Christians are you ashamed and struggling with your sexual desires in terms of feeling guilty because you like certain things?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I noticed many Christians feel ashamed or uncomfortable to talk about sex because it's taboo, when in fact God's word (Bible) talks a lot about sexual stuff. In fact it dedicates a whole book to sexuality and love making. The Song of Solomon is a romantic poetry book that describes foreplay and freaky stuff between lovers. I don't like poetry nor really understand it, but I can put two and two together on somethings, and there are some hot sexual stuff writtin in that book inspired by the Holy Spirit through Solomon.

God made us as sexual beings. There should be nothing to feel ashamed of concerning your sexuality as long it's hetrosexual. Our sexuality is a gift. I say enjoy your sexuality to the full, because that's what God commands between husband and wife. And don't let apostate Catholicism grabage man made traditions make you feel ashamed for having certain sexual desires. The Catholic Church just knows how to ruin people's lives with their heretical teachings that are not biblical, but rather man made doctrines of men.

Proverbs 5:15-19: Drink water from your own cistern, And running water from your own well. Should your fountains be dispersed abroad, Streams of water in the streets? Let them be only your own, And not for strangers with you. Let your fountain be blessed, And rejoice with the wife of your youth. As a loving deer and a graceful doe, Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; And always be enraptured with her love.

Hebrews 13:4: Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

[Anonymous]

I'm struggling with guilt... honestly giving into my fleshly desires isn't honoring GOD. I want to wait til marriage but gosh it's not easy and I don't wanna marry for sex. I want to be in love

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Sincerely ask God for a husband. Go out and meet people. May God bless you with a good Christian man hun.💜

[Anonymous]

since my sexuality is straight, i have no need to be embarrassed or ashamed of it

[Iraqveteran666]

No I could talk about it all day.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a47302-the-awesome-benefits-of-having-a-traditional-stay-at-home-wife

[DizzyAster]

It's not Christianity, it's the church and it's people.
Like you said, even the bible has sex in it and it's the freaky shit.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Some Christians are incredibly sexually repressed and full of shame sexually. Which it's a shame within itself. Many Christians must have the most dull sex lives which leads to feeling unsatisfied in their marriage. Smh Believe it or not I once heard a preacher say sex between wife and husband was lust and a sin. Smh Poor people.

[DizzyAster]

Again, church. Not bible or even God for that manner. If it was that bad, God would have hit the delete button a long time ago.

[Jack_stokes]

So to paraphrase...

Enjoy being sexual, unless you're Gay.

Fucking hypocrite.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Homosexuality is a sin and against nature. But do what you will.

[Jack_stokes]

Why is it a sin against nature?

[Jack_stokes]

Oh, I mistyped. Why is it a sin according to the Bible? And why is it against nature? And I promise, the first comment I made will be the only insult I make.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Well for one, when God created a man, he didn't bring him another man to have sex with him. He gave him a woman. It shows what God was thinking. #2 Homosexuals and lesbians can't reproduce. If everyone went 100% gay or lesbian the human race will die out. God designed a penis for a vagina and a woman's body. Not a penis for another man's body. And I forgive the insult.😊

[Jack_stokes]

And what of all the other occurrences of homosexulaity in nature? Are those against God and nature as well? Also, since God made the penis and vagina to go hand in hand, does that mean all other sexual actions not including them unnatural too? Is oral sex unnatural? Is anal? Is any form of foreplay involving genitals unnatural? If God made sex as a gift for reproduction of the species, is it wrong and unnatural to use preventative measure to stop pregnancies? What about sterile people? Should they be denied sex because 'if 100% of everyone was [sterile] the species would die out'? I shall also point out that If God was thinking - in therror sense you describe - he could have made it impossible for homosexulaity to presist.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't think any sexual activity between husband and wife is unnatural. I was using penis and vagina to express a point. As far animals engaging in homosexual acts, animals are animals and they don't posses a moral conscience of what is morally right or wrong like humans do. Since humans are programmed by a conscience to inherently know what acts are right and wrong from birth. And as sterile people, of course they can still have sex. There is nothing wrong with them to have sex. Why should they be denied sexual activity because a sickness? And for pregnancies measures I personally believe to leave that in God's hands. But I hold no objection to those that prefer to take measures to avoid being pregnant.

[Jack_stokes]

So it's the conscience that dictates what is right and wrong? That cannot be used because each and every person holds a different conscience based on their up bringing. Some people support capital punishment, others are against it. Some practicing Muslims believe stoning for adultery is acceptable and don't feel any guilt while others have conflicting views. More casual example, Some people believe drinking and smoking is morally wrong, some do not. So who decides what is morally right or wrong? Who decides which conscience is 'more right?' You can't rely on internal morality because its different for each person. You can rely on the Bible, but then you must follow all the tenements of the old testament to not be a cherry picking buffet Christian. You can follow the church's teaching, but the moral compass has shifted through the the years.

[Phoenix98]

No and sex shouldn't be something that should be shamed, there's isn't a prudish word from genesis to revelations there is even a book that celebrates erotic love. Sex is a wonderful made by God, the only thing he asks is that you wait till marriage.

[jacquesvol]

Thank god, I'm atheist. ;)

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

That's great.🖒🖒

[Anonymous]

Non Christians

[Anonymous]

My sex life vis between me, my wife and God. The rest of you do not need to know.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I didn't ask you for info. It's just a poll. Calm down. Trust me I don't want to know what you do...

[Opinion Owner]

No. I was just trying to give my opinion. Sorry if I offended you.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Lol no offense bro👌