My girlfriend is studying abroad for four months, in London. She gave me two options. 1. Stay together (long distance relationship) 2. Take a break?

We've been dating for two years now. I encouraged my girl to study abroad because I felt like she would like it. She told me that if I choose to stay together in a LDR she will stay loyal the whole way, but if I choose to take a break, while she's away she will have a couple of hookups over there, since we're not going to be together as a couple.
I'll have my own fun here at home, but I don't believe I'm not as confident and good looking as she is. I feel like at MOST I'll be able to get laid once or not at all and SHE will probably at LEAST get laid once. My logic in that is that girls can pretty much have sex whenever they want with almost whoever they want as long as they show some cleavage or wear really tight pants and have a decent face, while us guys don't have such a high success rate on hooking up. I know it's not always like that, but let's be honest if a girl has a nice ass and tits and an ugly face she can still hookup with just about any guy. My girlfriend is cute and I'm pretty sure she won't have any trouble finding a guy to get it on with.
She also said that once she comes back from London and I still want to be with her, we can get back together as a couple if I choose to take a break or if I don't we can just stay as friends or friends with benefits Don't get me wrong she's not a slut, we both lost our virginity to each other and she's never cheated on me. I know she loves me dearly by the way she treats me. She's my first and only girlfriend. She's had other boyfriends before me. Part of me wants to take a break because I do want to mess around. Since I'm still young and I don't want to get tied down yet and I'm sure she feels the same way, but my gut drops whenever I think that my only girlfriend is out there sucking some other guys dick and getting dicked down while I'm here just on my own trying to get some, but can't. I would just feel like a chump. Sorry if this is long and confusing. What would you do in this situation? Her mind is already set to go.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Stay together. A break and hook ups would only create conflicts, jealousy, hurt feelings and what not. There is absolutely no reason to take a "break". Honestly I don't even understand how any of you can even consider it if you truly love each other... Disgusting.

Most Helpful Guy

  • why break up.
    sounds like she wants to hook up. maybe you should consider a new girl

    • This.

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