Adding another female body into the mix would enhance the experience for me. Adding another male body reduces it. I'm not saying it's fair, but that's just how I feel. My wife (unfortunately) feels the same way about adding another female body as I feel about adding another male one. I can't complain, because that would be unfair.
Even with porn, I prefer to watch a lesbian (or solo) scene for many reasons. When watching a M/F sex scene, I prefer when the featured dick is similar to my own and I'm focusing on her being penetrated. At most, I'm trying to put myself into the guy's mind (experiencing what he is), which I certainly wouldn't need to do if there were actually another guy having sex with the same girl that I am.
Honestly, before dating my wife, my buddy and I were given some pretty big signals from a girl whose house we were at (nobody else was there) that we could take things all the way together. Though, for a brief second it seemed like a cool idea to be high-fiving a good friend while being in opposite ends of the same girl, we both knew that wasn't how we would feel in the actual moment. We joke about how we "totally could have done a three-way with xxxx," but neither of us regrets passing on it.
I don't know if you can really call that a double standard, unless guys outside of the threesome have a problem with your 2 dude threesome, but those same guys have no problem with your guy and another girl in a threesome. Because they apply a different standard.
But for people within the relationship it's not the same thing. If he doesn't want another guy there, then that's his personal hangup. If you're okay with another girl, then that's not a hangup. If you're not cool with another girl and he talks you into it, but will not consider another guy. THEN that's a double standard. It's all about where you both are at sexually. Many women are open to doing sexual acts with other women, while straight men just aren't the VAST majority of the time and if they are... probably gay lol.
OK, I get what you're saying - until the last sentence, lol If they're both having sex with a girl, it's NOT gay...
Lol, I was referring to doing sexual acts with the same sex in that last part. Like a girl kissing a girl. Straight guys aren't open to kissing other dudes, unless they're gay the vast majority of the time.
I don't know about most women opening up to sex with another woman. Personally, the touch of being naked with another woman grosses me.
I believe it is because society is not so accepting of two guy homosexuals. Everyone is more okay with two girls kissing and holding hands etc. Gays are still shunned. Also, guys are not okay with being around another naked guy (heterosexuals.) They might see it as gay.
We girls are more okay with it because we help other friends dress, see them naked at the gym etc
Its every guys fantasy to have two girls at the same time.
I was asked to be in a threesome but I didn't want to. One because its a guy I'm with and I don't like sharing. If you are single go ahead and do what you want. If you are in a relationship, it will destroy it.
just because two guys in a three-way with a single female. does not make them homosexual. for that to be true then since I fucked the last girl i fucked every guy after me is a homo? just because this cock got her before him?
@IamJohntheGoat I meant they wouldn't want to touch the other guy in the three way. In a MMF threeway, guys stay away and just screw the girl. They don't kiss or play with the other guy because it's viewed as homosexual. For girls, in a FFM three way, the girls make out and okay with each other but aren't called lesbian. It's just sex. It's viewed as something hot to guys
Play * not okay
Because being in the room with another penis means you will turn gay, and if you turn gay, that's almost as bad as being a woman. Women can be gay though, because they are lower beings and they can't help it. /s
100% gospel truth, lol
where did you come up with the "girls are lower beings thing?". Is it so prevalent that women are still viewed as second class? some day everyone will agree that women are not the weaker sex
I enjoy fucking two guys at once, but I don't want another woman anywhere near either of them. I'm very lucky that my hubby is OK with that arrangement.
Lol , So you have double standards? It is unfair !!
@hero-hero I guess to a degree it is. I think it's more of a double standard when a guy pressures his girlfriend into doing it with another girl, all the while refusing to do it the other way around.
I agree? But sorry i need to ask.. how come you are ok to be with another guy and you don't want your husband to be with another girl?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!This is not a double standard. You are basically asking why guys want to have sex with women and not men. Whether they want to have sex with one woman, or two, or ten, it's still having sex with women.
I've have done a male male me threesome. It was okay. My favorite is me and make and girl. Woman are so sexy 💕
Most girls are straight girls are attracted to men not women
@Brah63926 I'm bisexual and I love them both
Your a skank lmao
Men find two females together a beautiful sexy thing. It's a big fantasy for a lot of men. I know from experience when I was young that it's not near as good as the fantasy. I'm sure many will tell you it's wonderful. Men and many women have no interest in seeing man on man sex. Women tend to view a threesome with two women as a better threesome as well. Most people are not into sex that is just an entertainment thing. I'm talking about mature men and women.
I actually have no interest in seeing same gender sex couples whether is two women or two men having sex.
@Vesuvius87 Good for you. I'll never understand a man or woman wanting their partner to have sex with another person. That shows the person has no respect for themselves as well no respect for their SO.
Women do not prefer a threesome with 2 women.. Unless they're actually attracted to women. I would find a MMF threesome wayyyy more attractive than a FFM.
Because straight men are not sexually aroused by the thought of another naked man? Also, most men do like to share, but it's an ego boost to think that two women would do him together, that they would share for his enjoyment.
I'm in an open relationship, and even I'm not into this. It's on thing to have someone all to yourself behind closed doors, but another matter entirely watching the person you do that with, doing it to someone else literally in front of you.
Righttttttttt. The guys I've been with are open to the idea of a threesome when single, but when I say I am open to the same-they are repulsed. C'mon guys. Reminds of the Dave Chapelle skit.
I know, right, lol?
because some men beleave that one man should be enough for one woman, and this makes them feel inadequate, me personally went out with some real barbie slut years ago and this girl could fuck, she could eat 20 men for breakfast, 100 men for lunch and a 1000 men for supper. She became manager of mcdonalds in no time.
Shame on you people for your immoral acts. Just because you can does not mean it is acceptable or should be toyed with. Sexual activities are wonderful consummations for a committed marriage relationship between wife and husband. One of the end results is the creation of posterity, should things happen properly. If your intent is just for self gratification, then you may get what you seek, but will most likely loose the respect, integrity, and trustworthiness for a true committed relationship. If you think I'm backing religious concepts here, that's your problem. My perspective is only to promote the better way to live life to its fullest, which seems to be degraded by doing any sexual intercourse for any purpose or activity outside of marriage. True loving can bring you that peace of mind, confidence, and outlook that is goal worthy in bettering all relationships.
I have zero desire to see a girl I'm in a relationship (and most likely in love with) being plowed right in front of me. I also have no intention to be with someone else while being in a relationship even if she's OK with it. I'd say that's a fair deal. In fact any form of [insert number]-somes is a big red flag for me and a potential deal breaker.
I am not down for any threesomes. This is just an excuse for a guy to bang another chick in a way that he can say he wasn't cheating.
seems kind of obvious why... most guys are into women. they are attracted to and turned on by women and thus are not turned on or attracted to men. so a threesome involving a second guy involves a person that would potentially turn them off whereas two women in the threesome will turn them on perhaps twice as much
it's not really a double standard
I personally don't want to have a threesome, but if I did I'd be open to both.
Because women are dumb enough to allow it.
Probably most guys love the thought of more pussy than more cock.
Just haven't met the right guys, lol :-)
1) , no guy wants to be around another dick.
2) no way in hell I am sticking my cock into another guys cum. A dick you can just wipe off. You can't clean out and scrape clean a pussy.
3) 3somes are just disgusting. I have no desire to be with 2 women at the same time. i had 1 chance when I was in the military and I turned it down.
If I wanted a ffm threesome (not saying I would) then I would expect my partner (if and when I have one) two expect us to have a mmf threesome. And to be honest I wouldn't care, maybe even if I wanted to, I could experiment, but I would be extremely hard pressed to experiment.
I think both are fairly disgusting tbh.
Lol. Same debate I have with my boyfriend. I have a huge mfm fantasy. My boyfriend of course wants me and another girl. But I just can't with the boobs and the vagina and no thanks. It doesn't tickle me like a man does.
I feel like guys just expect us to be sexually open because we are naturally open people.
Hadn't thought of it that way - how do you mean?
Like, in general, we don't mind touching our gal pals in ways guys would never touch each other. We don't mind hugging, looking at each others butts to make sure it looks good, kisses on the cheek, cuddling each other. And I am saying this is just in general, because personally I don't feel comfortable except for the hugging part. Men generally communicate by handshakes and gestures.
I understand, yeah.
maybe it seems a little bit gay. Or perhaps it's the smell? I don't honestly know. Personally, I'd rather have an MMF with a girl who was into it, than an MFF with two girls who were not.
Unless you're talking about while in a relationship? In that case each person has their own tolerance for how 'open' the relationship can be. If the girl doesn't mind her boyfriend poking other girls right in front of her, that's up to her. It doesn't meand the guy automatically won't mind other guys poking his girlfriend right in front of him.
It's not a double standard. If you're not into guys, it's normal you don't want to do a threesome with another guy
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