Are Women attracted to Men's bodies?

I've heard many women say they dont find men sexually attractive without an emotional connection, so this makes me wonder if it's actually men women desire if they aren't actually sexually attracted to male bodies without this.
This and I've also seen women claim "females are the attractive gender", now this confuses me as a straight male? I definitely find guys attractive but not on a sexual level, so how can girls not like men overally physically yet still say they are attracted to MEN? aren't they more attracted to people who happen to be men?
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  • I'm sure what you're talking about is entirely subjective, but you've touched on a topic that even I, myself, am confused about. For starters, of course straight women are attracted to men's bodies! Though I do have to admit that as a straight woman who is attracted to men, I would tend to agree that I find women as a whole to be the more attractive sex. There's something about women that is just so much more ethereal and inviting. The softness of their voices, the smoothness of their skin, the curves of their bodies, but it's more of an admiration as opposed to attraction.
    Men are incredibly attractive as well, it's just a different type of beauty. I see women's beauty as art in the sense that I don't have to like it to appreciate it. I can admire it, stare at it, and ponder over its beauty, but I don't necessarily want to make it mine.
    That being said, none of this changes the fact that I'm sexually attracted to men. I don't stare at women and get horny, but I do stare at guys and get horny haha. It's more of an objective standpoint, that regardless of sexual orientation and removal of all emotions and attraction, I find women to be more beautiful.
    None of this really makes sense to me, but yes, I think women are more attractive, just not attractive to me personally. Men are sexy as hell. Especially in grey sweatpants.

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    • So you find men more sexually attractive sexually and women more physically? What does this equate to in the real world since girls usually are unable to feel sexual desire or lust without an emotional connection? Or are girls attracted to the way men are attracted and desire them moreso than they desire men themselves?

    • Let me just correct you for a second, women are 100% able to feel sexual desire for men without an emotional attraction. It happens all the time, otherwise there'd be no such thing as one-night stands lol. Women get just as horny as men, just as often. Just because some women consider women to be the more attractive sex, doesn't mean that they don't find men physically appealing. I love broad shoulders, back muscles that can be seen through a shirt, veiny forearms, and for some reason I'm attracted to well-defined calf muscles (? haha). It changes nothing.

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  • I lust at strange guys all the time also tired of seeing questions like this on here, not because we don't flirt with every guy we find sexually attractive doesn't mean that we need and emotional connection I don't nerd that to have sex with a guy but I choose not to.

    • Most women don't seem to be like you in this regard however. the majority of responses conclude women are attracted to the way men lust, desire and adore them moreso than they do the actual guy. Most of the girls say the physicality of a male is more just something that isn't ugly but not a sexually desirable factor.

    • That's a lie where ever you got that from I've heard that from we lust at strange guys all the time but we don't approach them because I have a lot of friends that do this.

  • don't know who you've been talking too, but straight women find men's bodies attractive, different types of bodies for different types of women. I think our brains are wired a little differently, sure. but physical attraction is extremely important to me.

    • judging from most responses, women seem to find attractive men as nice to look at yet nothing more in terms of sexual attraction. So do women really desire men physically or is it just something thats "nice, i guess."

    • Myself, I definitely see men as sexually attractive. Those that I'm attracted to, different body types for different people obviously. I would safely say that all my friends also find men sexually attractive. I desire men. So do lots of other women. they smell different and feel different and look different, some are scruffy others not, some have solid bodies, other not. Men are definitely a desired thing.

  • All of this stuff you believe is about your own personal self-hatred. We keep telling you none of this is true, but here you are again, with the same damned question. Seriously, go see a psychiatrist. We cannot help you.

    • except not everyone is saying the same thing. literally 4 girls here agreed with most of my points...

    • I don't care who agreed. You need new material. You have asked this same question, one way or the other, 1000s of times. You're an annoyance. And I strongly feel you are hoping to hear one certain answer over and over again so that you can fuel a sexual fantasy of being humiliated, so you can masturbate. I wish they'd ban you off this board. You belong on fetlife. com, not a site that is half full of underage people.

    • Except its far from a fetish or something "sexual". Its a genuine concern women only want men for money and power and dont feel as authentic with their emotions toward men.

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  • Women are not purely visual because evolutionary reasons. Us men judge women baselly on their looks because we look for fertility and that has no business with personality. But women need to know your personality noy just looks. Although looks is still important but just doesn't create that much sexual desire much. Because men's strenght don't come from physically only it's personality also. Having strong, manly, confident personality is so important to survive in tough times. If you are good physically but a totally coward, insecure inside you don't have any value still. So women need to see how you act, how you carry yourself, how strong your personality is to be sure. They need to see your masculinity and just a picture can't show that. They need to know you and by that knowing means they have to see how you act. Women aroused movie stars like Chris Hemsworth easily even they don't know him personally. But they know how Chris manly and masculine in videos and movies. Got it?

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  • Of course we find men attractive. Women get crushes ALL The time on men they don't even know a thing about. That is called attraction and we feel it too, just like men do.

    • why do so many women say they don't find men sexually attractive without an emotional connection though? they say "hot" guys are basically just nice to look at but thats it. is this the case with you/ most women you know? if not please expand.

    • Women CAN and DO get aroused by men with or without a emotional connection. Just because we actively aren't going to fuck every guy we find hot doesn't mean we don't feel sexually attracted. Just cause we want to be in a relationship first maybe and then fuck doesn't make us creatures with no sexual attraction.

  • For some women, its not the physical part that matters but the person's personality. For me, I have to be attracted to you and like you as a person (emotional) too. My thing is the guys eyes. To each their own. I also like muscular but not too buff, tall, handsome guys.

    • so you/ other women are never in class or somewhere, see an attractive stranger and feel lust until you get to know them?

    • Some girls are like that but not me. I would say he's cute and that's it. I take time to lust over someone because I want to get to know them too not just focus on the looks

    • I mean i dont snt to focus on looks but biologically i can't help it.

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  • I'm attracted to attractive male bodies.

    As in, in at least decent shape bodies. However that doesn't mean I'll instantly fuck a guy just because he's hot. I don't understand why that bothers so many men. Lol.

    • It bothers men because it shows you aren't sexually attracted to the male body in and of itself.

  • I'm not to particular on a males body. Yeah their body can be appealing factor. But I don't like guys that based on their body type but personality. Your body would get my attention but thats it.

    • judging from most responses, women seem to find attractive men as nice to look at yet nothing more in terms of sexual attraction. So do women really desire men physically or is it just something thats "nice, i guess."

  • *yawn*
    You need new material...

    • why do so many women say they don't find men sexually attractive without an emotional connection though? they say "hot" guys are basically just nice to look at but thats it. is this the case with you/ most women you know? if not please expand.

    • I'm attracted to hot men but could only be in love through a connection with him. Men are beautiful creatures.

  • Bullshit. I first get sexually attracted, then I look at personality

    • As a guy this is the same for me, however most females don't seem to share this mentality. do you know many women like you in this regard?

    • Pretty much all of my friends

    • I've also read dating coaches say in the first 10 seconds, men look at how sexually desirable she is. whereas women look at how successful he looks. would you agree with this in general?

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  • Oh, have no fear- women are attracted to men sexually too. But different women have different tastes in men. And I may like/desire a man's body and thinking of him being naked etc., but it takes an emotional bond for me to hop into a relationship. Others may not.
    I would say your confidence is maybe more important than you looks, tho. Ladies love guys who know what do they want.

    • But are women sexually attracted to the male gender or personalities who happen to be male? basically judging from the responses, it appears women are attracted to attributes of a good provider. This includes masculinity, dominance etc but this seems to also point if a female possessed these traits they would most likely be just as attracted. what do you think?

    • I would say both. But let me rip this into two pieces. Basically we are sexually attracted to the male gender and emotionally attracted to the personality. I can't say any good recipe or a perfect solution to be a lady magnet, because it depends on you and the personality of the woman you want to impress. Women's sexual attraction is not so easy to find out. Sometimes it comes from the need of being protected, yes. Even I don't know what makes me tingle. Sometimes the eyes, sometimes the body, sometimes the way he walks, or talks. How big is his hand and how would it feel on my body... etc But if you have serious plans about a woman, work on her feelings. If she likes you, you have better chances to attract her sexually too. (actually I never got carried away with desire for a man who I wasn't emotionally attached to) I'm not sure though what is your question below? If a female possess the traits of being masculine/dominant but they still seak a dominant male? Most likely

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  • Women are attracted to men physically who've asked this so many times... some need a emotional connection to have sex but this does not mean they don't find them physically attractive to begin with.

    • You've asked*

    • judging from most responses, women seem to find attractive men as nice to look at yet nothing more in terms of sexual attraction. So do women really desire men physically or is it just something thats "nice, i guess."

    • Not wanting to have sex with someone you don't have feelings for doesn't mean you don't find them sexually attractive? that doesn't actually make sense.

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  • I've heard so many women... no you haven't. You've probably read that once and took it as truth. We are sexually attracted to men's bodies. We just are differently wired than men! Most men will fuck anything that moves, women are socially built to try and seek out something more emotionally before putting out.

    • The majority of responses conclude women are attracted to the way men lust, desire and adore them moreso than they do the actual guy. Most of the girls say the physicality of a male is more just something that isn't ugly but not a sexually desirable factor. whats you're opinion on this?

    • You're talking crap is my opinion. I can see from the comments this is not the case.

    • If you need something emotional before wanting sex, how are you sexually attracted to his body? His body doesn't incite lust.

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  • This shit again, grown man boobs and move on.

    • why do so many women say they don't find men sexually attractive without an emotional connection though? they say "hot" guys are basically just nice to look at but thats it. is this the case with you/ most women you know? if not please expand.

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  • I don't find hot male strangers "sexually attractive", they're more like aesthetically pleasing to the eye, if that makes sense.
    Once you get to know them and create that emotional connection, that's when the sexual attractiveness comes in

    • so would you say your not really attracted to "Men" themselves but the personality right? like the actual male gender isn't what your attracted to?

    • In a way yes. I do however feel "drawn" to males in a way I wouldn't get drawn to a hot female. If i see one I'd want to study their face and body (like I said hot males are aesthetically pleasing to the eye) and get close to them physically and getting to know them. But it's not really sexual attraction, more like in "romantic attraction" in a way.

  • men are just hornier than women. women don't look better than men; both look just as good. so yes, women do find men physically attractive. at least most of them do.

    • I'm not debating which is the more attractive gender, i find MANY guy's attractive physically (just not sexually cause im straight) What i meant was straight women seem to say they find the female body more attractive yet the male body more attractive sexually. However girls dont seem to actually be sexually attracted to MEN until an emotional connection. This is what makes me question if its really men women are attracted to or the way men desire women moreso.

    • I know. But you said you see women claim they are the attractive gender, and i'm saying this is bullshit. Both men and women are attractive AESTHETICALLY and (consequently) SEXUALLY (when they are). And no, most women don't need to feel emotinally connected to a man to feel sexually attracted to him. I say this because I am like this and I am sure I'm just like most women.

  • Those women are demisexual.

    • Are most girls/ you demisexual?

    • I don't think so. I'm not

    • Are u attracted to men's bodies?

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  • For me it's more emotional but physical is the initial attraction

    • judging from most responses, women seem to find attractive men as nice to look at yet nothing more in terms of sexual attraction. So do women really desire men physically or is it just something thats "nice, i guess."

    • Of course they desire men physically but physically attraction and mental attraction are closely linked

  • No we definitely are attracted. It is just that we are evolutionary wired not to get to attached or approach a guy based solely on his looks without forming an emotional connection first and feeling safe around him.

    • The majority of responses conclude women are attracted to the way men lust, desire and adore them moreso than they do the actual guy. Most of the girls say the physicality of a male is more just something that isn't ugly but not a sexually desirable factor. whats you're opinion on this?

  • obviously yes

    • judging from most responses, women seem to find attractive men as nice to look at yet nothing more in terms of sexual attraction. So do women really desire men physically or is it just something thats "nice, i guess."

  • If a guy is ugly-then maybe its true... But if he have a good model alike body-its very attractive

    • The majority of responses conclude women are attracted to the way men lust, desire and adore them moreso than they do the actual guy. Most of the girls say the physicality of a male is more just something that isn't ugly but not a sexually desirable factor. what do you think?