Tips on how to achieve a vaginal orgasm?

[Anonymous]

So, I've never been able to have a Vaginal Orgasm I am 22 years old and I've had 5 partners and none has been able to give me a Vaginal Orgasm I am currently with my 5th guy & pretty comfortable with him he's pretty dominant in the bedroom so I'm willing to try different things but I want to see if you guys can give me any tips on how to reach this climax? sexual positions?

Would he be offended If I played with myself down there like while in missionary or doggy? or if doing cowgirl would it be too much to ask him to rub me down there? or is there something different he could do stroke wise to help me reach this?

I'm just curious LOL had a girls night last night with my girlfriends since Elementary school days and I have not been able to get a Vaginal Orgasm and the way they describe it I am ready to try, try & try again until I get one. So I'm here for tips & tricks ;)

[MrOracle]

I've been in this situation 7 or 8 times (women who have never, or almost never, had a vaginal orgasm) and what has worked for me every single time was to teach her how to have G-spot orgasms. You do that with fingering at first, which lets you focus on the G-spot, and get her used to that stimulation and the orgasms that follow. Once she can orgasm easily that way (it can take a while - it took one girl about a month of 4-5 times a week sessions before she was used to cumming that way), then it's far easier to get her to cum during sex.

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Once she's at that point, you just need to find positions that stimulate her G-spot - and that can vary depending on the girl and the guy, as everyone's bodies are a little different - but "knees-back or legs-up missionary", doggy, spooning, and jockey are usually the ones that work the best for this.

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With one exception (a girl that had been sexually abused growing up), all of the women were able to reliably cum from vaginal sex (and anal, which can still stimulate the G-spot) after that, and most of them had powerful, multiple orgasms (with a few who would squirt due to the intensity). And even the one girl, who'd NEVER had an orgasm, could have them much of the time.

[Decentguy]

you should try hitting your G-Spot.
Lie back and relax — embarking on your first G-spot mission can take patience. Start by spreading your legs and bending your knees, so your vagina is open and accessible. With your palm facing up, insert two fingers inside, pressing your fingertips against the center of the upper vaginal wall. "You're seeking a spongy, puckered, or slightly ridged area, like the roof of your mouth. If after several minutes you're still coming up empty-handed, think of a sexual fantasy, seriously. When you are aroused, the G-spot fills with fluid, making it swell and become larger. "You'll have an easier time locating it if you are turned on. One sort of strange tip off that you've found it: a sudden need to pee. "Because the G-spot is so close to the urethra, touching it often triggers that urgent gotta-go feeling, as if you have to urinate, No need to run to the restroom; it's a false alarm. After a few seconds, the urge may pass, and you'll probably soon experience a blooming, heated kind of sensation that becomes more and more intense as you touch and stroke the area. Continue to experiment on your own with different speeds and pressures. Of course, don't be surprised if you find yourself closer and closer to orgasm.

[Decentguy]

or let your guy help you. The easiest way to start him off: Have him gently slip a finger or two inside your vagina, and then softly feel along your upper vaginal wall. If he is having trouble finding the right spot, encourage him to kiss you or touch your nipples or outer V zone, remember, the more aroused you are, the more your G will stand out, making it easier to locate. Also consider placing a few pillows under your butt and widening your legs, which will open your vagina more and give him greater access, Once he's hit the spot, ask him to massage it in slow, gentle circles. Try different caresses, such as figure eights or a rapid succession of pulses. The G can take a lot of pressure, so you may want to ask him to press harder. One G-spot touch technique he definitely should treat you to is tapping.

[Decentguy]

"Have him use just the tip of his finger to tap firmly and repeatedly on your G-spot," says Harel. There's a biological reason for why this feels so awesome, she explains. "The most intense moments of touch along any body part are usually the first few seconds. By tapping, it's as if he's touching your G for the first time over and over again, building waves of sensation that can culminate in an incredible climax."

[Decentguy]

Sex moves that can help you hit the G spot Woman-on-top is a definite G-spot winner. Think about it: When you're facing your guy yet leaning back at a slight angle, his penis naturally rests against your upper vaginal wall, and even the slightest thrusting means he can easily stimulate your G. Plus, being on top puts you in control of the depth and speed, letting you adjust your guy's penis so his strokes always hit the spot Doggie-style also offers maximum access, especially if you're lying on your stomach with your legs spread only slightly. "Being on your stomach with your legs close together sandwiches the vaginal walls, so it's almost impossible for your guy's penis not to come in contact with your G-spot," says Herbenick. And don't discount missionary position. Go with this modified version in which you're on your back with your knees bent and feet resting flat on the bed. Raise your pelvis by propping a few pillows under your butt.

[Decentguy]

Doggie-style also offers maximum access, especially if you're lying on your stomach with your legs spread only slightly. "Being on your stomach with your legs close together sandwiches the vaginal walls, so it's almost impossible for your guy's penis not to come in contact with your G-spot

[Decentguy]

And don't discount missionary position. Go with this modified version in which you're on your back with your knees bent and feet resting flat on the bed. Raise your pelvis by propping a few pillows under your butt. Your guy should sit up and enter you so he's thrusting at a slightly upward angle, which gives his penis access to your upper vaginal wall. "This way, you'll feel direct stimulation of your G with each back-and-forth thrust

[Decentguy]

have your guy caress your clitoris with his fingers while he's massaging your G with one or two fingertips from his other hand. As you get more excited, lift your pelvis to meet his fingers so you're almost thrusting against his hand, Ask him to flick your clitoris with his tongue while he's manually manipulating your G-spot." When your doing that, your best bet, again, is woman-on-top. "While you are angling your body so his penis rubs against your G and also supporting your body weight with your hands on the floor, have your guy play with your clitoris

[Decentguy]

another thing you can try is, with you kneeling low on your knees and forearms and your pelvis lifted off the bed so either he or you can reach your clitoris. Heighten the pleasure even more by having your guy thrust a bit, and then order him to stop so one of you can switch to stimulating your clitoris. Then ask him to resume. but stop again as you brush your clitoris with your fingers. Finally, when you can't take it anymore, encourage him to stimulate your inside and outside pleasure zones until you surrender to orgasm.

[Decentguy]

This is a weird one, but you can try it with your guy too. While you are messing around, your guy should put one finger inside your vagina and then he should tilted your hips upward with his other hand. That minor change in angle can open you up a bit, so his fingertip should be able to brush against your spot. you should lie on your back and let your guy's pointer finger put inside you, palm side up. He should move his finger, it can give you a very intense orgasm.

[kaylaS91]

The first time I had a vaginal orgasm was completely by chance (spending the night at my boyfriend's after a few drinks at a local bar). Which would fall in line with one thing I've read in several places online, where it's advised to not actually aim for orgasm. That the more you consciously try to reach it, the more difficult it'll be.

As for which position.. it really depends on which one works best for you. Every girl is different and I'm sure things like how long it's been since your last time cumming, how fast/deep he's thrusting at will come into play. So really just mix things up and hopefully you'll luck out sooner or later!

[SarahsSummer]

Playing with yourself during sex will give you a clitoral orgasm. For a vaginal one you need to find your g spot. It's basically on the inside wall behind where your pubic hair is/would be. He can reach it by putting 1-2 fingers in and bending them in the "come here" motion.
If you want him to hit it with his penis, it's best either riding on top and finding the angle yourself while he lies there (I can O in about 2-3 minutes this way 😜) or in missionary with him leaning back on his knees. It may be even easier to hit if you put a pillow under your bum. It's pretty intense and especially so if you and he can climax at the same time.

[joysurfer24]

I don't think he should be offended and if he is, obviously he isn't a great guy. Like he needs to want to make you happy also because he's being satisfied. Have you done much self exploration to find out what feels good and what doesnt? then you could tell him what is nice and wdhat isn't i guess haha

[Asker]

lol nope I guess I need to grow up & figure that all out LOL

[johnmichaei]

dominant and that's the way he does

[Regular1]

Get on top, cowgirl style, and move however it takes. Use him like a sex toy.

[Arya_Christ]

tell him to rub..

[curiouschris1975]

Are you familiar with what (works) for you? Can you achieve orgasm by yourself?
Communication is key for the both of you to be happy in this department... (( good luck ))🙏🏻

[Asker]

nope not really. maybe being on top works better for me. I'll bring ir up to him & let him know lol thanks.

[HebrewHammer86]

spit on your fingers and rub your clit while he fucks u

[DavidSHeier]

was there anal involved

[Asker]

Oh no lol

[Anonymous]

Sleep with a guy who is well endowed.