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Why do girls make sex so hard?

All the things girls MAKE you do to get in they pants is sooo hard!, keyword isaid MAKE. Because they think (but will never say it) if you can't step up then you are a weak male that dont deserve the pussy. This includes the head games that she wants played with her, to the touching that she "doesnt want" , to the sex that made her squirt buckets , i feel there is a natural resistance with most girls that men have to break down that barrier first in order to fuck, its never simple. Thats why guys go to sex markets and rape culture is a thing, because the women make it soooo hard to have access
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  • Dude! what the hell are you saying, you make it seem like you're a sex addict that you actually feel for those rapists.
    Woman do that cuz sex is a way of bigger deal for them!!
    it's how they are biologically created!! very little percentage of them who would wanna get over it and make it less of a deal, they are usually independent women and feminists who wanna act like men to feel as dominant as men (feminists). But most of them don't wanna be used just for sex, think about it, if you have a lot of money, and women used you to get you to by them expensive stuff then they leave you, how would that make you feel!! wouldn't that make you try and filter them, make it hard on them to see who really cares about you not just sucking up to your money..
    it's quite similar for them, they wanna be appreciated for who they are mentally and emotionally so they have to make it hard! and I actually respect these kind of women who has integrity!

    • I like you , ur cool lol able to make your point without being mean , but yes ur right! No disagreements here, all im saying is by doing the "filter" thing. Is that they out tha wrong ones, and they get even more tight about who they let fuck, then saying things like im soo alone or nobody likes me or he is cheap! Lol they dnt know what in the hell they want bruh

    • Yeah that's a different thing, they tend to be dramatic sometimes, and they misjudge things a lot also, they're still young they are still growing, but a true woman, would know exactly how to do it.

    • thanks my friend.

  • I understand what you're trying to say. You just worded it in the worst possible way you could. :D

    Sadly you're mistaken. The problem with "sexual complexity" for males isn't that there isn't a willing partner but instead that the partner they want isn't willing. Women you can fuck at EVERYWHERE! Most will do it for free but some will take commodities in return.

    The whole requirement to tease or overpleasure etc. are all things that males made up as excuses as to why they cannot get the females they want versus simply taking any that are hanging like meat on a rack. Seriously it is rather shameful how easy it is to "get" sex from anyone, male or female, with the only stipulation being that you're not forthright about your intentions.

    • Yess idid, they made it seem like im pro rape! Lol nooo all iwant is to women to acknowledge they role in it like it or not, weather they want to or not. a lot of men assualut, rape and , support sex trafficking because they are lonely, and girls can't get out of the excitement of the times changing and of them having "choices" now that they are neglecting men in general and dnt even know it..

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  • I don't think it's that simple, girls can want it just as much as guys.. but when a guy gets it straight away then they loose interest.. sometimes we have to hold out untill we know he's gonna stick around otherwise we feel like complete shit afterwards and if we slept with every guy we just met straight away we'd most likely never get anything more meaningful than just sex

    • I met a guy I really liked and the first second I met him I knew i wanted to fuck him right then and there, but if I did that he would of thought I was easy, gives it up to everyone and we wouldn't of had a second date

    • Like isaid weak guys think that, if a guy is confident why would he care how fast ufucked him, just happy uguys fucked! I don't know its those type of guys that messes it up for the rest of us!! Trust me when isay aguy like has PROBLEMS!!! iwas that guy, after irealized that idont own her pussy, and its sumthing that should be willingly sacrificed because she wants to, not because she thinks iwill think less of her for doing it in the first 30 mins of meeting lol but this was a good answer too! Really getting to the meat of my questions, not just this shit other people are posting that icould have turned on tv to find out lol, iwant real girl psychology !!

    • I think a lot of guys think if she sleeps with me on the first date, she's banging other guys too on the first date and they want a girl who's not been with everyone so they won't stick around.. and a decent girl doesn't want to come across like a slag, no matter how much they want it

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  • Rape culture has to do with people being unwilling to control themselves, not how easy the victim should be. Logic such as what you stated gives weak men the notion that rape is acceptable because females won't 'put out'... and that is not where society needs to be.

    • Ohhhhh iget it now!!! people think im trying to justisfy by not inherently saying eww rapists are bad... maybe ishould start tha post next time with a acknowledgment of crimial behavior lmfao but seriously , there is like a 6 to 3 ratio (guessing) to women to men, so there is no excusses why almost everyman isn't being taking care of by the female populous, and since its not, we make do with what we have at our disposal !

    • @Theuninformed1 Women weren't put on this earth to take care of a man's every sexual whim when he has it. Your statistics are wrong, and I'm not trying to be rude to you but you need to grow up.

    • Isaid my stats were wrong lmfao , point of me saying it was that its wayyyy more girls than boys, period. And ur right y'all were not here to soley please us, and its totally y'all choice! With that said, understand that the sexual energy that we feel doesn't go anywhere, jus stored intill we having a breaking point, then redirected in something un healthy or illegal, basically take a dick to save your sister or daughter the trouble down the road... blunt truth

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  • I'd rather make sure the guy isn't using me for sex first before I do actually sleep with him. Unfortunately, this is the society we live in today.

    • So is the idea to put him through tests to see how mad he gets +the no sex thing =to see if he sticks around? Then if he sticks around, then y'all have sex?

    • here's the thing , plan sounds good if thats how guys minds worked, but if you guys dont have sex with us, we dont think you like us, and if we dont think you like us, then how on earth would we have the mental compacity to stay and put up with the "shit tests" ?

    • There is no plan. If he's a decent enough person then he won't use me for sex. If he isn't, then that's the end of it. I get to know them and make my decision based on that. There's no test.

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  • It is never a female's fault for being raped? This is so fucking disgusting.

    • Read the thread, thats not what im saying! No idividual female is at fault, thats absurd, but it is a factor of sex trade and sexusl assault because generally y'all dont satisfy men , or else we wouldn't feel the need to escape our home country for a week or month to a 3rd world country and spend 100$ and get treated like a king and have fresh new girls everynight that your there , just think about it...

    • You literally said females are the reason why rape culture exists? People rape because they are sick in the head and are turned on by the idea of it. Sorry but you can never blame women for being raped simply because we don't give men 'easy access'.

    • If you have to do that you most likely have a problem with sex addiction and should seek help. You are contributing to the sex slave problem that you speak of because you have a problem, not women who don't want to fuck you.

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  • Honestly this question has so many answers and also varies from person to person.
    Personally I make sex so hard because I don't want to give it up to just anyone, but I have friends that will have sex with just about anyone if you fit their type

  • you being retarded should be an option. I would vote on that

    • Stop being a chode and saying things u THINK girls want to hear and actually speak up man if you have nothing of value to say then dont talk

    • things girls want to hear? mate just because someone doesn't agree with you doesn't mean they are trying to please anyone... Now I don't belive we live in a rape culture that's something femnazis use to say (not in western countries anyway) but making the points you just made is plain stupid. First of all what mind games do girls make you play? I mean lots for girls would be ok with a 1 night stand if she wants something else she wants to make sure you aren't just after sex. Don't you find that understandable?

  • if a girl open up a door for u thst quickly, guys simply enter, and never leave that room, if he didn't fuck her

    thats why girls make it a little trill for u guys, that hanging out with her, won't made u forget about her

    simply girls doesn't want to be forgotten

    • Ilove your answer, and i followed you! Lol ioriginaly made this account to understand my sister better because she was falling into a depression about things and she wouldn't talk to me, you remind me of her in your words, so i will include you in the female oriented questions from time to time :)

    • well i guess, most pretty valued girls like me would think this way, i dont know other.. we do have different perspective too, though, most of the time situation gets much complicated, when you get to know a lot of girls., lol hahaha

    • Well iknow how im trying to be and where im trying to go and iknow that iwill go out of my way to make sure i continue to surround myself with women like you! I dont have time to back track and physically and emotionally drain myself trying to "fix" girls lol, tagg me in your next boy related question! Maybe ican help you like uhelped me !

  • Maybe it's just you... try a little harder.

  • If a guy doesn't deserve to fuck a woman, then he has no right to complain about not getting any pussy, because she'd rather spend the night with some other guy.

  • They only pull that shit with men they're not really attracted to, to see how much they can get away with.

    If you make her pussy tingle, she won't play the games before she fucks your brains out.

    • Now here's a guy that knows women and talks with finesse!

    • Finesse... Lulz. I tend to be very blunt. Especially when communication is by text, since it's pretty easy to misinterpret what someone meant. And I'm not gonna lie, it's Teh Interwebz and it's not like I'm going to ever meet any of these people, so I'm not going to go out of my way and make flowery words that will take hundreds of words when I can be blunt and use a couple dozen.

    • Lol, @Barrabus_the_Free that's actually the exact opposite of the truth, but you got @Theuninformed1 to believe that you know women. I'd say good job, but he's uninformed so it wasn't very difficult.

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  • Stop being so desperate for sex. You aren't going to die if you don't get it on the first date.

    • But my patience would wear thin and would show, like going out to eat, I don't know who they expect to pay if we have had no sexual relations , good enough to pay for a strangers meal but not enough to be intimate with? Is the message girls send when they want to be courted

    • So you think because you buy a lady a dinner she owes you sex?

    • No, but tell me that does not greatly increased our odds! Lol wel know fact

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  • It's a well known fact the world over that since the beginning of time men have quite simply been led by their knobs.
    That's one reason why women are, and have to be so extremely cautious in who they might have sex with.

    • Well what drives a women? So men know what to look for a swerve to the other side like girls do! Lol

  • Wouldn't you be scared of having something shoved inside of you if you've never done it before? Babies have helped no one in getting laid either.

    • Are you talking about virgins? , they are kind of off topic bruh lol but good try!

    • Well lets just put it this way, there's a certain type of people that attracts these type of mind games and shit, you can decide what type you are.

  • i guess they dont want to be impregnated. once men get a flash worthy pull out game then they ill let us in more.

  • What? No one is entitled to the access of any one else's body.

  • Unless you want to sleep with every girl on the block, I don't think its that hard.

    • If its anything more than hi , my name is _____ and then she bends over then its hard lmfao , im exaggerating but you get what imean, wayy to harder than it has to be on tha girls end

    • lol... yeah they don't bend over that easily.

    • if only in a perfect world lmfao

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  • Pay for a prostitute, it's easy. Don't tell me it's hard to get into a girl's pants, I already knew that.

    • Thats my point, it shouldn't be... lol

  • so, because us men can't keep it in their pants it justifies rape culture? playing hard to get is called flirting and is a game. its not because you're bad at the game, that girls are too hard to get. you just have to find someone on the same playing field as you. you can't just comr in and fuck, you have to work your way through some things.

    good lord "i can't find snoo snoo so thats why rape culture exists"

    grow up jeez

    • Everyone wants to give sooo much power to the women choice to make them feel good! And its like yess, ican play the game , im actually a pick up student, so iknow all to well the games, but when wen play those games back to counteract her playing the games in the first place to still get in her pants and leave, like the plan was intended go off, she's more hurt than before we started and wish she never meet me, im jus saying isee this all to often and the point still remain, GIRLS STOP PLAYING GAMES FOR WHATEVER PERSONAL REASON AND MEN WILL STOP COMING UP WITH GAMEPLANS AND MANULS HOW TO GET AROUND THEM! like isaid they create more issues and i personaly think that we should drop them and real with each other! And ihate that other men on here saying im desperate for sex because idont want to play games that women play anymore, im good, iwas educated on good game, imade this question for the guy contemplating doing some wild shit that he might regret

  • That's a terrible excuse for cheating, and especially rape. You should be ashamed of yourself for saying that.

    Girls aren't "easy" because they tend to want to make sure you're not just in it for the sex. That doesn't go for all girls; however, we tend to test the relationship to see if you'll stick around after sex or not. If she's not looking for anything serious, it's not going take as much effort to go to bed with her.

    • No excuses, just talking about factors nobody wants to say because it SOUNDS like we are condoning it if it was to happen but ilove your answer! Thanks! , but the "shit tests" that girls use tend to back fire on them , like for example passing up 5 good men because they were horny but taking the 1 dude that didn't ask on the first night only to find out he is violent or jus a perv lol , I don't know y'all bring it on yourselfs but with that said iknow guys ruin girls it will make it a unpleasent experince for the next guy if he fucks her over !

    • That's a very extreme example. Sure, some guys have the ability to "hide" their true selves for a while. But these "shit tests" as you call them are a woman's way of protecting herself against douchebags, and you seem to be one of them. Perhaps this is why you're having such difficulty getting laid, because these "shit tests" actually work, and these girls see your true self.

  • Some girls are more willing for others some make you work for it some don't

  • You sound really desperate for sex.
    Try getting to know a girl and dating her. The fact that guys like you want to get in our pants is why we are so closed off.
    To be realistic some girls want to wait till marriage for religious or other reasons and you should respect anyone's decision female or male.

    • See thats what imean , in the first sentence ucalled me desperate for sex, and its like yea i am, who isnt? , girls expect us to know what we are doin and not to be desperate while they are sitting on a gold mine, they could care less about stting on. understand y'all will miss out on a lot of good men because y'all think sex is a direct correlation with the type of man he is. And iknow that y'all want all that emotional stuff which is cool! Playing those games only hurt y'all in the end. I. e. Baby daddy problems, bad marriages, and abuse. All because uwere trained to like a guy more if it seems like he dosent want sex fast, biggest lie Hollywood tells sex is a pledge of loyalty that make a man feel comfortable with providing and opening up in the relationship,

    • But how do we make sure we don't get fucked and dumped?

    • You dont, there is no sure way ! thats part of what love is, FAITH they are not using you, guys feel similar about our money, you guys won't have sex with us immediately but want us to pay for anything immediatley. We feel highly used for our money but still try because we have faith we won't meet a vendictive bitch thats robs us of every dime

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  • The rape comment was going well too far , rape is carried out by psychopaths that think nothing of violating others and / or it is considered acceptable in their backward " culture " Men typically have far higher sex drives than women , any fool knows that , also the potential consequences from sex are much greater for a female. However , most men exercise self control & restraint.

    A good solution would be to develop a sex drive killer for men , that had no adverse side effects & did not hamper the " male drive " to get things done , everyone will be much happier then , men will leave women alone , which is what most women want.

    • Really? Sex drive killer? That is tha first i herd a guy talk like this for the sake of women lol and yes MOST men, but the damaged and psychologically hurt ones dont have the restraint to!! , and im more concerned about where that hurt came from and how to deal with it before calling them evil and putting them in jail, men rape for 2 reason, out of desperation and hurt, and the pure misogynistic version of it (getting physically hard from the tears and pain of women) both are rooted in deep hurt and fear for males, and men dont have higher drives, thats a myth !

  • Both have fault

    • Best answer!! And we both should take time to at least try to love each other better to reduce the un wanted behavior ! Not increase jail times and sexual tension between men and women, that makes it worst!

  • stop wasting your time on these immature women.

    • Why would a mature woman date an immature guy?

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