My boyfriend cheated on me with his baby mama,,,, should I break up with him?

so my boyfriend ex (baby mama) won't get over him, they broke up cause she keep on cheating on him with multiple dudes. we got into a relationship, when she found out she had so many question to ask him about me, like is my v tighter than her, are we having sex regular, she hopes he is happy, etc she started tell him how she misses him, his sex, she is horny, and every time they hv a conversation she would tell him im ugly, i look disgusting, im a ape, she even took my picture and put it on a frame with hers n shared it with people. i honestly loved (love him lesser) this man and trusted him i felt like he was different he always reminded me of how a awful person she is and all the things she did him, like sleeping with his friend, barely having sex with him, etc so if he has to cheat on me she will be the last person he does that with (i thought) but Boy. one day he told be he has to go collect some nuts for his mom, which is in the area his baby mama lives and his kid was there so, i was cool kinder expected him to visit his kid. when he gothe told me how she is still going on about me being ugly and she being better looking he told me she is just being jealous as usual. i confronted her via text (got annoyed) on his sell, she literally laughed it off and could be less bothered with me. later on i i pretend it was him texting and ask (her how was it) their i got to know they had sex that day. i felt awful disgusted embarrassed my self esteem. i left, she was quick to try to work things out she ask for a second kid and told him she still loves him, but when she found out we together she started again saying he will make his ape live him, im going to eat his money dry, i hv never dated a man with a kid so i dont knowwhat to tolerate. she checks on him everyday like what time is work, how was your lunch, exchanging pics of food and all that stuff and he sometimes checks up on her. she even visit him at work and the barely talk about thier child
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Most Helpful Girls

  • He will not leave her alone, When he knows you will just keep forgiving him, and she is an easy lay for him, he will continue to cheat on you with her. And by him talking trash about her is just to throw you off, he is probably doing the same about you to her. You should just get out of that situation cuz it never stops and it will mentally destroy you in the end.

  • You need to let this one go OP. Find someone who's ready to fully commit to you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You need to realize that when two people have a child, regardless of anything... they will forever have a BOND. A bond that nothing and nobody will ever be able to break. He will never be over her because that is the mother of his child, she will forever have a place in his heart that you will never be able to fill.

  • Firstly. Can't believe you are wasting time with this guy.
    Secondly. Learn some punctuation and full stops.

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  • You should not only break up with him, but also seek professional mental help because you had to ask if you should. WHY WOULD YOU STAY

    • I don't know ,, it cause i still have some feelinf for him

    • You build an attachment to someone over time and there's no shame in that it's natural and unavoidable but you shouldn't let him hurt you like that

    • If you're looking for a serious 1 on 1 relationship then his actions (and apparent past potentially) are not going to work well

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  • Yes, you obviously should.

  • Yes. He will keep doing it.

  • yes, hurryup

  • You should definitely break up with him.

  • Of course, dump him

  • There will always be excuses but none matter. He will always drop you for her over and over. Get it? Get away for good. No more chances. He loses not you.

  • Put her in her place and if you can't trust him leave him. That's too much baggage to handle

  • yeah you should break up with him.