Teenage son has been watching porn on the computer, how should I handle this situation?

[Anonymous]

I didn't catch him but I know it's him, he forgot to delete the history and I took a look, and boy oh boy was I shocked that my son was looking at porn, even though I am aware it's normal. He seems to be really into the milf category, he watches a lot of Shyla Stylez so I think that has to be his favorite girl. I was surprised he also watches this taboo porn between mom/son, I am worried he is think of me when he is watching those videos. Does he like me? How should I handle this? I understand we all have our dirty fantasies and if he enjoys those videos it's ok but I want him to know that it's bad for him to think of me in that way! I am his mother, I can kiss him, hold him, cuddle him, offer him advice, teach him about girls, hell show him how to kiss if he wants to (I am that open) but sex is off limits with me

[MrOracle]

Don't take porn categories too literally. Porn categories are there to allow guys who like a certain type of woman to be able to find them easily with a search engine. It doesn't mean the term is to be taken literally.

A few examples:

- "teen" means 18-24, or roughly college age
- "Mom"/"Stepmom"/"MILF" means women in their 30s/early 40s
- "Mature" generally means 40s & 50s
- "Granny" is 50s and older

Anything without an age-related term generally means "mainstream" age, with the girls being in their mid-to-late 20s.

The fact is that there are a lot of "older" female porn stars that want work, but relatively few people willing to pay to see them on their own (because almost universally, most men prefer younger women for fantasies or "just sex"). But porn producers are good at figuring out ways to make money, and someone came up with the "incest/family roleplay" concept, pairing a younger porn star with an older one under the premise that they're related (in the STORY/plotline - no one is ACTUALLY related of course). Now, they had a way to utilize older actresses in a way that people will still pay to see them.

But it's a fantasy - it adds a little bit of extra kink - but no one takes it seriously. It's obviously fake - because the same "MILF" actress is the "mom" or "aunt" or "step-mom" to 50 different younger stars if you watch enough scenes, and the acting isn't exactly Oscar-worthy. LOL.

I think your son mostly just fantasizes about older women - and lots of teen boys do. And looking at the "Mom/Stepmom" and "MILF" categories is how you find the middle-aged actresses these days. I seriously doubt this has ANYTHING to do with YOU specifically.

[TripleAce]

Lol i really don't think he thinks of you, his mother, it's obvious it's other women. Maybe he likes older women. Normal

Its all normal. We use to look at nudie mags back in the day. Just put filters or something. I dunno

Talk to him. Convince him to get a girlfriend

[SkylarZaharis]

I don't think you have to worry! Most boys would be disgusted by that idea, but the Taboo nature IS what attracts them, and sense they would never think about it in their own lives they see it happen online! Everything should be completely okay if you want to bring it up with him he will be SUPER embarrassed and will really hurt him. I say keep it on the down low that you know

[Goodwifie]

Your son needs to know that the sex that he sees on porn sites are completely different from reality.
Porn is ok but he'll need to know that so much of the videos can be demeaning to women.
Don't pash your son.

[Anonymous]

Let him do it. It's just his fantasy, it doesn't mean he wants to fuck you or anything. Also, don't show your son how to kiss. That would be odd/weird.

[LisaSparrow]

Duct tape

[dogbert444]

Don't make a big deal of it. You may cause more harm that good. Treat it as a damage limitation exercise... least said, soonest mended. Simply remind him to clear his browser, or use incognito mode.

[Red_Arrow]

First, try to get all the porn that you posted online off before he finds those.
Okay, seriously, Showing how to kiss, romantically and sensuously is wrong. And that will get him thinking about you a lot more than he possibly could be now. Talking with him about the dangers of porn would be the best place to start. If there is a father figure to help you that would be best.

[JamesG8]

Your son is not necessarily attracted to you, probably just interested in the teaching and guidance a mother figure represents, as he explores himself. Teens often feel insecure or curious about sex, etc., and a mother figure is often a reassuring voice.

[fauchelevent]

Are we supposed to believe you're an actual mother and not just some lonely dude jacking off in front of his computer? 🙄

[Paulaanderson]

Suppose depends his age
I bought mine some mags at 12 13 so he coukd get his kicks out of his system. He liked older milf figures as well
We had talks about sex and sex acts and protection etc and emotions
Great you are open as well
He would seek my advice and gave it where I could without becoming embaressed

[AndyOh]

Wow, well at least you know he likes girls.
I would say you might want to have a mom-son chat and kind of lay it on the line. I would also look to see how much he watches... weekly, daily, all day? Maybe 'urge' him to get out and into sports or something more healthy. Good luck with that one.

[AleDeEurope]

I hiiiiighly doubt he thinks of you that way. Most guys watch porn for the pornstar, the girl in the video.
Talk to him... assuming this isn't fake

[DodgersGM]

SandPlanet 😱

[BertMacklinFBI]

people often mistake fantasy with reality. just because someone likes watching incest porn doesn't necessarily mean they wanna fuck their own siblings, they just like watching others partake in the act/scene.

[BertMacklinFBI]

anyways this post sounds fake af

[GingerGuy]

You didn't say how old your son was but I'd just leave him be. Anything you do is only going to embarrass him and this behavior is completely normal for a young boy.

[GingerGuy]

And I highly doubt he's thinking about you. I can almost guarantee he's not. It's hard to explain but we don't compare porn to our normal life. Women often think we compare them or they are somehow involved in it and you're not. Not at all lol. It's entertainment, nothing more. Even what type we're watching doesn't mean anything. It could simply be curiosity.

[Intraluminal]

First, don't freak out. Just because he is watching MILFs does not mean he is fantasizing about you. Next, get a block on your internet. Find a tech savvy friend and block all the porn temporarily.

Next, find a guy friend or his father who can talk to him about porn and how it affects people.

Then turn the porn back on and kinda hope for the best.

[Intraluminal]

And please, tell me you had no intention of actually kissing him yourself.

[Maria321]

what he said

[regbarclay]

I will hope it's more in MILF category and it's about one od your friends. I refuse to accept any other explanation.

[NYkid27]

He could be attracted to one of his friends ' mom not you

[Sam19XX]

LISTEN. Even if he watches mom/son shit, i am sure 100% that its only bcz he likes the female in the vid. Absolutely nothing more than that. I dont give a shit about the video title. If i like the girl i am watching the vid. Absolutely no one gives a shit about the title.

[JSmuve]

I think you're giving yourself too much credit. I'm sure he doesn't wanna fuck you. Unless you're secretly shyla stylez. Are you shyla stylez? Because we'd all be lining up to fuck you then.

[DogEatsCat1973]

Tell him what you saw, ask him if he thinks like that about you, and if he wants it to happen he will say yes hoping it leads somewhere, then you just let him down!

[Thinkthought]

Let him have his porn time and his sexual fantasies. There is no harm in it.

[johnmichaei]

wow yes hot mom the mind works though

[Justinaveragedude]

I would just say, be direct, honest, tell him what the boundaries are. It sounds less like the issue is the porn and more that it is the type of porn. If you can have a simple conversation about it, it will spare a lot of embarrassment and you can come to a resolution.