Does this mean I'm bi?

[Anonymous]

Ummm very awkward thing I'm about to mention.
So, I like guys a lot, but I don't like girls. The whole idea of me being with another girl or having sex, NOPE. That doesn't feel right. So the question I'm wondering is why do I keep looking at other girls so much?
I feel like its because the have nicer figures than me and I'm like, #bodygoals
Or if I see a pretty girl, I'm like, "Wow, she's pretty."
I have no idea what's wrong with me. Maybe I'm just a teenager with fucked up hormones.
I also draw more girls. Weird.

[MrMysteryMan]

Being bi means you have sexual desires to be with both males and females, to simplify it, without going through the whole sexual spectrum we have now.

So, if you're not sexually attracted to girls, as in, you get turned on thinking about a woman's boobs or about them touching you, than you're hetero I suppose. Maybe look up the whole LGBT... spectrum and see for yourself. But I just know, if you're not sexually attracted to your own gender (male/female speaking) than you're on the hetero side of the spectrum.

[VirginiaBeachBum]

I don't think it means anything. I had an attraction like that when I was 13 for another 13 year old boy and we acted on it, but even that didn't make me gay or bi. I'd think it wasn't normal if you didn't have these feelings at some point in your life.

[Anonymous]

I used to be like you. In my case I am short, skinny and flat chested. I used to compare other girls with how I felt I looked. It got to a point where I just got fed up with comparing. I realised there was nothing really wrong with me. I was just another normal teenager. From that moment on, I was happy with myself. I am certainly not bi or lesbian. I am even happier now I have a loving partner.

I think you are just a normal teenager too. Enjoy who you are.

[Asker]

This makes me feel better. Thank you. 😊

[Opinion Owner]

No probs! Hope you like GAG!

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO.

[hehpangender]

It's a complicated feeling, I get it, but I don't think what your having makes you bi. You're not attracted to girls that's obvious. I think it's natural to appreciate how other girls look. I mean, have you seen women celebrities these days? DAAAAMMMNNN XD it's fine.

[Sakura99]

Ur straight if the thought of kissing a girl or having a relationship with a girl doesn't feel right for u, I look at other girls and go "damn she's hot" but I'm straight, I admire looks but I'm not sexually or emotionally involved/attracted to them

[Sakura99]

Also females are easier to draw and I draw them heaps because of that

[Dim1213]

It is because you know that they look pretty. They are what you compare yourself to. It is like a guy knowing another guy is handsome. Your normal don't worry we all compare ourselves to each other.

[thisGUYknows]

i wouldn't call u bi. if anything thats kinda normal for girls.

[RowenaRavenclaw]

No ur not bi. I think everyone does that tbh

[Blonde401]

I keep seeing these dumb question. Unless you are sexually attracted to both genders you ARE NOT bi. Easy.

[spnsfi]

Well she's only 15, why is that dumb?

[Blonde401]

@spnsfi because it's not difficult to figure it out. Why think you're bisexual if you're not sexually attracted to both genders?

[amphet11]

I see the opposite of girls way older, being aroused by the female body, lesbian porn etc and still thinking they are straight.

[spnsfi]

Yeah I get it, lol. She just might not know what bi means

[Blonde401]

@amphet11 why does sexuality have the be black and white?

[amphet11]

Now you are asking dumb questions. If it isn't black or white, it would by definition have to be something like bisexuality or pansexuilty. Even the kisney scale which attempts to explain sexuality as a numbered scale agrees that if you aren't a 0 or 6 on the scale, you are bisexual (excluding asexuality). If it can't be black or white, then heterosexuality (and homosexuality) don't exist.

[Blonde401]

@amphet11 watching porn doesn't make your sexuality one thing or another. You can like certain types of porn but never do it yourself. Unless you're attracted sexually to the same gender and have sex with them or desire to have sex with them, you're not bisexual/gay. Some people watch 'incest porn'. Does that mean they wanna commit incest? You know what I mean? Sexuality is fluid is what I'm saying. But there has to be a degree of attraction there.

[amphet11]

So then someone who masturbates to child porn isn't a pedophile? being aroused by a quantifiable group having sex defining sexual attraction. Aroused by children having sex=sexual attraction to children (a pedophile) being aroused by two girls having sex= sexual attraction to women (thus cannot be straight if you are a girl). The definition of sexual orientation is to gender not the act, so it has to be taken as such. As in a person would be attracted to their sibling or family member if it was actually that family member in the video.

[Blonde401]

@amphet11 paedophilia is a whole other ball park. As it's illegal in itself to have it. I can't comment on the psychology of it. TBH I can't be arsed with this argument. Viewing a type of porn for excitement does not make you that. It just means you get excited by that. People who experiment aren't that sexuality, they're curious. You're dragging this out so unnecessarily. I'm bowing out. Bye.

[amphet11]

To be curious and experiment in the first place you must have some degree of sexual attraction to that gender, which by definition would make them bisexual. And what you said about pedophilia doesn't make it not a acceptable comparison.

[amphet11]

You agree with me, you just don't know enough to realize it.

[Blonde401]

@amphet11 I don't agree with you at all. I'm bisexual you absolute spoon and spend a lot of my time around gay men so I probabg know more about sexuality that you do. Absolutely pathetic.

[spnsfi]

From what I observe it seems that women tend to have a more fluid sexuality, while men's is sturdier.

[Blonde401]

@spnsfi yeah that's true.

[Universaltruth]

No I don't think you are bi. If you don't think about girls when you masterbate or fantasize about them. You draw more girls cuz the female form is more artistic.

[justinhealy]

ok here's the answer in two parts; yes it's hormones and no its not fucked up. guys will look at guys and be like "wow he looks good" that does not mean he/she is sexually attracted to he/her.

[CubsterShura]

Ah it happens. I stare at pretty girls a lot, but not with desire to be in a relationship but rather with the desire to look as pretty as her.

You're straight.

[abundantlyrich]

bi curious

[Hollywood-Glam]

That does not mean you're bi because it's not a sexual or romantic attraction.

[Cress]

That's not remotely weird or sexual. You can admire another girl's looks without being bisexual.

[cutemz]

It's normal

[disgustingweebtrash]

>teenager with fucked up hormones

yeah, same

[JayLiche]

Early stages of bi'ism

[kabir148]

If you are clear with the idea that you don't like being sexual with another girl than you are straight

[JustRelax]

not weird :) when you start have sex you will see :)

[GeetSpooped]

I think it's because you are comparing yourself to other females to validate yourself as a potential mate. It doesn't have to be a conscious effort on your part, it's just an evolutionary behavior influenced by sexual selection 😉

[Thump23]

"Draw more girls" what do you mean? I've also experimented with guys in the past and I don't think I could do it... or maybe if it was with a hot guy. My point is, I'm straight and for some reason I'm still attracted to other guys.

[Anonymous]

you're jealous

[Anonymous]

No it doesn't.

[Anonymous]

it sounds like you appreciate beauty and have your owm standards for men and women, and when you see someone who fits your aesthetic you appreciate them platonically.

im bi, and when I see a woman I find attractive, I usually think about how I'd love to grab that ass... or other such impure thoughts. hahaha.

so nah. i dont think you're bi.

[amphet11]

Probably much closer to being lesbian, i doubt you get those impure thoughts when looking at a random guy.