Can a virgin guy be happy with a non virgin girl?

[wrightontime]

Is it possible for a virgin guy to be happy with a non virgin girl? I honestly think we would be happier with a virgin girl.
Dating a virgin, He would feel less ripped off and be the first one there, he would have less of her past baggage to deal with, he would be more eager and willing to please a girl. Virgin Guys are not eager to please used pussy.
Personally, I feel bad for virgin guys dating non virgin girls because I was this guy. I wasn't motivated to please her sexually and not motivated to make her happy because she has more past baggage and a used body. Non virgin girls still have a tendency to secretly want there past boyfriend's too.

[Pinkful]

Speaking as a virgin girl, I think you're being a bit too judgmental on girls who aren't virgins. I can't tell you how to feel about it but being a virgin is a personal choice, if a girl decides to give it away to someone before you that's her choice. She isn't a "used body" or anything else that's degrading because you have a personal problem with it. Now as for your question yes, virgin guys can be happy with non virgin girls, I've seen it happen, and it has zero to do with virginity. When you honestly care or love someone you don't care about their past, you're only focused on your future with them, and being able to please each other equally. I didn't mean to rant or offend you, but you're generalizing non virgin girls and it's wrong.

[wrightontime]

I hate non virgins. I'm not into being 2nd place.

[Pinkful]

Are you still a virgin? And if not, would you be okay if virgin girls reacted the same way to you?

[wrightontime]

No I'm not. But virgin girls Never showed interest in me, ever. Only non Virgins and teen mom's show interest in me. It's fucked up.

[Koushikshine1234]

What if he is a virgin and did'nt sleep around in the name of love and had self controlin it

[samhradh_leannan]

It totally depends on the individual, and what they're looking for in a partner.

If you think a person's worth depends on their virginity status, then I'd suggest that you wait until marriage to have sex, and find a partner who wants to do the same. If you think this way, you will never be content with a non-virgin. And you can't expect a virgin partner if you're not a virgin yourself.

If you care more about a person's character, intellect, and values than you do about which objects have previously been inside their vagina, then their virginity won't be a big deal to you. People like this will likely have no problem dating a non-virgin.

[wrightontime]

I guess I will never be content with a non virgin.

[samhradh_leannan]

I guess not.

[Anonymous]

I think the MANY of virgin guys make sex to be a big deal and they usually negatively judge women who have had sex before being with them. Therefore, I think it's better for them to be with a virgin girl for the first time.

[wrightontime]

I agree. Virgin guys eventually start looking down on the non virgin like she is used trash.

[koushikshine]

May be they (virgin boys) do so because they fear of being compared to her exes... n being dumped as the non virgins dumped her exes. So she may dump him as well

[Darkrainbow]

You are used trash too :)) because you aren't virgin either.

[Darkrainbow]

I wrote this comment to the "wrightontime" user. He is not virgin and calls non virgin women used trash. Double standard hypocrite

[djmzes]

Yes and no
But to be honest if a guy is a virgin and choose to be it is mostly because it forms part of his core values and no relationship can work if core values are not the same. So that why logically. Point to notes is virgin guys know the reality of thing so they can sacrifice or make compromise such more easier than women.

So at the day it is yes and no.

[Anonymous]

Yeah you don't want some other guy's castoff or a loose woman who's slept with multiple partners.

[wrightontime]

Damn right!

[mrsticks]

How could you know what a person "secretly" wants. That's impossible.

[wrightontime]

It's easy. She keeps pictures of her ex and intends to keep them forever. She mentions her ex in conversation.

[wrightontime]

Could you be happy with a non virgin girl

[mrsticks]

It's still impossible to measure if "most non-virgin girls" do. I'm asexual, so I couldn't give a shit.

[iFarted]

Sure, but I prefer her not to be. Our sex life would just be easier if she weren't one.

[wrightontime]

You must like being with another mans leftovers.

[iFarted]

Or you're just not very experienced so you feel the need to only have inexperienced partners to cover yourself.

[wrightontime]

I am experienced (5 girls). But is degrading to date another mans leftovers. We can do better.

[iFarted]

I am curious to know why you see them as leftovers...

[wrightontime]

She didn't choose you first you werent good enough. Another guy had to dump her for you to have an opportunity.

[iFarted]

lmao.. wtf... I don't know where you're getting that idea from... Are we supposed to know all the girls in the world? I would NOT date a girl who I pursued and she chose someone else over me... BUT lets say I randomly just met two ladies of equal attraction... one has some experience while the other doesn't.. I'd choose the one with experience.

[wrightontime]

I can agree with your points. I hate girls I already knew and chose someone over me. But I am attracted to strangers.

[iFarted]

Why hate? Why can't you learn to just forget. Not everything in life will go your way...

[wrightontime]

I like to spit in their face for not choosing me first.

[Blade222]

I don't know what your talking about, but I would rather have the non virgin person because they have more experience and they can walk u thought it better than a virgin girl could

[wrightontime]

Fuck that. Why would you want a pussy that another guy stuck his dick in?

[Blade222]

It really doesn't matter in the long run, yes another guy has fucked her but that doesn't have to make her a "slut". She just happens to have had sex with other people (s).

[wrightontime]

That's really fucked up

[Blade222]

It's more "fucked up" that you think it's fucked up

[yp9209]

I will always think about her past

[jamesbarton262]

I was ok with it

[koushikshine]

Because there will be imbalance in thinking and differences in expectation. Thenon virgin who slept around with many will have lot more expectation, which a virgin husband may not be able to fulfil iy instantly. N the virgin will have fear of getting compared withher exes

[71Cuda]

yes he can

[wrightontime]

Have you see. It happen?

[71Cuda]

happened with me. then she left

[wrightontime]

She left?

[CaliToSun]

Woman have way too much confidence in their sexual ability. Take a used car vs a new one for example. Men look at milage too more than women.