We males are more prone to visual stimulation over emotional stimulation, unlike females. As a result, we can imagine ourselves being there and doing those things, but mostly it's about those 'perfect' curves. There are mostly no thoughts. Just a few like, "Damn them tities." and "Smack that ass."
Now that's only if you're talking about regular porn without Fetishes. When it comes to Fetishes, that's an emotional stimulation of a different sort which perhaps most people with that fetish won't live in real life.
Now, all that being said, would I like to dominate my girl? Fuck yeah! But it would just help if she's hot. Sex is more emotional and spiritual than physical. If the physical appeal is the only thing to them, then you'll have a band of cheaters, perverts, and things of the sort. Anyway, Masturbation is more physically pleasurable than putting it in.
okay so does that make your girlfriend less attractive after jerking off to hot bodies, big tits and perfect pussys?
No. Not at all. Like i said. Porn provides only visual stimulation. A girlfriend provides emotional, spiritual, and hopefully visual stimulation. Doesn't really matter if the visual part is lacking. If people were to make relationships based on bodies, this world would be doomed.
Mmm... to say guys crave those in the video, is not really accurate. Once in a blue moon, maybe. A mature person however should know a pornstar is not the average person on the street. The best specimen and augmentation sums them up. To really expect to see what's on set in your bedroom shows immaturity. In the long run porn does more harm than good. If you have a girlfriend I don't think its something you should make a part of your life. Not going to lie, visually its pleasing though. All the love and sex drive however should be spent on the SO though.
love it. you are going to make your girl a happy woman with that mentality!
i hope, lol
I watch porn and I'm a female. I dated a guy that loved his porn I don't think its got anything to do with them wanting to cheat or anything bad its just a fantasy thing its not the girl or the guy in the porn that turns them on but rather the action of whats happening. However there is a balance if a guy is watching porn when you want sex then thats a bad thing but if his watching it because your too tired take that as a really good thing because if we had to replace sex with every time a guy is horny i think we would burn out lol Men are horny little buggers
I think women tend to over analyze why men like porn way too much. I don't believe they watch it because they would rather fuck the other girls over the person they are with. It's just porn it's just a video something to help them relief tension. We watch it as well and it doesn't mean we want to fuck other guys. Matter of fact most of the times we don't even think what was all about or the people on the video after we are done.
It's just the action... they don't care about the people. What my partner says and that's how I feel when I watch porn.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!porn is dangerous, but as some one else said its an outlet for us sometimes. in my last relationship i would only get it about once a month so the rest of the time i would use porn. it wasn't so much the girls that we fantisize over but what they are doing, and this is why its dangerious. as most women will not let you cum on their faces or do the up the ass whish is all you seem to see in porn these days, so it builds up a unrelistic believe in what yopu can do.
luckly i now have a great wife and she is up for it most the time and the porn takes a back step but i do still like it when she forfills my fantasies lol
It is all just a sexual fantasy. That is all. It does not change my behavior in the real world. Men like variety-new and different visual stimulation-and porn is the safest and sanest solution to that problem.
would you consider a woman using different size vibrators the same thing as men liking a variety of visual stimulation to jerk off to?
Lacoshina, guys and girls are different we are very different and i know somethings guys do don't make any sense and they feel the same way about us. Try not to over think it if you can't beat them join them and you'll probably like it too.
That's a good question. If the woman is watching porn while she is using a vibrator on herself, I suppose it's the same thing. They have masturbation devices for men that replicate the feeling of a vagina, so I don't see the difference when I woman penetrates herself with a vibrator. I do not get jealous when the girl I'm with uses a vibrator to masturbate. However I also know that women don't respond to porn the same way guys do... so I dunno if you can equate the two.
Perfect tits and ass?
Have you SEEN porn?
Yeah, there are a lot of porn sluts that are far better than any 'real' women. And they're still a far cry from what they ought to be.
We know it's fake... But sometimes we just have to bust a nut to relieve some stress... Women just don't, nor will they ever, understand (like us men have no idea what it's like to give birth)... You don't have a cock and balls (as far as I know, lol). Therefore, you don't know what it is like to have swollen, painful, sore balls bc you haven't cum in a while...
okay, fair game. so why with porn? why not bust a nut without porn? and dont those images burn in your head and does that make you find ur girl less attractive?
Well i agree with wine lover. N to answer ur question we need idea n imagination to release the beast. We can't really stick to one fantasy for more then twice i believe 😂😂 coz it won't work 3rd time. Porn just gives away different perspectives n easy ways out. Saves time n energy. 😂😂 N i believe cheating isn't counted in it. If u r cheated for more hotter stuff ur guy is just a jerk.
Honestly, I don't always jerk off to porn, sometimes I jerk off to whatever I am thinking about (my girlfriend, when I have one, or a girl I saw somewhere, etc.)... The images don't "burn into" our minds and we don't find our girl less attractive bc normal guys know porn is just fantasy... If you want further proof, one of my ex-girlfriends was cool with me watching porn and even suggested that I watched it while she sucked my dick or while I fucked her, but in all honesty, I turned down her offer bc I told her why would I want to watch porn when I could have the real thing... Also, even though I jerked off to porn on the reg., When I was fucking her, all I wanted to do was focus on her...
porn is not cheating :) ... sometimes you can't be with girl and only options is to do it yourself, porn helps...
i like to watch amateur or something like girlfriend revenge bcs they are close to real sex... porn stars are just faking and screaming like crazy bitches, not finding that attractive at all...
what if i am available to him and sometimes, not always, he chooses porn over me?
rly? i would never do that... i was watching porn couple of minutes with my girl, just to get some new ideas. i dont think we (man) are crazy enough to watch porn when we can have something real in that same moment...
Great, then maybe something is wrong with me. He says he does it only cause he doesn't feel like having sex w me if we are fighting. Do you ever prefer porn over your girlfriend when you two are fighting or in disagreement?
Personally, I like having sex with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is everything I want in a girl. Porn simply doesn't have the PewdiePie quality content I'm looking for while also casting an actress who meets my tastes. I still watch porn though. I'm not a pussy
haha whats pewdiepie mean? lol
He's a YouTube. It's just a little joke. But I meant like EXACTLY what I want I can't find in porn so I like my girlfriend better. IM NT TALKING ABOUT WEIRD SHIT. I mean the vid either has the girl I like or the content I like. Never both.
nice. can you define or explain what you like,?
First, no guys don't compare like you think. Variety is more important than the "perfect body" Now to me I often seek out scenarios that I want to explore, not the person but the acts.
Nothing, you just enjoy the feeling and stare at the screen. After that you go do something else.
porn is just a way to relieve some stress or just self pleasure
Porn is totally fake & not my thing , but some inexperienced young guys may believe it is real , because of lack of real world experience. Men tend to have far higher sex drives than women , plus there is a need to empty the prostate gland , it is mostly a means to an end. Even in relationships / marriages , the reason men turn to porn , is because his partner never wants sex , a very common problem.
for me it's rarely about wanting to have sex with the women in the videos and more about wanting to do those things in the videos with my fiance. it doesn't make me want to cheat. all men look at other women. there's nothing wrong with that. I look at other women but at the end of the day I love and want to be with my fiance. my real thoughts on porn is that it is fun, exciting, and a healthy part of a relationship.
They mentally take the place of one the people in the porn clip, most likely the guy spraying all that cum on the lucky exhausted girls face. Porn becomes totally absolete when someone is in a healthy relationship.
hmmm... do you ever think, i wish my girlfriend looked like that?
I can say that when i look at a pretty girl walking the street and so can my girl. Industrial porn is perfect and ridiculous, its only for virgin dudes that dont know what sex is all about, and only care about looks. No im not jealous of the huge boobed chicked because my girl is an A cup. I know she is a far better lover. She craves for sex. She is perfect. Nope. Its porn that should be jealous. I wouldn't trade her for anything.
women love to feel pretty and desirable to their man, so your woman is a lucky female to have that from you.
Porn is bad.
It's more of self satisfaction when the other half isn't around 😊
but i am around! he sometimes, not always waits till i go to work
Personally he should be fucking you instead of wasting him cum in his hands. lol
When you ask him for sex does he turn you down for porn? if so then Girl get out thats not ok at all his got problems
Having stood erect. We want to some how shoot out joyfully thats it.
Porn is a good thing. It is 4 AM. I don't think anyone wants to be awakened at 4 AM because my penis is hard. Just sayin'
Nothin but a thing. All
guys do it. Even married. Just wanna cum otherwise I walk Round with hsrd on
I think it's just sex, nothing more. it's not cheating because you are only watching. it's just a fantasy where you imagine to fuck another woman
they don't think anything. that's the great thing in porn. you don't have to think just watch
No, it s just about satisfaction at that moment of need, most of men donot feel dissatisfaction after they have real sex. Just consider that as a need of satisfaction, it happens and the end of story.
i get mad cause i want a super hard dick or a full load of cum, but he wasted it on porn instead of me
that s a real problem if he doesnot give u a real performance in bed cos of porn. thank god didnot have that problem.
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