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My boyfriend told me this... does this mean he's bi?

so we were talking about our past sex life.. and then he asked me "whats the craziest/worst thing u did?" and I told him and then asked him back and he said: "ok no one knows about this. you're the only one and you cannot tell anyone. i received a blowjob from a guy" I was so shocked. I was like what the fuck? He did tell me that when he was single 2 years ago, he went to Thailand to have fun and all. So im not sure if its from a tranny or a guy? Or when he got drunk? Since he told me he got drunk every night there. I asked him more info but he said "dont wanna talk about it anymore. its done" Does this mean he's bi? He says he's straight and i do believe it coz of his behavior.. shows he does like girls only. I do know that some gay men check him out but he just laughs at it. Im so confused... why would he let a guy suck his dick?
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  • doesn't mean he is bi, maybe he was just drunk and dint care, maybe he just wanted to see what it was like and experiment with it. it happened once it's nota big deal.
    it's Like the same concept with girls (not all) when the want to make out and everything with other girls, either their are drunk or they wanted to see what it's like doesn't mean they are bi

  • If he's sexually attracted to men then he's bi but it sounds like it was just a one time thing when he drunk.

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  • well, there is the cliche that most girls from thailand are shemales... and it could be that he accidentaly thought that one of them is a "normal" girl so they eventually got somewhere and she (or he, i don't know what gender actually applies) gave him a blowjob before he could see that she/he had a penis...

  • He's Straight and I'm sure loves you too. But as far as Sexual Behaviour is concerned, he might not be bisexual but got drunk or got fooled by someone (It's common in Thailand). Believe me, it's next to impossible to identify trany and normal girls... NO OFFENSE

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  • Based on this, I can't tell if he's bisexual. But if he is, that means you're the luckiest girl in the world. He chose you, not just over all other girls, but also over all guys! That's something to be proud of.

  • lol he had a hangover experience and he was Stu. he must have been roofied or something

  • No, just because he got his dick sucked a couple years back by some other guy does not mean your boyfriend is bi. Trust me- I know what I’m talking about when I say he sounds like he’s hetero. Seems like when he was in Thailand, he came across an opportunity to get himself a blowjob (guys absolutely love getting their dicks sucked, by the way). He was probably really horny and likely paid someone to suck him off. A one-time thing, he clearly still feels odd about it when he seriously shouldn’t.
    I’ve been on the other side of this situation, so I have an idea about this. I’m bisexual and years ago I spent a good chunk of time sucking a lot of cock. A majority of those cocks belonged to hetero men who were only looking for someone who would discreetly suck their cock and let them cum. I Even though I clearly made a lot of guys happy by letting them cum in my mouth, at the end of the day, they were still straight men needing a service. Your boyfriend is the same as those giys, so don’t stress; he just feels bad that he got sucked off by someone other than a heterosexual woman. There’s seriously no shame in that.

    You could always give him some head, let him know he’s got you and you’re definitely down to suck his cock from now on

  • I don't think there is any other answer to your question other than the obvious.

  • he could just be open to experiences.

  • Okay... How many straight girls do you know who gave a french kiss to another girl when drunk?

  • he is bi

  • He's bi. I mean, another guy gave him a bj, so he had a seuxal relation with another guy. If that's not bi I don't know what it is.

  • Nope, He is straight and was drunked at that night.

  • He is not straight. Any man who has sexual contact with another man forever loses the right to say he is straight. He sounds like a closet pillow-biter.

  • more like bi-curious

  • Sounds like it was just an experimental thing. I wouldn't say he's bi

  • 1. you can do some messed up and possibly regrettable stuff when you're drunk. 2. maybe he was just experimenting, people get curious

  • Maybe he was just curious and wanted to experiment

    • why would he want to experiment tho?

    • Most people do just to get the feeling, but then they leave it at that

  • Asians barely have body hair, so it seems to be an honest to god mistake for life

  • nope

  • Chances are he's straight and with alcohol involved his inhibitions gave way and he got a bj from a ladyboy.
    If I were you I wouldn't think nothing else of it

  • What happens in Thailand stays in Thailand.

  • Gayyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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