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Sex before marriage or Sex after marriage?

Which one you prefer? Is sex before marriage is wrong? Comment please
Sex before marriage or Sex after marriage??
Sex before marrige
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Sex after marriage
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Virgin Forever (Forever alone, My hand/finger is my sex partner)
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Sex after marriage, here is why.
    1. It promotes good communication in dating. When a couple practices abstinence, their communication is good because they are not just focused on pleasure but on the joy of sharing their views and experiences; moreover, their conversations are deeper. By contrast, physical intimacy is an easy way to relate, but it overshadows other forms of communication. It is a way of avoiding the real work involved in emotional intimacy, like talking about deep personal issues and working on the basic differences between the two of you.

    2. The friendship in your relationship grows. Physical closeness can lead teenagers think they are emotionally close, when in fact they are not. A romantic relationship essentially consists in cultivating a friendship, and there is no friendship without conversation and shared interests. Personal conversation creates friendships and helps us to discover one another and get to know the other’s qualities and flaws. Some young people are driven by passion, and when they get to know each other more deeply, they end up disenchanted. And they did not get to know each other because they never got to be friends; instead, they were "friends with benefits."

    3. There is a better relationship with both sets of parents. When men and women respect each other, their love matures and improves their friendship with both sets of parents. Generally, parents prefer their unmarried children to live lives of sexual continence, and they are concerned if they know their children are sexually active without being married. When a couple knows they have to hide their sexual relations, their guilt and stress grow. Couples who decide to wait relate more amicably with their own parents and with their beloved’s parents.

    4. You feel more free to question whether you should continue the relationship. Sexual relationships have the power to strongly unite two people, and can prolong an unhealthy relationship based on physical attraction or the need for security. A person may feel "trapped" in a relationship that they would like to end, but they can’t find their way out. A person who is not having sex can more easily break the emotional bond to the other, because there has not been such powerful intimacy on the physical level. Moreover, if the woman gets pregnant, both partners do not feel as free to decide to get separated, get married, go to work, and so on.

    • 5. It encourages generosity instead of selfishness. Sexual relations in dating can lead to selfishness and a focus on self-satisfaction. They can lead people to feel like they are competing with others whom their partner may find more attractive. It fosters insecurity and selfishness, because when you get sexually intimate, the tendency is to ask for more and more. 6. There is less risk of physical or verbal abuse. Sex outside of marriage is associated with violence and other forms of abuse. For example, there is more than twice the physical aggression among couples living together without any commitment than among married couples. There is less jealousy and less selfishness in dating couples who decide to postpone sexual activity than in those who are driven by passion

    • It increases the repertoire of ways to show affection. The couple who practices abstinence finds new ways to show affection; they must use inventiveness and ingenuity to have a good time and to demonstrate their interest in each other. The relationship becomes stronger as they have more opportunities to get to know each other’s character and habits, and learn the ways to maintain the relationship. 8. The couple is more likely to succeed in marriage. Research has shown that couples who have cohabited are more likely to divorce than those who have not cohabited. 9. If you decide to break off the relationship, it will hurt less. The ties that sexual activity forms bind us strongly to the other person, so if there is a break-up, the resulting pain is more intense. When you have not been physically intimate and decide to break up, the separation is less devastating.

    • 10. Most importantly, you’ll feel better about yourself. Sexually active adolescents often lose their self-esteem and admit that they live with guilt. When they decide to let go of physical intimacy, they feel new and grow as people. They enhance their intellectual, artistic, and social potential as they put all that creative energy into developing their talents.

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  • I don't think there's a wrong or right, people can do what they want/believe is best. I personally wouldn't wait, especially since I don't necessarily want to marry lol

    • appreciate your thoughts

  • I won't marry until maybe 28-30, the same as many people. So no way is it sensible to wait until then to enjoy sex.

    • Haha.. Right

    • Are you waiting?

    • I'm not waiting but I just had a breakup

  • before, during and after is best answer i have

    • haha.. right

Most Helpful Guys

  • I prefer sex before marriage as I believe sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship

    • Appreciate your thoughts

  • It certainly is advised to do it after marriage. But where is the fun in that? lol

    • lol 😂

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I used to say after marriage, because I am religious. But then I met A guy... and I am not sure anymore. :"D

    • lmao xxx

  • I am an Indian and I think you are too... and I prefer sex after marriage...😊 , cause then there is a a meaning in being marriage... personally I don't care what others do unless you are my crush , wife , family, or friend I don't care , but for them I definitely demand sex after marriage , even my friends I won't let them do it

    • you sound like a control freak..

    • 😂 actually it might be a problem for you American but , actually my state is still maintaining its traditional culture and they don't care about it , in my state , even kissing in street can lead to prison...😂 so I suppose, you can't say that I am a control freak...😂 I am keeping my tradition... and 90% of people here maintain it...

    • actually my best friend is indian. she is punjabi. she has had sex with 9 guys so far and she has one night stands so not every indians are like that

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  • Sex At 16

    • Lmao

    • Lol I prefer after marriage

    • okay

  • Before

    • Cool

  • before

    • Appreciate

  • before marriage

    • Appreciate

  • I hope you don't mean you have to choose between having sex before marriage, or sex after marriage?
    Sex before marriage isn't wrong. It's a controlling, church ordained, dogma, that takes no account of human beings feelings, needs, or desires.

    • What a brave can of wee wee sarath is, he just blocked me.

  • I prefer sex after marriage for personal and religious reasons.

    • Appreciate

    • thank ya.

  • no it isn't as long as you love that person

    • Can u elaborate

    • where is the problem if you have a sex before marriage. with a guy you love? Love time after time evolves and actually it is probably positive that you share your feelings for a person when you needed the most, when it feels right to you. And I not talking about 15 guys otherwise it wouldn't be love just plain sex. if you fall in love with a guy and stay with him for a long period of time and you want to share your body and your mind with him? He can also be your husband in the future to be fair. As long as sex is done not to pleasure the body but to achieve even a more "supreme" love with your partner... where is the problem? Nowadays a lot of marriage end up after 5 years or something. Go for it when it feels right with a person you love not because of social pressure about it. Plus if you marry a guy who wants you as a wife only if you're a virgin... omg. But I guess those are cultural differences.

    • Great explanation :)

  • No thank you. I do not want to marry someone if I do not even know if we will be sexually compatible or not.

    • Alright

  • after, it's DUTY to do it after otherwise it's not marriage

    • okay

  • i can never marry someone unless if i know how they are in the bedroom. sex after marriage is a major deal breaker

    • Appreciate 👍

  • before marriage

    • Fair enough

  • I've never married but I've had sex.

  • before marriage... experience matters😂

    • lmao.. yes

    • otherwise both will think.. what to do next.. lol

    • yeah lol

  • I prefer after marriage

    • okay

  • After marriage.

  • I did it before.

  • After marriage

  • How about sex whenever we decide to do it, and no marriage ever?

    • My dream.. lol

    • Haha I know right?

    • yeah 👌

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