taboo but it's becoming a "common" practice these days.

  • From what I've been told it gives a feeling of domination to the man, as he's taking control of you and your most untouched parts. It's kinky-er. It feels better.

    But not all guys enjoy this. Some see it as degrading.

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  • I have zero interest in it. An ex wanted me to try once. Eventually I tried once and it lasted about two seconds and I got about 3mm in before she said stop cuz it hurt. Funny thing was that her ex before me (and old school friend of mine) used to do it with her all the time.

    Guess I was bigger? Either way I still have No interest.

    Another side story, the same ex wanted to try fingering my butt. Again, zero interest but eventually I let her try. SURPRISE! I got a poop reflex and as soon as her finger went in a bit, I pooped on it. We never did that again.

    As far as I am concerned, that's a one way street for only one thing.

  • It's deeper (no cervix to bump into), tighter around the outside (sphincter), it's velvety smooth on the inside, and there's no risk of unwanted pregnancy. For her, it gives her deeper, more intense orgasms, or so my wife says.

    • Thanks for MHO!

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  • Some guys are, and some guys aren't. Personally, I couldn't care less about it.

    As for the guys that are; I've heard different things. It's tighter, more taboo, or they saw it in porn, are the three main ones that come to mind.

  • Because it's tight?

  • They were obsessed with regular sex when they couldn't get it, then they got it. They need something new to obsess over. After anal comes threesomes and so on and so on.

  • It's tighter. It's dirtier. It's more sensitive. It represents domination. It's more work to get thus more valuable. It's considered evil by some girls and a huge accomplishment to get it. It forces a man to be gentle with a women so they both get pleasure. It's directly between the buttcheeks and easier to access doggy style.

    Oh and no pregnancy.

  • For me, it's the intimacy of it. It's obviously taboo, and for a woman to trust me enough to not hurt her is a turn on itself. As far as the feeling, guys who tell you it isn't any tighter are lying. It is, but it's not all about that.

  • Im guessing because women respond well to it...

  • Because its taboo and doing taboo stuff is "thrilling" to some people

  • No, men in general are not 'obsessed with anal sex".
    The Jews who run the US porn industry are obsessed with anal sex, which creates an impression that it is popular with men.
    Only once has a woman asked me for anal. My response was no, because if I had wanted to get shit on my cock I would have turned queer.

  • I am NOT.
    If asked I'll decline it.

    • Is there a certain reason why?

    • I don't like feces. I hate it.

  • I used to want it, from watching anal porn, but after having to deal with a lot of shit in my life (literally), i started questioning myself.
    Is the chance of poop on my dick what i really want, i ask myself nowadays.
    It still seems erotic sometimes, but also off putting at other times.
    I actually prefer a girl who diesnt want it these days.

  • The persistent decaying smell of the wc after my girl goes number 2, erases any anal thought...

  • I'm a man and I hate anal. I am just as baffled as you.

  • Maybe it's a domination thing, and the "taboo" aspect makes it more fun, but tbh I prefer being pegged than giving,

  • The coveted no no hole

  • Bc you girls let anyone in ur vagina, we just want to try something u don't throw out like skittles

    • We don't let anyone in us.

    • When ur numbers in the double digits we stop giving much value to that and want something you haven't given out

    • I'm 23 and I've literally slept with one guy. We're not all sluts you know

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  • personally I'll take a blowjob over anal any day

  • I hate it!!!

  • you don't like it?

    • I'm not that bothered, I'm just curious to why men always want it

    • ohhh

  • i don't like it😣

  • Just another sex act to try.

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