Does it count as losing my virginity if the guy was tiny?

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Serious question.

I've only ever been with 2 guys. My ex and my current boyfriend. I lost my virginity to my ex , but the thing is, he was so small, I didn't really feel anything. And I don't think he was long enough to hit my hymen.

I say this because when I had sex with my current boyfriend for the first time, I was so tight, it took a few tries before he could get it in and I did bleed a lot in the beginning.

So knowing this, would you say I even had sex with my ex? And if you're curious, my ex was not even 3 inches fully hard.

Blonde401 · Accepted Answer

Doesn't matter. You lost your virginity. You do sexual stuff and you lose your virginity. You probably didn't have a hymen anyway (most girls lose it way before sex) and you're not supposed to bleed during your first time anyway. Either way you're still not a virgin.

TheKay · Accepted Answer

For me sex is in the mind more than in the body. It's not the "hymen" that decides if you're a virgin or not.

I'd say you had sex with your ex, just because he didn't pierce your hymen, doesn't mean you didn't have sex :)

Bleh-___- · Accepted Answer

The hymen is at the very surface covering your vaj lol it's the first thing you hit. I mean I know you say he was tiny but I'm sure he had enough to at least reach the hymen

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

My dick is 3inches and skinny like a pencil lol my girlfriend, which is my ex now never bled until she fucked the next guy who was 9 inches and she told me it was the first time she had real sex , not what I could give her. She never even screamed or moan from me 😂

godfatherfan · Accepted Answer

If you had a penis in your vagina, it counts. Even just the tip.. but why would it matter?

EvilAngel114 · Answer

Sex is sex no matter what size he was. So yes your ex took your V-card. Just have to move on from it.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Your hymen may have been ruptured before your first sexual experience so that it not a good indicator of anything. If he had his man meat inside your man hole, it counts.

Red_Arrow · Answer

It counts.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

Sex is sex so I wouldn't still consider you a virgin.

Soulfly9 · Answer

Maybe he didn't fully break it? Either way, you still lost your virginity

sawno · Answer

Still counts

0112358 · Answer

Yeah. you did... it was just... you know...

JustRollTheDice · Answer

It was still a penis entering you and the common definition of losing your virginity is having a penis inserted into you

Fudgiecola · Answer

I guess u didn't lose it

jacquesvol · Answer

Yes, it does count.

singlebee · Answer

Hahah I believe you didn't lose your virginity. With your ex.. If he didn't pop your cherry hahah

Poor guy is not even 3 inches erect? Dammm I feel so bad for him.. hahaha :-D

Are u sure he was like really 3 inches?

John_Doesnt · Answer

Yes, you lost your virginity.

Whaaaaa · Answer

HHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

mT2359 · Answer

no then you are still virgin. relax. make this one count.

starbucksjr69 · Answer

Lmao that's sad. Was he Asian or a 3 year old? And What about your current boyfriend But nah, sad to say. Your first was still with your ex.

userusername · Answer

he could read this

loverdude · Answer

Lol yeah offcourse if u have sex and if he stroke inside ur pussy then yeah u lose your virginity with ex

fktheworld · Answer

Any penis inside there regardless of the damage is considered sex. In football you only have to get an inch into the end zone. I kno you want to consider your current your first but he isn't.

masterkamasutra · Answer

wasted your first time with a poor dick.

Seppelson · Answer

sex is sex

Does it count as losing my virginity if the guy was tiny?

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