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I felt nothing when I kissed my crush of 5 years. Why?

Hi,

I have been in love with this guy for 5 years but he was married. We are very good friends. Now, he is divorced and we went out the other night. Suddenly, he kissed me (french kiss) and things got sexual (no intercourse) and he kissed me a lot during the sexual contact. I am very attracted to him.
He knows what to do to a woman -he kisses very well and he knows how to touch. I can't wait to kiss him again.

However, when he kissed me so maybe coz of shock and it is finally happening or whatever I felt nothing. It felt very very good but no sparks. I am kind of shocked with myself.
I have always fantasized about his lips and have wanted to kiss him.
Why do you think I didn't have butterflies although I loved kissing him and want more?

I want him!!!

Thanks
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It's all about the chemistry. Your body sends out hormones when you're experiencing sexual contact with someone who meets your biological requirements to make a healthy baby, and maybe your crush doesn't have the right genes to give your body a healthy baby. Does his natural scent smell good to you? If the significant other smells good to you, it means your genes match pretty well for healthy reproduction, if just neutral or not pleasant at all, your body is trying to warn you not to reproduce with that person as the baby could possibly be disabled. Hope i could help with science!

  • Maybe because you over-hyped it in your mind? Like this guy was your crush for such a long time and maybe your mind created something and then when it actually happened it wasn't comparable? Just a suggestion

  • your chemistries are off. good thing we are not enslaved to our chemistry.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You said he kissed you well and knows how to touch. You then say "I felt nothing. It felt very very good". You contradict yourself within less than 10 words.

    You seem a bit confused. Sparks? Butterflies? What does that even mean? It seems like you like this guy and have feelings for him so I don't see any problem

    • No problem.. the kiss and everything felt good but i thought i will have butterflies. Like him is an understatement :)

  • Maybe it WAS just the shock. My first kiss with a girl I had feelings for was the same way. I felt nothing at the moment, but afterwards I was excited and happy and wanted more!

    • Exactly how I feel! Thought something was wrong with me.. although I thought it could just be from the shock.. I know I was thinking to myself during.. i can't believe he is finally kissing me. Didn't even see him going in for the kiss as i was looking down.. suddenly felt his mouth on mine :)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • you don't have feelings for him

  • It might be because it happened all of a sudden. Rather than he give you the sign he's kissing you he went straight away so you felt nothing.

  • I had a crush on someone as well kissed her and felt the same way I came to the conclusion that I fantasized it in my head to be amazing

  • 5 years. the same guy. seems like a bit of a waste of time, doesn't it?

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