How can a girl make eye contact during blowjob? Best positions for eye contact?

When I'm giving my boyfriend a blowjob, he's usually lying down in bed and I'm crouching at his legs. So, my head is angled facing directly his crotch and there's no way to look at him (trust me I've tried). Plus, I like deepthroat and it's impossible to look up when you're that deep and in that position.

I've heard having the guy standing or sitting while the girl is kneeling is a better position for eye contact. Is this true? Are there other positions you know of?

Also, for guys, does a blowjob feel better when you're lying down or is it more enjoyable when you're standing/sitting?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah standing helps, because then you just look up while it's in your mouth/throat. Or if he's sitting on the couch, tell him to lay back and then you're in between his legs. Then he is almost at the level of your eyes really and you can look at him easier. Another good position I like is when I'm laying down and the girl is kneeling or laying on her stomach on the side of me while giving me head. Then she can turn her head sideways while doing it.

    But I believe you don't have to always look at us while doing it, you can look at us while you're taking a break from the sucking and while you're just licking the shaft and head, just watching us while you tease.

    Sorry, got lost there for a sec... Anyhow, looking at us while deepthroating isn't really that expected. You're probably concentrating on more at hand at that moment.

  • u can make eye contact while playing with his cock, not sucking. i mean if he is layed down, u can lick his balls and the back side of the penis, i gues there u have more chance. same way stabding ;) for more examples u can watch porn x)

Most Helpful Girls

  • This is good for eye contact and easiest for enjoying swallowing. Have him sit down at the front edge of a comfy chair leaning back with his legs spread. You sit down comfortably on the carpet between his legs right in front of him. You can look up at him while you're sucking, licking and stroking his cock. When he's almost ready to cum he can stand up. You tilt your head back and open your mouth wide open, he holds your head, strokes his cock and cums into your wide open mouth. You swallow his cum then suck and lick his cock squeaky clean. :)

  • Stand him in front of a full length mirror is pretty good.

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  • I feel like it would be better lying down

  • having him sit while you go down on him would be the best position for eye contact.

  • I've always found eye contact awkward when I'm giving a blowjob, like i'm a little busy to be winning a staring contest right now. I just look up quickly to make sure my magic is working.

  • him standing up?

  • just look up often dueing the blowjob

  • get on your knees and look up

  • Get on your knees and look up at him.. thats the best way for eye contact, give him a wink to get him wilder😂

  • just look at his eyes