Are girls ACTUALLY attracted to guys (not what you think)?

1. Girls dont feel lusty thoughts or sexual attraction toward attractive men without an emotional connection, so if they need to know them first is it really the man they're attracted to?
2. The fact that most girls are attracted to power, wealth and status which aren't even tangible features of the man himself.
3. From what i see from girls answers on girlsaskguys most girls are attracted to girls at least somewhat, meaning its not guys specifically girls sre attracted to? But certain qualities men and women share?
4. Female sexuality is almost purely based off them feeling sexy, desired etc meaning if men's sexuality didn't force them to lust after women, women wouldn't lust reciprocate and lust back to men.
5. Women dont approach men largely because they dont desire or feel any attraction to men as a standalone, it isn't until a guy approaches, impresses etc does she start to develope feelings. (Ik this isn't acurate with many women but is for most).

So basically it just seems like men's instinctual drive to desire women is what in turn makes women reciprocate, not original desire women have for men.
Please let me know how accurate any of this is or whether you agree?
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  • Alright,
    1. starting off with girl do feel lusty thoughts about men they hardly know
    2. the reason girls are attracted to wealthy & high status men is because it displays dominance, as a basic instinct women look for a men that can look after himself & her (men are supposed to) this has been the case since we were hunters & gatherers
    3. I don't think i can say much about that
    4. that is just how women are are made & the only thing you can do is deal with it
    5. women do approach men though its less likely however a man who approaches first is perceived as more attractive

    it all basically boils down to good DNA, women subconsciously look for mating partners that they'd have healthy offsprings with as the only instincts we were born with as homosapiens is to survive & to reproduce

    • If 4. Is accurate shouldnt't 1. Be right as well?

    • It is hard to explain but think of it as when we masturbate we focus on penetration, girls usually focus more on foreplay

  • I've heard women admit they only want to be wanted by a man and thats how they desire us, which sucks. they get turned on knowing they are desirable enough to turn us on, but dont desire us, just desire to be desired... read one of my first questions i ever posted on this on my profile. we are basically useless other then for reproducing :(

    • Ik its insulting honestly, men obsess and desire women significantly yet women dont toward us.

    • well they are far more aesthetically pleasing to the eye, even women admit that, i think if it wasn't for babies and their ego to be wanted, the dildo wouldve made us extinct.

    • I highly disagree, I actually find men really attractive just not sexually

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  • I think that everything you just said was false. All of them. 1-5. At least in my opinion. I am only attracted to men not only because tags who I am but because that's how biology works. Man and woman. If we weren't supposed to be attracted to each other then there wouldn't be two genders now would there? I fell attracted to men without emotionally knowing them first. Wealth, power and status to me have nothing to do with anything sexual. I am not even somewhat attracted to women or qualities shared by men and women. I also don't think that the female sexuality is based off of "feeling sexy". I would also approach a man if I wanted to, but I just feel that it's the man's "job", If you will, to do that.

    • you said "two genders," be careful, you may have "triggered" some liberal snowflake ❄️ lol!!! 👨‍👨‍👦‍👦👩‍👩‍👦‍👦👬👭👨‍❤️‍💋‍👨👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩💏#microaggression #safespace #liberalbullcrap

    • 😂😂 yes I only believe that there are 2 genders. I mean you can identify as a tree but does that mean that you're actually a tree? No. #liberalbullcrap is right.

    • I hope what you say is true, it honesrly offends me when girls say they aren't physically attracted and only look at menth e way men look at women when they get an emotional connection. Do u feel most women are like you in this regard?

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  • 🙂 I get where you're coming from, but girls do feel sexual attraction- just like guys do to girls (or gay people to one another etc 🙂) - and they do get lustful, and emotional connection isn't always necessary. Girls would have as many one night stands as men if society was more accepting of women sleeping with people outside of a relationship, but (although it has gotten significantly better) there's still the "slut" attitude, whereas guys "get lucky". Also, maybe woman need the emotional connection due to the mothering instincts they have due to their hormones, so I guess that could suggest they might want a longer term relationship. I hope this helped!🙂

    • "Girls feel sexual attraction just like guys do" even to the extent of guys? What about seeing an attractive stranger, do girls ever "feel" anything? Also are you attracted to women sexually/ romantically at all?

    • Yes they do, and it's like men do only it's generally not noticeable (unless hey want it to be obviously). No, not at all. And I'm a big believer in the experimenting so that you are 100% sure on your sexual orientation, and I've never felt any attraction to a woman! I mean, I can understand why some girls are seen as pretty which is probably what's confusing for guys. Girls compliment one another a lot whereas I've never heard a guy compliment another guy (not saying they don't but ya know), so I guess it could seem like it's attraction but really it's just politeness for the sake generally rather than anything further.🙂

  • I agree with you that we need an emotional connection first. But this doesn't mean that we will like a girl the same way we like you. And you said we like money in men? A lot of girls are shallow like that, but a lot of us don't consider wealth at all. It is also true that we like to be pursued rather than be the hunters, but it still means we are physically attracted to the man. I tend to think it is hard for men to relate to the attraction we feel because unlike men, women think of physical characteristics second to how they treat us/ confidence.

    • But then your not really attracted to the guy? Your attracted to how attracted he is to you. Physical attraction for women seems to mean admiration more than anything. The only difference is men offer women more attention and love because men are instinctually drawn to women and desire them.

    • if u need emotional connection first then before an emotional connection how did u know that which gender u are sexually attracted to? because everyone born alone/single and if they don't feel sexual attraction first then how do emotional connection build? logically they will not feel interest to guys because they don't feel attraction first, if they aren't interested then why do they choose guys as their potential partner?

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  • no, we're sarcastically attracted to guys.

    • Please take this seriously, im aware to a female this might seem ridiculous but honestly this seems mostly accurate to me

  • Do some of that reasearch

    • I have and thats what has led me to most of these conclusions, im interested in hearing girl's opinions. Please share yours?

  • I agree with them all. Though not entirely on #1; girls do feel sexually attracted that's the first thing that comes into mind, if there's no chemistry then I will not be attracted to you.

    • If 1 is incorrect wouldn't that naturally make a lot of the others incorrect as well? Also are you sexually attracted to other women?

    • Eh not necessarily. It depends on the women. No sir.

  • I lust a strange guys that I don't know all the time that I would have sex with instantly but I have to get to know the guy first what if I get pregnant or something.
    I'm not attracted to wealth but I would want a guy that is financially stable
    We have a feeling of lust all the time not because we don't act on it and men don't have to approach me in order for me to lust
    I don't approach men because I don't like rejection I will flirt and if he gets the hint well I'm ohk

    • Are most women like you? I actually really stuggle to accept that if i am right and women really are this way. I hope your right.

    • I'm right I have female friends and I hear what they say about guys like oh " If I had him the things I would do to him "

    • really? strange are they rare community? is it sexual attraction?

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  • Why!! Why the same question every day! Get help. Do you actually believe the human race would exist if women only were attracted to women! Just stop already. Is it just because women don't find you attractive?

    • Not at all. Girls saying 2 dofferent things and it confuses me

    • Then how is it that the human race exists? Who cares what anyone says, look at the facts!!

  • i think its totally NOT accurate and your being a bitter ass

    • A good portion of women are agreeing with men though. I accept all women are different. Which points do you disagree with or think might be kind of accurate?

    • well the first one, bc heaps of girls have sex with total strangers just cause they look good, and yes, some of us do want an emotional connection before having sex, which i happen to think is far more moral than the reason a lot of guys have sex. second, most girls are NOT gold diggers, SOME of them are, just as SOME guys are, and it also contradicts ur first point anyway, bc it say we want an eotioal connection and the second makaes out that we dont care about ur personality which we DO. 3rd, yes, some woman like men some do not, same as men likeing men, but it is not actually the majority. 4th yes, woman like to feel desired, so do guys and girls do feel lust so i dont even get the point of that one. 5th a lot of girls dont approach men bc they expect the guy to approach them, which is sexist but thats just the way it is, but there are also girls that do. men also are often in big groups and want to boost his ego and ask the girl out, not for lust but to impress his mates

    • But as far as ik which apparently im wrong? So girls can look at attractive men and get excited? And im not disagreeing that everyone likes to feel desired but men aren't aroused by that and most thingd that turn girls on are centred around her feeling desired

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  • All of those are wildly untrue. Boy you really haven't figured out women.

    • Also thats the thing 50% of the girls make out im crazy and completely incorrect and the rest agree and basicslly more or less relate 100%

    • I'm not seeing any that agree with you...

    • Its basic psychology of girls & how they work that doesn't make you bad its just the way you function, you might not even notice it as majority of it happens subconsciously but if you pay close attention to your actions with an open mind, you'll see what he's talking about

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  • girls are illogical creator

  • All of this is inaccurate. We've told you this over and over again.

    • ALL of it inaccurate? What about point 1? Also thats the thing 50% of the girls make out im crazy and completely incorrect and the rest agree and basicslly more or less relate 100%

    • What part of all of this is inaccurate did you not read? My statement statement doesn't exclude point one.

  • Girls are just as sexually and physically attracted to men.
    Girls see hunky men and have sexual thoughts all the time.

    • I dont think so honestly