How do I make my boyfriend stop asking for anal?

he won't stop asking. I mean it isn't like he's hounding me every day but like... his birthdays coming up and when I ask him what he wants he says "anal" when we're having sex he tries to play with my ass, he's even tried to eat my ass and I just want him to stop. How do I get this through to him?
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  • Why not give that to him for his birthday? It took me 3 years of hounding my wife for anal before she finally let me try it. We did it in the shower first time. She turned around while I was washing her, looked me into the eyes and said in a really sexy way "why don't you get the lube and fuck me in the ass". it was like a cartoon, my eyes bugged out and my jaw hit the floor lol. I jumped out and got the lube. It was awesome. and she ended up LOVING it.
    from then on, I would finger her ass when I was eating her out or when she was sucking my cock. Or we would do anal about 1 every month or two. she would usually ask. Just keep in mind that it can take many tries to find a position that doesn't hurt you. It always seemed that if she told me to fuck her in the ass when we were in the middle of things, already hot and heavy, like when I was eating her out, it worked perfect first time. If we planned on anal, it took several tries. be patient and lots and lots of lube.

    • I'm not doing anal.

  • Well if you like it when he plays with your ass, let him, but I understand if you don't. To get him to stop, every time he asks, just say only if you can give him anal first. Also when he plays with your ass, play with his.

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  • I had a boyfriend like that. It was like he was obsessed with it. I finally couldnt take it anymore and dumped him. I read one time that its suppose to be a male's way of proving their dominance over another. I dont know. Its up to you. Its your ass not his.

  • Just tell him you aren't comfortable, there's something called consent. If he doesn't listen, then u may need to reconsider if he is worth it, because he should respect u... why stay with someone that insists on you doing something u don't want to do?

  • It seems to me that he won't ever stop asking. You can either do it, tell him that it's NEVER going to happen or break up if he gets too annoying

  • Agree to do anal, but make sure you have a vindaloo the day before.

    • ... what is that.

    • It's an indian curry, usually recognised as being one of the hotter ones.

    • Is she gana wanna shit throught the whole experiance then?

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  • I'm afraid he'll never stop. This is an incompatibility that isn't going to be resolved.

    You have three options:
    1. Give in and let him have anal.
    2. Go find another guy that is against anal or who has no opinion.
    3. Put up with him asking.

  • I understand not wanting anal sex.

    But gurrrrrrl how can you reject a guy for licking your ass.. that stuff feels good *-*

    • That's disgusting.

    • Do you let him go down on you?

    • Yeah I knew it was gonna come to this. Licking a vagina and licking an asshole are two totally different things.

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  • It sounds like the two of you aren't sexually compatible. He wants to try different things and you want things to be a little more vanilla.

    You're not gonna start wanting to do what he likes and he's not gonna stop wanting it.

    Your relationship may have gone as far as its going to.

  • If he isn't listening to you telling him no thats a big issue.

  • I am an Indian and I haven't heard of it 😅

    • oh man this app is buggy sometimes it was meant as a reply lol

    • Lmfao happens to me all the time

    • yeah 1st reply is put as an opinion. One post had a serious question, I wanted to say lmao to one's opinion coz he was an ass but it went as my own opinion. Poor guy thought I was laughing at his situation, the app made an ass out of me 😅

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  • tell him straight up he will never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever put his dick inside your butthole

  • Tell him you'll do it if you can peg him with a dildo as big as his dick is first lol

  • Either you give him ass or you accept you are not as sexually compatible as you thought.

  • tell him straight up it's not going to happen

  • tell him it hurts way too much and its never going to happen, if he can't understand that maybe dump him

  • Honestly he won't stop! You should try to talk about this with him that's all i can say now

  • Ask him for Anal. Tell him if you want my ass I get yours. That will shut him up real fast🤣

  • Talk to him about it and explain why doing anal isn't good for your relationship and that you feel you're pressured to do it to get his affection. And if all else fails purchase a fake penis and shove it up his ass saying "how does that feel bruh"

  • Give him anal. Actually that wouldn't make him stop...

    • 😒😒😒

  • you give him anal. you dont ask for soemthing you get.

  • fart in his face when he tries to eat your ass.

  • Let him penetrate your anus

  • Tell him to stay away from porn. If he doesn't stay away from porn then tell him to turn gay.

  • if being direct doesn't work, maybe breaking up with him will.

  • dump his ass if you've made yourself clear he should respect your choice and not pressure you why would you want you to do something you don't want to do what kind of person does that

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