Should I be mad my boyfriend watches porn?

Should I be upset my boyfriend watches porn... I see it on his phone and lab top all the time like sometimes I feel like I'm not good enough if he has to do that... I know guys do it but yeah...
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  • If it is affecting your sex life, if you have one, then it would be a problem. If he is just using porn for when he wants to masturbate and it isn't detracting from your relationship then it's not a problem unless you just cannot tolerate it. In which case that's your right in terms of personal choice and you might just not be compatible.

    • Do you think he does it cause I don't please him... we don't have sex he just jacks off a lot... horny kid

    • No, I think he would do it anyway. Most guys who masturbate will still masturbate whether they are having sex or not. It's personal time where you get to just get off without effort or commitment. We all need that sometimes. Porn is no threat to you. He is not comparing you to these airbrushed and digitally edited girls who have been hand picked. Porn is an overly sanitised fairy tale, it is not real life and it doesn't compare to real life interaction. Any guy who prefers porn to real life sex has clearly never had sex and certainly never had good sex.

  • Depends if he pays more attention to his porn than he does you. Like honestly, does he prefer watching porn than getting it on with you? If that is truly the case, than there is definitely something wrong. If not, than it's just another form of release.

    • No whenever I'm around him he put all his attention on me sexually and what sort and said that he'd rather do stuff than porn

    • Is he caring and loving when he is with you or does he try and act out shit he saw from porn? Or, the things he tries to do to you, from watching porn, is it for your benefit?

    • No he's more caring and loving and does love shit but also can get sexual but doesn't do anything im not comfortable with

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  • There are reasons why one watches porn. Some watch to learn various techniques so as to enhance his sex life. Some watch just to release their tension and satisfy himself when there are no options and some are addicts.
    DM me if you want some discussions.

  • If he has it saved on his phone or computer, then yeah that's a little weird. But if he just looks it up on the internet whenever he has to masturbate, that's fine.

  • most guys watch porn, it's for many different reasons. you can talk to him about it but I wouldn't 2orry

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  • Well only time really, when a guy watches porn cause he's horny. And if his girlfriend is not doing nothing to satisfy him then she has no right to get upset if he find another way to get off. If he watches it and you all have sex like every other day or three times out of a week then his addiction and sex drive is on high. It's up to him to cool it.

  • I would not date a guy who looks at porn. He should have eyes only for you.

  • By the loom of your age I'm sure all boys that she does it. Trust me it doesn't mean anything

  • No you shouldn't be mad. Watch it with him

  • You shouldn't be bothered he watches porn. But what kind of guy whould let his girlfriend see his porn? I would NEVER let that happen. Ever.

    How did you even find out?

    • I was in his phone and seen it on his searches

    • You really shouldn't be on his phone. That's uncool. Trust is one of the most important factors in any relationship. Not just romantic ones. You shouldn't take advantage of it like that

    • He told me I could look up the hw we had on his phone and so I did...

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  • no it's normal, but you should tell him how you feel about it

  • Well if you reject his advances a lot or don't initiate sex often, then no you shouldn't be mad. If you do the opposite then that's another story.

  • I personally don't like my boyfriend watching porn. But everyone has different feelings on the subject. Talk to him about it - that's the best way.

  • Not all guys do it. He's addicted to it. It's so addictive it can make it so a guy can't perform with a normal woman at all. It's called porn creep or porn induced erectile dysfunction. I consider it a form of cheating. It won't change so you have a decision

  • old question on here. short answer: no. you want the elaboration or is just no ok for you? xD

  • tell him how you feel. boys will be boys, and it may hurt your feeling.

  • you can ask him to stop

  • try doing it together, I like it

  • No why

  • No, it's normal. Only if he chooses porn over you then it's a problem

  • No. Someday you'll masturbate too, it's k. It's just his way of taking care of himself when you're not available.

  • It's not a reflection on you. Guys watch porn because it's available, not because they're dissatisfied with their relationship. The only concern would be if he loses interest in sex, which is quite common for guys who use porn frequently.

  • Would you feel better if he was all over you at every chance?

    • No but it makes me feel like I don't please him even though he says he does like why look up hoes

    • So what would his perfect sexual behaviour towards you be like then?

    • I mean he act like he wants me and wants to do stuff with me whenever I'm with him soo... but it's just the thought of him looking up other chicks or whatever... he said sometimes he tries to see which ones look like me so he imagines shit but I don't know

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  • no reason to be mad

  • Trust me, if it still does that with you it's because you aren't good enough for him or because he doesn't get what he wants from you.

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