Guys: be honest, do you ever fantasize about "raping" someone?

I'm curious to see how many guys out there secretly want to do this... Women think that it will never happen to them but I bet more guys than they think are out there and have a fantasy of it, of sorts. Maybe not really raping someone who doesn't want sex with you at all. But really having your way with a woman (or man if you want) who may or may not be completely into what you're doing...
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  • Nope I have no desire to raping anyone especially a woman for that matter because I'm not going to get myself trapped with prison & it's prisoners. So I try my very best to just focus on real life & what life has for me. Besides that, there are many females who falsely accuse some guys of rape & then the guys' names & reputations ends up being destroyed by them. I'm trying my very best to not becoming the next victim in that scandal. Happy life for me is a whole lot better than my sex life even though I've never had sex before in my life. But I do fantasize about pleasing a hot woman without trying to turn on my male raping switch on her. Also I have other fantasies of her trapping me into a corner so that she could rub her big bubbly booty on my face & for her to smile while doing it. That's about it. Me raping a pretty, cute woman is out of the question.

    • I'm a Black/African American male by the way.

  • Never, ever have I fantasised about that.

    I actually find the idea of it pretty repellent, truth be told, even as a fantasy. For me, trust, consent etc play a very, very important part in the whole thing.

    This is more of a girl thing than a guy thing, without any shadow of a doubt.

    • You think so? Interesting.

    • Definitely, yeah. Lots of girls seem to have the rape fantasy thing going on (totally different to actual rape, I get that). I don't think many guys fantasise about actually raping a girl, though, I genuinely don't. Rape isn't primarily about sex, for a guy, it's more about control, kind of like a weapon they use against a person they hate or are angry with.

    • That's weird. I wouldn't think that they would want to have sex with someone they hate. My boyfriend said he has a rape fantasy in a way which is why I'm asking about this. I just was curious to see how common it is.

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  • I actually have fantasized about being raped... weird I know. I don't know if that's normal.

    • No I think it is haha, since it's so taboo... I have fantasized about it too. I feel more normal now :)

    • i wish we weren't both anon, i'd like to talk to you haha

    • Yeah! Is there a way to look up our usernames? I can give you mine, I just joined this site so I don't know how to get around that well

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  • No, I've never really confused sexual feelings and violence. I either want to have sex with someone or I want to be violent towards them, there is no crossover.

  • no i never think about raping some one, but as you said in teh question do i want to have my way yes but at the same time i also would like them to enjoy it and make sure they are satisfied, so i am hoping that they may not thought they liked it and by the end the realised that they did like it, if that makes sence

  • I have role played mock rape and it was huge fun for both of us. We're very kinky so we have safe words and all the other safety measures so she knows she's safe and can trust me.

  • No but men really like getting off and it can be pretty frustrating if we feel like sexually teased or taunted in some way

  • No, I don't want to rape any girl, but yeah I surely want to get raped by a girl or a group of girls

  • Your'e talking about consentual non-consent. It's more common than one would expect, though more commonly innitiated or directrd by the fantasies of the "victim" (for lack of a better word). As far as straight up rape goes, No that's fucked up, we're not all animals.

    • Okay, so do you like consentual non consentual sex? Lol

    • Depends on the dynamic between myself and who im with at the time. It's probably not my first choice of theme but if It’s thier thing, and things aren't awkward then sure. Keep in mind there has to be a huge amount of trust and discussion involved before anyone even takes thier socks off.

  • Fantasy about sexual dominance? Oh yeah! The non-consensual genre is one of my favorite.

    I just want to tie her up, with latex hood and leather. Yeah, fantasy.

  • I have not honestly fantasized about that

    • Interesting. Are you straight, bisexual, gay?

    • Straight

  • Since im 12 years old i only had fantasies of amazons raping me ;) i never got a single fantasy of raping someone.

  • HELL NO

  • Since i'm average looking and not popular, yes i do fantasize about rapping someone, usually someone who i know won't take interest on me. But i know it's a terrible thing & can be traumatic, so i won't do it irl.

    • That's interesting, thank you for sharing. But seriously don't do it, someone will come along who will love you.

    • ofc i won't do it irl, unless my partner ask me to do rape roleplay, haha

  • No, never had that fantasy. I certainly like rough sex, bondage, but rape, no not for me

  • Never, that's a little weird

  • No, guys are not generally and normally rapists so just quit doing this. This is the FI talking to you and it's complete bullshit.
    The vast majority of guys want a willing and participative partner.

    FAIL

    • Chill brother! I get your fully comprehend your point. But this still is a website where you can ask everything you want and let the answers speak for themselves. As you can see the majority is a big NO. So even if there was an hidden agenda, it dies here.

    • @JamesCX There's always a hidden agenda. I'm sick of this 'rape culture' bullshit. Ya got half the college girls convinced all men are rapists. And you're gonna white-knight the shit out of it all aren't you?

    • now I could give you the exact same talk about that white-knight bs that's institutionalized crap. Instead of that, what I'm stating are premisses of this website​: You ask whatever you want, you get answers, you decide best answers. Easy. If you think that some question is against your principles you can report it. If you want to give an opinion not directly related to the question you use the inbox or write a myTake. What you don't do is SPAM because you don't agree with someone since you have nothing to add as an answer.

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  • It is a common fantasy but I personally have not fantasized about doing the action. I have done mock rape with safe words and all at the request of my girlfriend at the time but as for actual, full on rape: not in the slightest.

  • No. Consensual sex with a woman who is actuall sexually aroused is much hotter

  • i don't think about rape unless i'm reading questions on gag.

  • not raping like against her will but like throwing a girl up against a wall or bending her over right there daydreams all the time

  • i would want to try that with my girl but im totally against rape

  • nope

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