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What is a female orgasm supposed to feel like?

I've had sex with 4 guys and none of them could get me to come, so I bought a vibrator and I was fantasizing about one of them as I kept it on my clit for about a minute, well it felt good and my breathing increased then I had vaginal contractions I couldn't control. I know this is all part of having an orgasm but then after the contractions, nothing happened. I feel like there should have been a more explosive ending or a feeling of amazingness overcoming my whole body but all I got was some contractions. I mean was this like an almost-orgasm that I shouldn't have given up in so soon? I could only take so much vibration, the sensations are almost uncomfortable (while also amazing at the same time).

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  • Those vaginal contractions were an orgasm. That's basically what happens. It should get better with time. The more you explore and learn about what feels good to you the better they will feel. Have you tried masturbating with your hands, the shower or with the jets in a jacuzzi? There's all kinds of different ways that provide all kinds of different sensations. Some women like to have something inside them at the same time to give a feeling of being full.The PC muscles are also linked to the pleasurableness of orgasm and you can do kegels to strengthen them. Focus on it and enjoy the sensations for what they are and not what you expect them to feel like. If your mind isn't in the right place it might take something away from the experience.

What Guys Said 2

  • its like a wonderful explosion that happens inside of you

  • Everyone is different you feel what you feel, their is no normal, keep exploring your body, enjoy it no matter how little or much you feel. Most girls don't come from vaginal intercourse. Try different things find what you like, maybe them going down on you, etc...

What Girls Said 1

  • Congratulations, you had a clitoral orgasm. That sounds exactly like the orgasms I have from clitoral stimulation. They can vary in intensity, but basically the pleasure seems to come up to a peak, I tense up, my breathing increases, and then I have uncontrollable vaginal contractions. Afterward, my clitoris becomes very sensitive. When I was younger, I felt the same way that you do: I expected something more and wondered if it was because I gave up too soon. Now I've come to enjoy that kind of orgasm just the way it is.There are different kinds of orgasms, however. The best way that I've heard a G-spot orgasm described is to imagine yourself lying on a beach with your feet to the ocean and a giant wave of pleasure comes up over you, similar to the "feeling over amazingness overcoming your whole body" that you expected to feel. A g-spot orgasm is a very different and less "concentrated" feeling compared to a clitoral orgasm. While a clitoral orgasm is less intense than a G-spot orgasm, it's still very enjoyable, so don't feel disappointed. :)

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