Dirty talk during sex: turn on or turn off?

I always do it with my boyfriend but never sure how much is "too much" if you get what I mean. Not sure if all men like it.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Most guys speak some dirty with their friends casually and these are the words related to sex directly or indirectly. These words are turn on for them - and have some direct message about sex. If a girl will talk some selected words or some dirty before sex to encourage him for sex - it will definitely turn on his man: for example - your organ is singing. . . . or it looks like a donkey today... Some dirty talks are part of enjoying good sex. It is helpful is establishing a deep understanding between two for many things - like and dislike in the bed. I have used this idea many times.

  • Majority of men I've talked to and men I've been with have all enjoyed dirty talk. Always keep in mind the setting, time and mood. But dropping a line in his ear as you nibble on it; telling him explicitly what you want to do to him or what you want him to do to you will often send a hot tone.

    • Definetly YES !!!

    • Jesus I'd lose it a girl did this to me

    • @matze1099 @Paulie3000 hence why practicing the art of dirty talking is crucial and such a turn on 💁

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  • It is a huge turn on for me now but it never used to be. My SO got me to talk dirty over the phone as he travels a lot and I slowly found that it was turning me on and now I can be absolutely disgusting when the need arises. (and no, if you IM me I will not talk dirty to you)

  • its really catchy
    and hard to tell when to do when not to do
    me myself I nudge on
    not sure sometime

Most Helpful Guys

  • I think most men like it. But I also think younger men and women are less likely to be comfortable doing it. I know when I was in my 20's I was not comfortable. But now I can do it. Although I still hate when a woman asks me to tell her what to do. But I will ask things like "will u lick my balls" if she isn't doing it. For me, a woman could never go 'too much'. The only thing that ever made me go "WTF?" Was when a woman spit on my cock. I actually stopped her and said "did u just spit on my dick?" Lol. She said yes and I just said "please dont do that". That was 3 years ago.

    • what's wrong with that your getting spit on it regardless

  • If it sounds like you are repeating lines from a cheap porn movie, it is a turn off. If it sounds like you are expressing how you are feeling, it is a big turn on. Moaning is also a turn on because it tells us that we are doing something right!

    "Give me your big cock right now, daddy!" NO!

    "Baby, I need to feel your dick in my pussy right now!" YES!

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  • If it's somewhat natural and organic and comes with passion and intensity then yes, it can be a turn on. If it's awkward and contrived and like a low budget porn script, total turn off.

  • i think some romantict talk can also be dirty talk like if she were on top of me and totallyy makeing me feel great i might say something like oh ueah baby. make me xum in you. or somethi g like that or oh my gosh. you feel so amazing you feel silky smooth. is my type of dirty talk. never anything with whore in it. i couldnt do that to someone i love

  • Dirty talking is infact a hugh Turn On for me.

  • If his erection disappears, it was too much.

  • Absolutely a turn on. the Dirtier the better

  • If you do it proiperly, it's never too much

    • Yup that's right

  • I don't know, but I think that it will turn me on. ;)

    • While having sex what should one whisper in your ears to make u feel even more sexier?

    • That he want me, he loves my body. He like how he feels being inside me. That he want to fuck me more often and I would never be bored to him. That I always turns him on and he is hard when he think about me. That he loves feeling when I orgasmed and he fulled me. Yeah, this definitely turns me on more ;)

    • Assuming she sounds good... and I tell her moaning and facial expression is so sexy that it turns me on...

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  • i find it kind of hilarious.

    • isn't that just merely embarasment?

    • probably but i dont like it at all. so. lol it doesn't matter what it is, its unpleasant.

    • fair enough ;)

  • yes it is a big turn on for me

  • The only thing that matters is if your boyfriend enjoys his time with you. For me, I would only enjoy dirty talk by a woman if it is spontaneous and she means it. If she is just saying words like a mindless recording I'd be turned off.

  • As much as you want, if it get's too much (if that is even a thing) than I'll tell you, or react adversely, but until that time, get as naughty and raunchy as you want.

  • Turn on, so long as we're not talking every other thrust, ya know? Depends on what you say, and depends on what you call him during, too.

  • Honestly I hate it when people talk during sex. I already feel awkward about doing the task itself so trying to be smooth and talk through it makes it worse. You should just ask him if he likes it or not.

  • Every guy is different... I would just ask them if it turns them on or not.

  • I think most men like it. But I also think younger men and women are less likely to be comfortable doing it. I know when I was in my 20's I was not comfortable. But now I can do it. Although I still hate when a woman asks me to tell her what to do. But I will ask things like "will u lick my balls" if she isn't doing it. For me, a woman could never go 'too much'. The only thing that ever made me go "WTF?" Was when a woman spit on my cock. I actually stopped her and said "did u just spit on my dick?" Lol. She said yes and I just said "please dont do that". That was 3 years ago.

  • One of my biggest turn ons

  • A little dirty is fine with me, but I'm not that hot on a girl who really talks vulgar. I prefer "pussy" to "cunt" and "dick" to "cock", but what really knocks me out is when a girl starts talking about my penis and her vagina.

  • I love dirty talk. Saying it and having it said to me, you've just gotta time it right and not just say something for the sake of it.

    • Once a man was talking dirty with his girlfriend, he called her a slut and a whore, she yelled "don't call me that mr. small dick hihi!" He get furious after that and he bit down on her tongue and didn't let go until he bit off the whole thing.

    • @AllahuAkbarBich what the hell.

    • Yeah that guy's crazy af

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  • I don't like it... cause it makes me think that I am doing something wrong...

  • Major turn on..

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