Why is it so hard for me to find a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I'm 28, Christian. I've gotten my associates and just about to finish my bachelors degree. My class are pretty guys only since it's more in the IT area and girl for some reason usually don't want to become programmers. I work as a cart pusher at a grocery store, and I also have internship where I'm some art and programming. Sadly that's a stay at home job. I also goto church once a week, and I'm not having any luck there. I also play magic the gathering at a card shop on Friday night, but girls usually don't like to play Magic.


Personality wise, I'm pretty shy until I start to get know people. Then I start opening up as I start to trust them. I'm pretty laid back, I like to stay home or in a quiet environment. I'm looking for other areas to meet girls, but I really don't know where to go. I would like to find another Bible study to goto but not having any luck with that. Then there's also the fact that they usually tend to be guy or girls only.

Interests, I'm in heavy metal, video game, anime, Magic: The Gathering, God, Mythology, lost of different things in that area.

[kaylaS91]

The main thing I'm seeing in your write-up or description of why it's 'so hard' for you to find girls is a bunch of excuses. i. e.:
-girl for some reason usually don't want to become programmers
-but girls usually don't like to play Magic.

so.. basically it sounds like you're having difficulty finding a girlfriend because you're making up all these reasons why it's the girls' fault for not wanting to spare you any of their time. Conclusions you've come to based on nothing but your own assumptions, which conveniently spare you having to make any effort into actually meeting someone.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Be yourself. And make a move towards women. If she likes you, She will go along with it, if don't move to the next chick.

[saudiguy1]

I work as a cart pusher at a grocery store... I'm pretty shy.

[Anonymous]

Try dating website