How to make a man finish faster in bed?

My new boyfriend lasts a really long time in bed (which is great!) but it lasts so long to the point of me already being done and getting bored of it.. are there any tips for helping him finish faster without telling him he's taking too long? I don't want to hurt his feelings but I don't want this to happen every time we have sex
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I have your boyfriend's problem, and tbh, the best thing to do is, when you're done, tell him you're done. If he can come he will, and if he can't, there's always next time, and he'll be hotter for the wait. Maybe the first few times, give him enough notice that he'll have a chance to finish, but after that, just tell him, that you're satisfied. He'll soon get your rythem.

  • you need to change more positions. Oh and lady it seems you may not be putting in equal work. you want him to explode in a reasonable time you have to for play him to. that or reverse cow girl.

Most Helpful Girls

  • whisper dirty talk into his ear while rubbing his balls. Tell him how bad you want him to cum in you, how you can feel it pumping into you. Tell him you want him to say "i'm cumming" when he does. The dirtier the better always works for me :)

    • Have you tried to talk that dirty and it works in most cases? :D

    • @Dexamethasone - it always works.

    • What exactly do you like to say? :D

  • talk to him about it. i know exactly what you mean

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  • Start yelling at him to finish.

    • Motivation!!! Cross that finish line!! I know you can do it!! Just keep going!! You're almost there!!! Words every man wishes to hear. Especially through screaming!!!

    • @Finnick finally someone gets it

    • I think finnck may be being sarcastic? I know that screaming nonsense at me like that will make me limp in a hurry.. but at least were done fucking right?

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  • Stroke faster and then slow down. Repeat it.

  • Say things like I'm gonna make you cum baby etc touch him more get really sexy
    And announce when you cum just yell something like I'm coming baby I love you ohhhhhhh !

  • You to be better on bed

  • talk, try to not making pressure. he might have some fetishes - i do also last long, unless she knows how to speed it up 😉

  • non stop stimulation even if he say stop do it.

  • i have the same problem... try massaging his rectum and balls.. while suckin his penis.. talk dirty a lot.. anal penetration fr a guy with your fingers takes the guy to all another place

  • Be active in bed

  • Talk to him about his turn ons and kinks and stuff. That will help you.

  • Wow this is a first. Usually the guy doesn't go long enough

  • I have the same problem, I could fuck for an hour and not ejaculate. If you put more pressure on him he will perform worse. There's nothing you can do

  • tell him to put it in your butt