What are the benefits of a big dick?

[Anonymous]

I'm asking this as a virgin. What are the benefits of having AND/OR receiving a larger than average penis?

[Intraluminal]

The benefits of having a big dick, to the guy, is bragging rights. "My dick is bigger than yours!"

The benefits of a big dick to a girl, is visual impact. The old, "it's bigger, it must be better." There *may* be some bragging rights benefits, "My boyfriend's dick is 9 inches long." There's also the benefit that, if you have a larger vagina, a larger dick will fill it better. Another benefit is that some girls really enjoy being "stretched" done there, so a big dick will do that. A third thing is that during intercourse, a woman gets more stimulation from the G spot, and a big dick will rub against that better than a small one. Of course, there is a "point of diminishing returns" after which a dick just toooo big.

[Intraluminal]

Oh. Forgot one other benefit for the guy. There are some girls, colloquially called "size queens" that just love big dicks, the bigger the better. If you have a big dick, you get almost automatic sex with these girls.

[Asker]

So what would you say are the negatives?

[Intraluminal]

Just the obvious ones. If your dick is too big, a large number of girls will find it uncomfortable, either initially, or over time, causing them to avoid intimacy, which will ultimately destroy a relationship. Also (I guess, because this isn't my problem lol) your dick will dip into the toilet bowl and get wet.

[Intraluminal]

I should add, that big dicks are (or used to be at least) worshipped in the gay community.

[Asker]

What would you say for a virgin female who is with someone with a big dick? More of a positive or negative?

[Intraluminal]

Are you submissive?

[Intraluminal]

Do you like a little pain with your pleasure? I would say overall, if I were a female virgin, my first choice would be to have my first experience be meaningful to me, it's all about the who, and less about the what. If I just wanted to get rid of my virginity, I'd choose experience and caring over size.

[Asker]

I really don't know? I know any first experience should have meaning. It's just whether or not with someone who has 'such equipment' will hinder the experience...

[Intraluminal]

Well, how big is he?

[Intraluminal]

Is he a caring, thinking person or a jock type? Is he experienced?

[Asker]

Idk? I just know over average, he seems caring and is experienced

[Intraluminal]

How do you feel about him? Is this guy the guy you want to remember?

[Asker]

I need to get to know him better before anything happens.

[Intraluminal]

If he's a thoughtful person, he'll do what he needs to do to make your first time good. Good luck!

[Asker]

Thank you, you've been very helpful

[Intraluminal]

Anytime.

[Soteris]

I guess there is the "wow" factor and basic appearance but from a performance standpoint if its big within reason then its not really any difference although it could be problematic if its too large.

What makes for good sex is performance and not equipment.

[LeleBR]

Really depends on what you like. You'll have to try and learn it yourself.

[Bloopman]

It's mostly personal preference. Some women like bigger dicks, some don't care, and some women do not like large ones.

[godfatherfan]

women like you more. No guy in the history of penises believes any woman that says "size doesn't matter". although I would not want some 12 inch monster since women vagina's are not that deep and I wouldn't get to pound away.

[DarkHumorRUs]

Having? Pretty much just more self confidence.

[NJ_Casanova]

1. It depends on what you consider big?
2. what sizes you are comparing?
3. Most people talk length only... when Girth has more of an impact on pleasure and especially pain.

[Asker]

I've heard the average is 5-6" so I guess bigger than that? And in general I guess...

[NJ_Casanova]

Well it depends on where you live... World avg. is 5.16"L and 4.6" in girth Most countries fall in the 5<6" range (65% or so) Most girls can get pleasure with 5<7" long... girth is more important as it is the main cause of pain. The only medical study done said 4.9<5" girth was ideal... most polls I've seen back that up. If you are comparing avg. to an "above avg" - 6.5"L by 5"G (which is basically Ideal size) then the bigger is better. Over 7<8" in length is a waste... the extra inches aren't used as he won't be able to go "balls deep on 99% of girls". The one magazine poll done I've seen... said 95% of the women would take more girth over more length. Girth = friction intensity... if it doesn't cause pain. It's the same as guys wanting a "Tight girl". Young girls will usually have a problem once the guy is over 5.25"G... then same size as a toilet paper tube. Foreplay and lube are essential at that point.

[NJ_Casanova]

I've never been with a virgin, But I had a girl I was never able to have sex with... just too tight/small. I've had a couple Milfs that even had pain when initially having sex... due to my girth. It really comes down to you body and what your range is. Going from a guy 4.6" in girth (avg.) to a guy 5.5" in girth... will give more of an impact (OMG he's big) than an avg 5.16"L to 6"L which is almost the same increase. Guys always want to be 8+" L and the fact is it's not what 9 out of 10 women would prefer or want. I actually read a post form a guy that was a good size 7"L by 5.5" G and a great sex life (but had insecurities still) . So he decided to use a penis pump and get thicker... then his sex life went to shit because his girlfriend didn't enjoy it.

[evenlift]

Mine can lift me off the ground like a helicopter.

[JoyGirl]

The bigger the D, the better, I guess.

[koreanbfinnewyrk]

more postions more to suck and more to love

[HRein]

Well Imma shoow you tday!

[maresboyfriend]

NONE. Women's sexual arousal and feelings for men are determined by his salary, and absolutely nothing more.

[Gopzz]

girls could get more pleasure from a man with a big dick and knows how to play with it. The possibility of hitting/rubbing ur g-spot increases and thus a better orgasm and more fun..

[Regular1]

Envy from other guys in the locker room.

[arsenalfan01]

it gives you more pleasure when it goes in.

[Craig26]

whats big to u?

[Asker]

Well on here I've heard 5-6" is average so over?

[Craig26]

i, m just under 7

[Asker]

I was asking what benefits you find having a larger than average dick has not how big yours is

[Craig26]

guess u get a nice reaction when the girl feels/sees it first time

[Nahid1234]

i think the girl will be happy haha

[mT2359]

None. Just stamina and how you use whatever God has given you to satisfy your partner, that matters in the end.

[LastNightmare]

bigger the better.. it's same like getting mini pizzas - larger pizza.. contentment
small ice cream cone -giant ice cream cone... more flavor
pistol - M32.. better range n quality

[independentman]

Just more length and probably painful sex if your vagina is smaller then his.
Also take in account deepthroat can be difficult too
Some girls like this guess you're one of them

[Asker]

Virgin... I have no idea what I like

[independentman]

Damn you can see images like a guy can see boobs images hmm is that hard? I like medium or small boobs and I am a virgin, if you put to the side one oral sex i gave..

[Bloopman]

Dude, she's talking about experiencing, not looking at. Ask somebody which fruit they like to eat most of they've never eaten fruit. They won't know, because they've never eaten fruit.

[Asker]

Yeah @Bloopman That's what I meant

[independentman]

@Bloopman So in my case I also don't know what I want. Ok thank you for telling me

[independentman]

@asker I am sorry my bad, I intrepret that in a different way. Can I receive forgiveness?

[Asker]

Of course! Don't be daft, I'm usually the one who gets confused

[independentman]

Ok thank you

[mars2117]

I think there is not really benefits. The only one benefit that I can see is : In front of a woman, it helps to have self-confidence

[Snyxthetics]

it can be a mental kicker for girls, and fucking the mind is never wrong. he gotta be more careful though to not hurting u. some girls like the "filled out" thing that obv. only D at bigger sizes provide.

technically most D can provide orgasms though, I don't know

[eagle1951]

beats the heck out of me.

[chuy10]

reaches further inside