Are you a big girl who demands "big" D?

I got rejected over my size for the 3rd time this month. on a dating site Im on. i have a hidden pic they can request. I leave it up because I want to quickly weed out size queens. its obvious thats what it is so if you request it then see it and I get any vibe that you think 5.5 inches long and 5.25 inches around is too small I can block you. one thing I've noticed is almost all the girls that have rejected me over it were fat. now I live in TN so there are just a, lot of fat people here but this is disproportionate. my theory is that either fat girls really need more dick because in positions like doggystyle I have to go through 5 inches of fat to get inside you plus you most likely have fat around your pussy thus creating a further barrier. or maybe since they are not desired they attempt to turn it around and make it seem they are very picky about dick size. so its a defense mechanism. what are your thoughts. no manhating trolls need to comment and please not I am not hating on bigger women Its just a trend I've noticed.
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Also if I invited you to this question it does not mean I think you're a big girl. I literally invited all my friends to get some answers coming in. Or maybe you've talked to a bigger girl and they told you this.
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  • lol i like your theory about why big women prefer big dicks it made me laugh but anyway your size sounds fine to me and i dont think having information about your dick up on the site is wise. Its best if u find a girl date her for a while and if u guys have mutual attraction and stuff im sure she won't worry about size. Those girls that rejected u were probably only curious about a steamy hookup which u r not looking for i guess. So dont feel anyway about it because i dont see anything wrong with your size and my friends would agree with me too cause we discussed this lol

    • i was looking exactly for that. If someone would reject me for a hookup thats even more insulting.

    • but your size sounds fine to me i swear! I dont know those girls rejected you maybe its about something else

    • One was like "oh that sucks ill probably never be able to feel it but my boyfriend was like 5 and I never felt his but we fucked for 6 years" fuck that if im going to date you need to love my dick.

  • Seriously, I didn't know girls cared. I know that we'll giggle and awe over the idea of a really big one byt I never thought it really mattered. As long as it's bigger than 4 on a stag I think you're good to go.
    I think it's defence.
    I notice that less alpha type guys tend to be super picky about women, and they grow a hatred towards women.
    I suppose it's the same thing with bigger women.
    It's understandable, really. If you have been ridiculed by the opposite sex for your appearance, you will start to hate them and become hyper critical of them, too.

    • yeah. I know plenty of "alpha" type guys that dislike women. those guys get to see the worst side of women they get to fuck cheating wives. they get more women so naturallu they will experience more bullshit etc...

    • That's true I suppose. But on the same hand, you've got to think about what type of woman these alphas are screwing. Usually the type that's down for lots of uncommitted sex and, yeah, cheaters. Women that are ready to jump into bed with a flash of muscle and cash. Now I'm not saying women should be closed-legged virgins. But there's a line, if you know what I'm saying? For both men and women. And because these alphas don't usually have to try much, they're not usually bothered to pit in the work that will let them experience a girl with morals. Again, I'm not against women having pre-marital sex. I say this before anyone wants to attack me. But I just don't think that if you're dropping your trousers or panties for anything that comes your way, that you deserve a decent partner.

    • Im very in between alpha and beta it depends on the qualities considered. But that is my problem im relatively good looking so I can get laid pretty easy what happened today really threw me off. Its part of why I may have such a negative perception im not even trying to find a nice girl im just fucking whores. And in turn my idea of the "average" girl may be tainted. But I don't know no offense but y'all are just scandalous.

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  • Oh cmon you're asking about this again? Also , why chase after fat women if you've noticed that they all reject you because of the size?

    • Nope never asked this before. Also because on thise hookup apps im mainly just looking for an easy bj. And bigger girls tend to give better head sooner. Just like they say we eat pussy better. Dont get offended if you're a bigger girl thats noy the point of this post im really trying to figutr what it is.

    • Hmm ok maybe I did message you about something similar I just read it. Well Im looking for an answer

    • Since you're searching for a big girl , there's plenty of apps for women who are plus sized looking for men. Im sure not 100% of them need a super big size. Lol best of luck.

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  • I have never measured anyone but I do glance or feel it. I kind of prefer a longer one maybe-but if you stay in without having to keep holding it in then you are big enough. Having your hands free to do other things is what makes it good

  • I'm not a bigger girl and I haven't noticed any of my friends demanding big dicks. I think you're good as long as you can hit the important places.

  • I think one cannot say for certain. People are different. Maybe having an average size penis is not going to work for some plus size women but there are some plus size women who won't mind. There are barriers to having sex with a plus sized person but nothing that can't be worked around if you really want to be with the person.

    • Na I don't wanna be with a plus sized person Im not on that site to be with anyone

    • Not be with them in a relationship so to speak. I mean if two people really want the sex to happen they will find way to have sex.

    • Oh well if she doesn't like it I don't even want a bj from her.

  • I think you were just really unlucky. I have very few friends that care about size and I can't see any realtion between the body type of the girl and her penis size preference.
    Did they specific say that it was about your size or are you guessing?

    • Yes they did

  • Not all girls care about this. acting like they do is u making a pathetic excuse on y u can't get laid

    • And I don't mean that n a mean way. I jist think it's stupid to assume all girls or bigger girls think that. when its probably not the case half the time u can't get a girl

    • Umm actually no read the story they requested the pic within a few messages. Its fairly obvious why its there. Its obvious its a dick pic so i put it there to weed out whores. I never said all women care demand a big one. Nice try though. And you are trying to be mean and I get laid just fine which is why it catches me off gaurd when im rejected over having a size 50% of the population has or is below. Eitger contribute to my questions or don't answer at all but dont just talk shit.

    • u literally just told the navy chick for yoir first sentence to her that all bigger women care. 😑 so that wasn't a nice try of me, u literally said it

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  • I don't demand it. That's like a guy demanding my vagina looked a certain way. All I care about is how he can perform in bed and that has nothing to do with dick size

  • I'm the opposite of a big girl and I don't care about size.

    However, being around lots of men, like brothers, cousins, guy friends, predominantly male patrons at bars I worked at, it's pretty sad I guess how many guys are willing to fuck fat women just because they tend to 'be easier" or more "happy" from male attention.
    Not sure if it's true, and obviously doesn't apply to ALL big women, but they do seem to notice that larger women are more likely to be size queens than thin women.

    • I will honestly never be able to have sex with someone I'm not attracted to physically and I was shocked to find out how many men are willing to just to get a nut lol I'd rather wait forever...

    • for head thats generally the case but she can't be FAT. like fat fat and she has to have a pretty face.

    • Eh. Many guys don't even care as long as she sucks him off

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  • I'm plus sized but I'm indifferent tbh. Not all of us care about that.

    • You all do. Its just a matter of how much will you compensate if a guy is less than what you want. Just like a guy who's 9 is gonna be too big for you. Im referring to women who think they need more than average to get off they almost always seem to be chubby at least.

    • I get your point and I'm sorry that you were treated that way however it's not fair to generalize all of us like that but do what you will. I get that it's discouraging but to accuse all of us of being like those women is only going to hinder you even more.

    • I meant its a trend not an accusation. stereotype at best.

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  • I'm not big, so I couldn't tell you what bigger women want. I'm fine with average-size cocks, though.

    • Well. maybe you dont have 4 inches of ass to push through. Makes sense.

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