What exactly is a "boy toy?"

[tex151]

May sound like a dumb question but what I think it 's a guy a girl just wants for sex right, no commitment just sex. Kind of like a friend with benefits type thing. So ladies if you want a relationship with someone why do you have a boy toy as you call it? Reason why I ask is because this girl I met at a bar told me that she wanted me to be her boy toy, I was thinking what am I hooker that doesn't get paid well that sucks but hey its sex right, she was hot too. So guys have you ever been called a boy toy by a girl and if so what are you thoughts and opinions on that and for the ladies what are your thoughts and opinions on that is it every guy is one to you or just ceritan guys?

[Ashewark]

My understanding is that it's like a friends with benefits sort of deal, but maybe even without really being friends. Maybe more of a booty call. Basically, you show up when she says and have a no-strings relationship based purely on sex- usually because she likes your looks and body.

Personally, I can't really do that sort of thing. I think it's dehumanizing and it's hard to keep my emotions out of a relationship, even one that's supposed to just be casual. Sure, I might consider it if I run into a hot guy, but it's not worth the trouble later. There isn't really any particular criteria for considering a guy like this, it's more the girl just not wanting to be in a serious relationship, but still wanting to fulfill physical needs.

[tex151]

So is that bad because she's not the first one to say that, hell almost every girl I have been with have said I want to have sex with you but not a relationship, I don't mind I am just wondering if it was a normal thing for girls to say.

[Ashewark]

It's not necessarily a bad thing if you just want sex. It's not something all girls think or do though, it might be the sort of girls you are meeting. If you are meeting lots of people in bars, then it's possible that the place is more for hookups than for people looking for lasting relationships.

[TakingDownJersey]

Boy Toy means sex without any strings attached. Sure the idea of sex without strings attached sounds like the best deal out there. I've done that twice and had the worst feeling afterwards. The worst feelings were "How many other guys did she sleep with before?" Made me look at my junk for weeks and pray I didn't have anything. Thank GOD I don't and the other part is being used.

When I think of sex now I think of love and commitment. Something that is compassionate over and the both of you have an understanding of one another. If you abuse its power then you will never understand true love.

[tazzy]

The boy toy is a variation of the Friends With Benefits whereby the woman is older and way more mature than the male counterpart.

Also the relationship is usually 90% sexual with little emotional connection from the female's part. The younger male will often try to seek out emotional connection with the older female.

Also in a boy toy relationship, it is the female that is dominant as opposed to a normal relationship where the male is dominant or equal.

[obscene]

A boy toy is a younger guy that an older woman just wants for sex. The most common definition is that she is older. It's similar to a trophy wife, but the genders are reversed.

trophy husband?