Do you go down the first night with a girl?

So guys.. You've been on a few dates with a girl and you've got great chemistry. You end up sleeping together? Do you go down on her that night? why/ why not? what could influence your decision?
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  • I don't get this question. But it makes me wonder about how women think. For me, I want to make her happy, but I also want to be happy. Best way to do that is to eat her out. It will give her at least 1 orgasm, and since I absolutely love eating pussy, it makes me happy. A few of the women that I have had sex with tried to stop me. A couple said "maybe next time" until I explained that if they were able to relax and trust me, not only would that make me happy but I guaranteed they would not regret it. The last woman, when I was done, said "holly shit, your way too good at that" lol...
    So what is it with women? do most women just want to get that first time out of the way and they don't care if they have an orgasm? Most (I said most ladies) women can't orgasm from penetration. Frankly, I just assume they can't and this this is the best way I can make sure they get at least 1 before I finish myself off. Honestly, most of the time they basically have to hit me on the head and tell me to stop or I just keep going lol...

    • for me I just see it as part of sex and if I'm spending the night with someone I'll go down on them and kind of hope that they do the same too but in practice with guys that I've been with probably only 50% or so are enthusiastic about this, the rest are happy to just receive

  • I would if we really do have great chemistry
    that instantly should mean i would love to eat her up and taste her every inch

Most Helpful Girl

  • If they really like the girl, they would

    • I totally agree if you really like the girl go down on her eat that pussy good make sure you cause her to have several sweet orgasms while you're doing so myself I go down on the chick on the first date if I like her and she's clean by clean I mean she takes a bath or a shower daily keep that pussy clean and a man definitely be going down on you constantly

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  • If all seems good then sure, you only live once. At worst you'll get some horrendous disease and your penis will fall off.

    • if you're putting your dick in anyway then you might as well chance your tongue too right?

    • Well, you need to be doubly cautious with the dick as you could end up becoming a dad. I mean, disease is one thing but that's a whole other ball game.

  • Yes I do
    I want her to be wet :)
    And lossen up.
    Also to reduce her tension and not be that nervous etc..

    Ofc to lube Also and make her aroused.

    ;) and I enjoy it and it give me very hard boner

  • Though it is a bit superfluous at this point; if we have great chemistry and its gotten to sex, hell yeah. I get some people wait on moral grounds or even embarrassment and shyness. That just sort of limits the enjoyment for both of you. Plus its fun to find out what they like more. If I end up with earmuffs at any point during the experience, I win 😁

  • I've never done it because it just never went that way but I wouldn't be against it. Like If I went to put it in and she kinda hinted to me to eat her out I'd do it.

    • you'd prefer for her to suggest it first?

    • Before I put it in or before the whole thing? The worst girl I ever was with she literally tried to plan out everything and she wanted it all to go down a very specific way. It was a huge turn off. She wasn't experienced at all. I guess if she asked me to do it, that probably wouldn't bother me. If anything it might turn me on for her to express that she's really into what were doing. The best way to put this is, unless you guys are doing some kind of dominant woman stuff in bed, the girl shouldn't really make demands. Soft statements are ok and asking can be hot.

  • The title question made me think first date. No, I wouldn't.
    But if we have had been dating, had some second base play and decided this would be sex night, yes I have/would. I can't think of a reason not to except her period and sex night would not have been scheduled on it.

  • I would, I enjoy giving oral sex. Only reason I wouldn't is if it smelled awful.

  • I always go down on a girl. It was the very first sexual experiance i made. I got a huge fetish for licking. So its the first thing i want to do

  • Yes, munching minge is a normal part of sex, plus the first time you wanna show them what you can do so they'll be thirsty for more.

  • Yes, I would. I love doing it and also it's one way I can almost guarantee she'll have an orgasm, which makes it more likely she'll sleep with me again.

  • depends on how I feel she feels. I may try if she's really into it and let her tell me no if not.

  • Of course. Why wait

    • I don't know, nerves? Maybe they don't like it or wait until the relationship is more established? I was curious.

    • What do u mean by established?

    • some may wait until they've been together a certain amount of time maybe? I don't know, this is why I'm asking the question

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  • lol sure. i mean if it doesn´t stink or look infected, i don´t have any problem with it.

  • Fuck yes. Why? Because I love doing it.

  • yeah i could cause i would want her to fell good and plus just in case if i get to excited and lose my stuff early hope she hot hers to when i went down. but if she has like a full blown fro down then maybe on hoe horny i am

  • If you really vibe with her and like her Its cool. I couldn't do it.

    • you couldn't do what?

    • I couldn't go down on her on the very first night. Thats hard to imagine.

    • why not?

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  • Well, why not?

  • I went down on my girl on the 1st date

  • First thing I do

  • I'd definitely go down on her on that date. Our chemistry and bond and our emotional attachment influences me going down on her. I'd wanna make her happy.

  • If you are having intercourse by all means. This should always happen before his dick comes out.

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