How often does the average single person have sex?

Just curious. Guys and girls, preferably 20s+. Roughly, how may women/men do you sleep with a year?
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Personally, I'm 24 and I've had about 8. I've managed to reach this number while often not having sex for months at a time. Lol.
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First had sex when I was 16 and I've been single most of my life. So when I think of it that way, i feel like my number is actually really low.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • No, it's fine. It's called the cock-carousel. If you ride that all the way into your thirties without finding someone you really like, it will get to where it is virtually impossible to find one. The good ones get married off, snapped up. So you're left with the dregs and the divorcees, the basement nerds. And you'll have to start competing with the cute young things like yourself.
    Just don't do this.
    Girls are the keepers of sex. Guys are the keepers of commitment. Don't give your part away for nothing, for free.
    Choose wisely, treat kindly.

    Don't be standing there at 35 saying, "Where have all the good guys gone." :)

    • aka. The Wall (tm)

    • @Topkek - That's it! What the girls are not getting is that their youthful beauty is their primary strength - the peak of their SMV. If they squander that then by 35 it is starting to fade and they have a ton of competition. Why would a 35yo guy want a saggy 35yo gal if he could snag a perky 25yo? And so it goes. There is nothing in the world quite like a young beautiful woman. It is what all things human find attractive. Even commercial advertisers know this.

    • Yet even the 35 year old women hang on to the delusion that they have looks. If you've been through enough in life, even the value of a 22 year olds looks should not phase you too much.

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  • Hell if I know.

    a lot of single people are serial monogamists. Go from relationship with one person to the next. So might be with 1 person they sleep with a lot over 6 months, break up and be with a new person they sleep with for another 6 months. So while they still had a lot of sex it was only with 2 people. Rather than going out every week and having sex with a new person every week and end up having less sex at the end of the day I don't know how you would accurately measure that sort of thing.

Most Helpful Girls

  • 0 people and 0 times lol
    I don't have sex when not in relationships. I did break up with my ex and then we managed to have sex, he's like the best in bed, but I realized that it had to stop because he thought it meant we were back together and it made me want to take him back.

  • 25. 11 sexual partners. I feel like my number is lower side of average to average. 3 of them were relationships and the rest fwbs or hookups. I definitely go through periods of absolutely nothing and then a few in a row tho...

  • My number is 2 but both were long term , committed relationships.

    I've never had sex as a single person and I'm in my 20's

  • Given the fact I don't sleep around when single, I'll have to say 0 😂

    • Wow, celibacy. Every year? You've never had a random hookup in your life?

    • Nope. I've only ever had sex with people I've been in relationships with. I know I wouldn't be able to handle the emotional side of a one night stand so I just stay away from them altogether 😂

    • Ah ok. That makes sense.

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  • this question is very situational ( use condoms) but as fair as the number. it seems healthy number at 24> ( use condoms). never fault having experience with sex. it actually will help through life. oh yea- use condoms people.

    • didn't ask for sex advice, I asked how many people everyone fucked in their life. But since you mentioned it, I don't screw without one.

  • depends on the person really everyone's different

    • I know that. Hence why i wanted people to give*individual* answers

    • then when I was single id say 3-5x a day

    • Different women?

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  • It also depends on how much cash you have. ;-)

    • Haha, I see

  • I would say the average person has sex 3-5 times a week. I wouldn't really know though, Im a virgin and have never even kissed a girl 😂.

    • And you're 23. Impressive :P

    • Thanks, it is impossible to lose ones virginity when all the girls you have liked reject you or you currently like someone but dont have the guts to tell them 😂.

    • I'll do you if you want. Haven't had sex in a while.

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  • I haven't even kissed a girl. Let alone having sex 😂
    8 times... damn, I'm so jealous 😁

  • The question is how many different people or how many full stop? Per year probably around 15-20 times with a few different girls. Depends how often I go out how liberal I am with who I get with etc

  • I do at least 4x a week.

  • My average is between 3-4 a year.

  • well a lot in the last year. roughly 30-40. usually I get 2 girls a month. countings so long tho I actually tried and fuck up and started counting again a couple times lool. but a lot. I used to get 1 girl a year tho, until I found my own way. soon I'm gonna settle down tho. I banged a lot of girls its not as fun as it was before tbh.

  • I had my best year in 2015 I think. Maybe around 25 that year. I don't know what my total count is but if I had to guess it would be somewhere in the 40s. My situation is definitely not considered to be the norm though.

  • I didn't had yet. was just this close when her mom arrived at home. so mine 0

    • Wow. Cool.

  • I've been with 2 women my entire life and im 27. dont wory you're doing fine.

  • You started having sex way too young and your question is totally different than the included description...

    • First of all, i didn't ask you what you thought of the age I first had sex. Second, both the question and description refer to how many sex partners/how frequently most single people have sex.

  • im single and im a virgin and im waiting till marriage

  • I've been single for my whole life, 21 now. Had sex about 6 times.

  • I've heard worse numbers lol

    • What's the most you have heard?

  • Never did.

  • I am way more up in numbers.

    • Coolio

  • Depends on definition like hook ups cuz I don't do that

  • No one by age 24

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